my irl therapist thinks abandonment is a choice.
children choose to be abandoned.
she has no empathy.
she was a state prosecutor or something.
From now on she can't be trusted.
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@birdsnestfern
that video is correct.
but I was more helpless than he was.
so far I am on disability because I...
People look down on me because they are elitist, stupid or just wrong.
So at the core of it is my insecurity with people who are mean to me.
why are they mean if God is about love n' shit? it doesn't make sense.
its like the divide between left and right politics.
all atheists are becoming...
The problem with school is that it is not for people who want to understand things.
Factories do not require understanding they require you to learn the algorithms.
That is why I am going to become a janitor. I can't learn things fast.
It is good to work hard but then is it possible that personality at the core is what is able to change? Can you, for instance, change yourself to be the opposite of who you are? This all goes back to the ideology of behaviorism. What conditioning can and cannot do.
That is good. I have been...
I do not have an internal monologue or an inner vision. I do not talk to myself in my head or daydream. All my thinking is subsymbolic.
Hmm.. that is not the way my therapist is but only because I get the free government kind. If I could afford my own I would get a different one but mine is...
I think that creating emotional stability in others and ourselves is beneficial in all aspects. People want to be understood and I want that also. It is for me to learn how best to be empathic to others even if I am not acknowledged by them. What matters is that someone learns something, I would...
I walk to the soup kitchen 1.5 miles.
It is where they give free food to homeless people.
I met my attachment figure there (the one I consider my father)
I had not seen him in many years.
We did bible study together.
He had a hard two years and his heart is so small.
But I think he is getting...
I mean you can kill dogs that bite kids because then the dog is shown to be too dangerous for society to sustain. But in nature, this dog just wants to eat and not die. But then if you were to say torture that dog severy before killing it just to satisfy feelings most people would not approve of...
I was told I am an empath.
I know that I have good communication skills.
This could be because the body knows what is happening at a deeper level.
And we know how to react to situations in the correct ways.
I think it is important to listen, that way you can free your mind of built-up...
So you believe the brain is where it's at.
Then why is the brain flawed?
Because the brain is flawed.
Why does God not fix this?
That answer is that God is handicapped in what he can do.
These flaws will not be fixed until later when God has the capability.
I was told I should sit with the pain and embrace it.
I feel it for a reason and that is because I was hurt.
If you are hurt it means you need help.
But if it was others that hurt you help is hard to find.
You expect it to come from everyone creating fear.
How do you overcome fear?
Trust.
I think my mother is schizoid and I am avoidant.
I experienced abuse in infancy from my father.
Paranoid – believes in mind reading, being watched
Schizoid – lack of affect and unaffected by others
Schizotypal – atypical beliefs (flat earth)
Antisocial – only self-interested...
Utopia
The problem with Marxism is not economics, it's Atheism.
People need something to live for. So they believe in stuff. Marxism says we can make a utopia if we stop the capitalists from stealing surplus wealth and distributing it to the workers in a coe-op. The problem is utopias need...
What did he not understand about humans?
Mysticism has something to do with the peak spiritual experience.
That one comes in contact with the divine.
And that this divinity is a person.
Disunity with the divine has everything to do with the enclosure of the ineffable away from the human...
I think Destiny can mean many things but in the meaningful sense, it means the purpose of one's life. As the oracle in the matrix says: we are here to do what we are all here to do.
It seems like this has happened to me several times, I have had many deja vu moments in my life. It seems that video games exist where I had to replay them many times to get past the levels I was on. This is in real life also. I disagree with people who say things do not exist until you look at...
I think physical action is separate from Jungian cognition. Or, How do you separate Ti from Te ? Any type can utilize all of their functions but the distinction of the dom I or E is important. E is the case where we have the interactions with the outside world. ISTP would use cognition in action...
I am not sure.
It seems that Ti would be in the head or more and be like: The orientation introversion is taking hold of the concept from the inside.
I don't want to mix Ti with either Ne or Se in the essence of what it is because those result in two different things. Ti Se would not be "Why?"...
Under a reward and punishment metric and with the right underlying structures a.i. can be trained to implement certain actions. This is different than embodiment but what may happen is that a.i. teaches people what not to do by learning from supervision the way new teachers do. But this may only...
