It has been suggested that introverted people would do well finding a more extraverted partner "to balance things out", and a Thinker should look for a Feeling type, but I don't think I want any of that anymore. So my ideal partner would have to be an INTP or an INTJ.
My partner would have to be financially independent, because making money is not my thing. In fact, my ideal partner would allow ME to be financially independent, so that I can spend my time writing a book or engaging in activism.
Regarding looks, I think I prefer brunettes, but that's not really an issue. I like women that look natural, as far as their make-up and style of clothing is concerned. A bohemian appearance would be cool, but I don't like piercings. There's already so much metal in the world, the last place I want to see more of it is attached to the nipples of my beloved. Tattoos I like however.
The shape of her body or her boobies isn't that important, as long as she's physically fit. I must spontaneously be attracted to her face though. That includes the look in her eyes, the texture of her skin, the symmetry of her face in general, and the length of her hair (I don't like short hair). Dreads? Perhaps. I think I prefer straight hair.
My ideal partner would have a warm, soothing voice, and an authentic smile on her face.
She would have to be someone who likes to read nonfiction, watch documentaries and do other forms of research. Someone who's well-versed in psychology, philosophy and spirituality, who is an intellectual but free from academic arrogance. She should have no interest in sitcoms and soaps.
It would be cool if she appreciated a wide range of music, including progressive rock, psychedelia, metal and electronic music, as well as Indian ragas, psychill, ambient and so on.
She wouldn't smoke tobacco.
She would need to have no issues with my daily/weekly vaporizing of ganja, although she wouldn't have to herself. She must be interested in psychedelics however, as I certainly want to trip together, and will occasionally need a sitter.
I would love to live in a commune again (or create one myself), so she'd have to be open for that. Communes are great, but not so great for monogamy, so she'd have to be open for threesomes and the like.
She'd have to be about my length, and she'd have to live nearby, because I'm not interested in an e-relationship or lots of travelling for an occasional fuck. Partner means roommate or someone from the neighborhood.
She must not be interested in having children, because I already have two (who are now 10 and 12) and that will be all for me.
My ideal partner would be sufficiently learned not to feel uncomfortable about my learning. She would not treat me like a guru or a father figure. In fact I'd have to be careful not to treat her like a guru.
She'd have to understand that when I withdraw myself from her to read or investigate something on the internet, I'll sooner or later get back to her. She must be a person that doesn't like to waste time. She must value autonomy and freedom above everything else.
