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Tomorrow im going on a date for the first time in about 2 or 3 years. It will be the second date I have ever been on. Im not actually scared though, I seem to have become much more social since my cuddle session. Speaking of which, my social anxiety is almost completely gone. I havent been...

People need to stop throwing food in the trash. When you do this you are sending all the nutrients to a landfill, contaminating them and making them unusable, so throw it in your yard or spoil your doggo.

:cat: I dont want that talk, forget I said anything.

Neat, I thought I was alone. No get a safety razor, straight razors are a pain to keep sharp and actually require technique. stop it stop it stop it. Banish that POS razor or electric shaver to hell. A safety razor will last you for the rest of your life, give you a better shave, because...

Thats a great way of putting it. when life gets hard people have more trouble seeing long term goals, or even remembering that there is a tomorrow. Yes its been a theme throughout my life. I feel like I am making a lot of progress. Im proud that Im finally seeing the parts of me that were...

I missed this. do you mean there are parts of yourself that are very complex and parts that are extremely simple? or are you eccentric with an unusual batch of characteristics, or both of those are wrong.

Yes, my ability to pick up on flirting is quite advanced. I was pretty funny drunk, I could send you a clip of something I found hilarious. My hair was atrocious though, eek idk. the try guys...I guess I will check them out.

I think I have my new favorite thing to say. progress! Im glad you got a laugh out of it. Im sorta shy sorta willing to be a total weirdo. I think it would be so funny to beat up a macho man in a cheerleader outfit. damn Im too old to adopt, SEE if you dont act you miss out!

I really like telling people im dumb, it sets standards low, easy to impress. im weak.

Absolutely true. Go back in time and tell that to 13yo Peoplesuck, he needs your wisdom. smart assery aside, one of two real narcissists I have met had low self esteem, but she was still better than everyone, of course. I see what you mean, If I think people are reacting to me, I will have a...

My first love interest was a 40 y.o woman, I was 16. I blame her for my taste in older women, gross ik (not grandmas) Good on you, progress! Changing yourself for someone probably isnt ever going to work or be worth it. Its hard to find decent people, you have to make moves or you will let...

Am I the only one who shaves completely dry? my skin doesnt handle shaving cream or after shave...Am I an alien or? btw if you arent using a safety razor or a straight razor, you are a part of the problem, and I despise your life choices

The fact that you would put up with that sort of thing is insane, only a person with low self esteem would allow that. It would be wrong to tell you how wrong it is to let someone treat you like that, fucking obviously you didnt want that for yourself. It makes me sad to think someone so nice...

thanks, Im a good person deep down. I just realized im going through my expressive rebellious phase. Me and my 7yo nephew decided to dye my hair we agreed on silver. Also it seems like guys are either apha winners or shy insecure guys like me. It is irrational to expect a guy like me to be...

I could count the times a women have flirted with me on one hand. Im so used to being an outcast that saying make up is required to look profession means nothing. Does it even count if the flirts are from my moms older friends? @Polaris I will get back to you when I am ready. Im not feeling...

If you have small tits, take birth control, if you have a flat ass do squats. If you are a man wtf do you do, get 70k plastic surgery, go to school for 8 years to have the wealth women want? And if youre short, well your fucked. It feels like everyone is super shallow and not worth their weight...

This wasnt really constructive criticism, just mean spirited bitching. You seem like a nice person and this was out of line. sorry.

Thanks Polaris, I wasnt looking at the big picture, I just felt like I was oversharing and being annoying. when you have low self esteem you naturally feel unwanted. I hadnt considered anyone really learning from my posts. I agree that there are some very insightful, and considerate people...

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I guess I had forgotten how mbti works. Yes Irl people typically think im a robot, and thats probably because I wanted them to, until now. I suppose you have a point there. sorry if its annoying how clueless I am. I know im not really putting enough effort into posts, I sort of feel exhausted...

I will just use the women freak me out thread as mine, the title is already perfect. I just realized what im making is a diary...me writing a diary. Do I actually seem to be an intp? I think Im way more emotional than most people here.

in my experience acknowledging sexually explicit or borderline inappropriate behavior on the part of girls never has any advantageous effects, in fact it usually seems like it's a test of whether you will react to it and get all frothy-mouthed. Like you suggested I usually say "cool, thanks" or...

Hey thanks. I actually have most of the characteristics of high iq, except the high iq:hypnotized: im just special this isnt the entp girl of my dreams. That girl reminds me of my teacher and im not sure I could date someone who reminds me of her. Im not disqualifying her yet though. I am...

yes it has come full circle, we are helping the "subjugated people" more than everyone else, regardless of actual need. You know, giving out scholarships based on race, because thats totally not racist.