It might just be that this is a biological mechanism in the brain.
Under certain conditions this happens to people and in other conditions it can be reversed.
The per group matters, that is why I posted post #8. If you only have your group it is fine mostly because then you can weed out people who don't get along. But then it may be that because groups got so large people began to start thinking it was ok to do certain things. Whether it is ok or not...
Care/Harm
Fairness/Cheating
Loyalty/Betrayal
Authority/Subversion
Sanctity/Degradation
Liberty/Oppression.
Care and Fairness are important in a city because people can get away with a lot just by being anonymous. But in a small town loyalty and authority are important because you are not...
The value system of any human comes from the limbic system. Children do not know any better when it comes to helping others than most adults but they want what any organism wants. To be out of danger and with the attachment figures. The group is set to be your team in nature so protecting the...
@scorpiomover
I made it more literal (less abstract) so you can understand.
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Se: I literally see the actual person Jane in front of me.
Ni: Jane the person will literally do action x in the future.
Ne: Hypothetically what if Jane the person were an elephant in the hypothetical place Carrot...
You have these mixed up.
You have to understand these are abstract condensed examples of Jung not to be taken literally.
A person with Ti would judge that the entity Jane is an elephant or something else and that is Ti but a person with Si would perceive that the entity Jane is an elephant...
Seems like he is talking about himself in all those things.
schizoid - deprived in infancy of safety, puts all effort into safe things: intellect
OCPD - avoid a painful memory, put efforts into work or addiction, compulsion to perform.
Borderline - emotional instability
Narcissism - over...
Well, it would not be a "theory" it would be a hypothetical first.
1. Confidence is a matter of self-reinforcement.
2. Groups create cohesion in per-group self-reinforcement.
3. Intelligence can isolate people from other groups.
4. This isolation happens at certain density levels.
115 is the...
Ti is a judgment function but Si is a perception function
In Ti: Jane is an elephant; Jane is not human and is an actual elephant
In Si: Jane is an elephant; the human Jane is seen as a scary elephant
Si: means anything can be anything in the primitive sense like how Jung said Si types see...
Yes, I made the image from another image. Would that change anything to do with the discussion about confidence levels? Do you have an opinion on that?
The wiring is set to handle multiple things at once.
I have ideas of how to make computers do the same thing.
It is about directing information in and out of long term memory.
And it is about holding perceptual information as well.
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The problem is that when you can see so much about the...
More about group selection.
The people who are not good at taking care of themselves die out.
With the internet, these people who make men or women feel bad are noise makers. Only like five percent but they affect all of us. If you find it hard to interact with women or men then it may be that...
I read that before the age of 12, you are in the concrete operational phase of cognition.
That means that 10 percent of the adult population who cannot understand hypothetical scenarios have that level of mentality.
I separate cognition from emotional maturity though. Some people have superior...
Some say suffering is not evil.
Yet so long as suffering is not evil then god has no reason to stop suffering.
If suffering is not evil then it does not matter if I make others suffer or if god does it.
But if it is the preference that suffering does not happen then god does not want it.
The...
peer group is hard to form and this is not about people above them but about people close to them in relateability. fewer people can be among 155 in intellect and in what they find interesting.
Confidence is not on the axis of skills. That is why I tried to make my description clear: social reinforcement vs isolation + ability. If you are semi-smart and everyone is telling you are smart this will be different from a person who is smart and everyone is telling them they are dumb. 155 is...
At any peak in confidence, people do not realize they are at the top because of how successful they are. An example would be that someone at 155, even if at the genius level, has the lowest levels of confidence above 145. The reason is that they cannot find anyone above them and yet they yearn...
The least damaged are more likely to separate from the most damaged. Therefore the demographics are not equal. Some people just get along better than others and so they congregate outside those who don't. The parents of the least damaged usually raise their kids to avoid the morally damaged...
What do they need then?
The 1950s required factory workers but not today.
Today to get on in society what would a child need to learn or be told to do?
The entire body and psychology of a person.
If you want a mate and you don't care about what they have in terms of materials, what criteria do you go on to choose someone?
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