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Im not a therapist or anything but it sounds like you have a bad case of learned helplessness mixed with very low self esteem. Developing learned helplessness is not your fault, once you know what it is it is your responsibility to fix it. A therapist could help you a lot with these issues. Do...

There is a raccoon living in my ceiling, and I feel weird having to explain to my dogs that its ok, that noise is just the raccoon.

Like, I asked a bunch of random people online for help, and got help.

Pick it up and turn it to break eye contact, disqualifying the cat.

I have been in a rut for a while now, since I lost my job I cannot pursue the career I wanted. I want to flip cars, I have learned enough now, I just need to get a bit of start up money. I should have already had the ball rolling but I got kinda shafted with one of my cars. I always admired...

Im the same way, avoiding them has just drawn this out. its way harder for a guy since women never take the first step, at least where I live they don't. I understand Adaire wasn't mocking me I was just in a bad mood.

modern problems require modern solutions lions.

So i had an idea for a thread, How to beat a cat in a staring contest. The idea would be coming up with the most creative/outrageous methods. Thoughts??

I like to be challenged, but more so I like to challenge. Nobody ever really tries to challenge me irl, besides my shitty high school teachers.

yo, my eyes are like the climate, and my brain is like the human population. for realz though why do my eyes give out before everything else? oh nevermind that what happens when you stare at a computer screen all day.

I will teach you how to build a car engine if you teach me how to be alpha AF

If you are depressed or upset about your position you may feel better knowing that You are what I was heading for. we are the same age, if not for one very inappropriate student-teacher relationship I would most likely be you. It crushed my heart, ruined my life for months, and made me suicidal...

I have to replace a disgusting drain pipe, in near freezing temperatures, in mud, that is probably 4 inches deep. ree I hate getting wet.

there's a huge list of mental health problems that cause...problems. maybe try seeing a therapist, research your symptoms. If you are like i was you probably wont care to fix yourself once you find out what it is, you will deem yourself superior. life is complicated and dont let anyone tell you...

It wont work if you go into it thinking they are trash and being a dick. Find someone whom is smart enough you can respect, but kind enough that you can learn from. ( if you are young try not to do this with a woman twice your age it doesnt work well)

wow a sims reference, and here we thought you were straight. its ok it will work better this way. Buddha-any straight man is 5 birth control pills away from being bi.

community parenting, that's a thing somewhere. On a serious note I think I just figured out why I was so hell bent on learning when I was younger. the amount of epiphanys is way too damn high

oh. Yes I would totally have adopted kids with rebis now.

I called him a narcissist. I was having a bad day and skimmed a thread and saw him talking about popularity and climbing the social ladder for a girl. I dont think he actually is a narcissist.

at some point you decided knowledge is the most valuable trait, and you devalued everything else. Maybe if you figured out when and why you did that you can healthy. I was kind of like that when I was younger, because I didnt fit in, the other people seemed stupid and self destructive, I did not...

If she cant handle you with one starchip, she doesn't deserve you as king of cards. Does anyone know how to replace a straight section of pvc pipe? drain Water pipe under my house broke but im not sure how to replace just the area, its at a joint if the makes any difference. its about 30 ft...

the cool thing about a duel disc is you can use it to fight off women, so they cannot steal your virginity. this is important because losing your virginity before marriage is automatic banishment to the shadow realm.

NO Im talking about those little secret edge of the building lead to the maintenance room stairwells, I call them lairwells, im so funny I I found one of these and nobody ever really used it, but when they did I got really weird looks. One day a bunch of sweaty girls walked through talking about...

stop being a fucking normie and use the stairwell like an intp. sarcasm

I actually might need to rely on it just to get to the point of wanting to socialize. anxiety makes life difficult

misunderstand me once shame on you, misunderstand me twice shame on me. I will in future posts be more clear, and not rude about someone misunderstanding my poorly written post.

Im trying to make an effort to get out of the house, getting a job and making some kind of life. I downloaded one of those friend meet up/do things-apps it was pretty barren and while searching for it I found at least 15 or 20 other apps just like it for certain types of individuals, blacks...

The concept of breakfast food is absurd, eggs are under developed chicken fetus's, so just give me real food and stop trying to sell me chicken abortions for fuck sake. time doesnt even exist fr

Its never been this bad, its coming off 2 medications at the same time causing it. worry not my friend I have been much worse off. Wanting to die isnt the same as being prepared to kill myself. It just means dying sounds nice. also I feel much better now, I have had a few realizations about...

Thanks it is nice to see some people have the same issues. At the time her life was falling apart and her "soul mate" had just crushed her soul. She isnt a pedophile, its understandable how one person could crush you and cause you to immediately bond with that persons polar opposite. I did a...

I will think about it. thanks for taking the time to actually help me, I know you aren't just hear to argue. I do appreciate it.

@Rebis You really dont know what you just did for me. Destroyed the fuck out of my pity party. little red cups everywhere. I call that a successful social interaction.

Im glad I can look at things like this that are so upsetting and take a second to realize it is true. Multiple gaskets were blown You do for the most part decide if you grow from something or get hurt by it. Ey thanks for sticking with it, you are a decent guy. Most people would have gotten...

My dad beat my mom my brother and me, my mom lost custody of me and in the most influential time of my life all I had was a man who would only touch me to hit me. Im sorry if you can never understand why this woman meant so much to me or why it hurt me so deeply. I have deliberately tried not to...

this is the first time I have ever talked about this or brought it up since it happened. so you can gtfo with that attitude.

The only unique thing is that she was the parent role and mate, when she disappeared it hurt much more deeply than just a girlfriend, I felt abandon and betrayed. she was my one person in the whole world. I do not and have not had a bond like that with anyone, not my parents not friends, no one...

1 you are really underestimating how odd I was as a young man 2 correct, she was basic, but to me she was special 3 I think my change was quite unique but that isnt a debate because there is no proof of any of it and I dont know what you experience. ( im admitting you are right hesitantly) I...

Im not saying she was perfect at all, she was messed up. But she was and still is the only person I have every clicked with, we had a very similarly bad past which made us bond quickly and deeply. (Not the first girl to like me or date me)

Before her I did not experience emotions. I felt nothing, I had no self esteem(not low or high), I just was. I did not bond. In the beginning I only felt emotion through empathizing with her. I did not ever crave affection before her, I didnt even like being touched. I DID NOT UNDERSTAND...

You truly do not understand. but it is ok you shouldn't.

This thread was about her too : https://www.intpforum.com/threads/another-question.24547/

this is the thread about her: https://www.intpforum.com/threads/quick-question.24204/ I really cannot read that thread, its still too raw. Im just starting to forget it. on a side note I think I figured out why im terrified of women.

I honestly have tried very hard to fix myself, I really have.

I think I know what to do now thanks everyone.

DONT YOU FEEL FOOLISH one neutral boi with a preference for chaos

Apparently I can deadlift 310lbs with no training, i weigh 170. After one lift I was like ha yeah not again, I kept my back straight but it was my max for sure. Is trap bar cheating? asking for a friend. am I a chaotic neutral or chaotic good?

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