It blows my mind that im somehow linked to people that did things to other people 200 years ago. Its close minded to think i am somehow responsible and owe anyone an apology for something that happened before I was alive. racism is just silly, the fact that its still a thing, or rather that...

Ive been lying in bed for 3 hours unable to sleep. I think I figured something out. My whole life I have been shy, timid, and insecure, masquerading as gentle. I always thought my true nature was cruel and destructive. It is not though. my destructive true nature is just a lifetime of misguided...

I relate to this so much. I dont stutter but sometimes I literally talk so fast noone can understand me. I can relate to not trying until after high school, I found them attractive but I was way too shy and too little confidence. they were like inside a glass box and I was outside, i was...

I get that. Ive been shy to the point of avoiding women my whole life. Im just now starting to actually improve. Im not sure what to say to help, I think it has to do with feeling unworthy, you are scared to see rejection on their face. Its also just genetic, autism, learned, I would suspect...

She is sending me pictures of her ass in skimpy underwear, does that mean she wants to be more than friends? Better keep gathering data, wouldnt want to assume anything.

I recently realized how long I have used this forum, I sort of feel at home here. This place is like a mental tennis court. we're all just bouncing the ball off the wall.

Thanks, i'm getting strong mom vibes from you. you have a big heart. positivity is nice every once in a while too. :wilt: it sounds stupid and cliche, but she seems like the one I have been waiting for. The universe just got the memo that I was still single LUL Edit: welp tonight it became...

Im not going to say how we got to the point, but at one point we where talking about 2 things at the same time, they where guy fieri hentai and a neglected child I know. I could not believe we held a conversation like that, I was genuinely impressed. I mean we had a very serious talk about a...

Hey thanks. Im excited about it. No way there are more of us?! I love speaking in youth slang ironically, its kinda my favorite. So far it has driven my other friends insane, but she does it and has a laugh over it, I dare say she does it more than I do. Thanks again. Im not super sure as to...

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER LAD!

Once I was watching anatomy videos and I stumbled upon a video of a cadaver being dissected/skinned. Burned into my brain forever, I regret watching, but I couldnt not Tomorrow Im going to the thrift store to grab some knee high leather boots and convert them into what I actually want. I get...

I sorry to hear that, It must be very tough being unable to reach him. Its pretty damned hard to help someone who wont let you. I like mom jeans too. My fashion sense is sooo weird, believe me. I dont wear mom jeans I just think they are the coolest. may try some day. My favorite shoes are...

Yes you are quite complex.

And that kids is how I met your mother. My phone is fucked so it doesnt type right. Apparently she is an entp and I have never sensed an actual...Intellect, like this before. Im not saying shes a genius but shes NOT FUCKING DUMB WAOOH. I mean outside intpf, you guys are very smart. ily all She...

Tell me how close I got when you figure it out. I just realized something, I have become way more gentle and empathetic since I cuddled with that person... What if im an infp and I just needed love

@Inexorable Username At some point you had a belief close to your heart that someone proved wrong, now you are like an adult who was raped as a child, having some weird desire to be what hurt you. OR At some point someone made you feel small and worthless with words and reasons, now thats how...

You are right, spot on, in fact. I have never had a single male role model that I have looked up to. My mom dated losers my whole life. Currently I look up to elon musk, I really to aspire to be like him. I would be a woman at the drop of the hat if it were an option. real xx female I agree...

Oh thanks! Feel free to analyze away, thats sort of how I have bean learning about myself and others. I love all animals, except centipedes, fuck those. Buddhism is what allowed me to bounce back after a super depressing point in my life, I think the spiritual stuff is none sense but the message...

Im being annoying again.

I appreciate the thought that you put into this response. I realize that I have been putting on an act for others, for a long time. Its like im trying to participate in the game but I refuse to accept the rules. I agree that labeling yourself is restrictive and silly, Im not the same person I...

I just had a stupid realization: acknowledging your true nature is not the same as being true to it. I think Im bitter about certain things because I deny myself the luxury of being a flawed human, I have been separated from some normal human traits so long I forgot I have them in me too. fuck...

yep.

I would rather dive into the information rather than separate it. its sort of like biology, I would rather learn about everything and not waste half the time learning about what class each thing is. I guess it can be important but I just dont care. Edit: it is almost a complete waste of my time...

I found your video interesting, I think the world would be a better place if more people appreciated the animals and plants that make the whole thing possible.