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Your Ideal Female 'Partner'

Peeps999

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Hmm I feel like I feel weird because my girlfriend actually meets my requirements

Enjoys intelligent conversation
Completely respects my space and doesn't try to change who I am
Accepts and relates with the parts the of me that could probably have me considered insane
Lots of sex
Open minded to new things
Treats me as an equal
Enjoys music
Attractive(definitely not going to break me liking them, but it's nice to have)

There is probably something I'm forgetting, but I'll leave it as it is.
 

speiss

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I would really really want her to be a ninja.
 

Czech Yes or No

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Oh, my dear @Minuend, a parody? Don't make me laugh.

If my partner is unable to keep up with me, then how shall we ever survive?

Love is a battlefield.

Battlefield? 3?
dum dum dum.dum dum
 

Lydia

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Oh look I am one of those typical noobfag sort of guys.
But my babe?

Well.
1. Don't be a bitch to me
2. Rock me on your lap and feed me cookies
3. Don't be a slut
4. Be good in bed (In other words, be a slut...you bitch)
5. Cook me food "Hey what you doing here? Aren't you meant to be in the kitchen?"
6. Fill my ego, am I hot?
7. Fill my ego, again. Cover my insecurities babe.
8. If I hit on another girl, like the noobfag and worthless guy I am. Don't get all whingy about it.
10. Wear those skimpy type of clothes, "Ah damn, you look fine". Eh... "You are beginning to remind me of a slut"

(For 11 and onwards, I am sure that will be obliged. Since it is a common trait in today's society)



That would be all.
 

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Hmm I feel like I feel weird because my girlfriend actually meets my requirements

Enjoys intelligent conversation
Completely respects my space and doesn't try to change who I am
Accepts and relates with the parts the of me that could probably have me considered insane
Lots of sex
Open minded to new things
Treats me as an equal
Enjoys music
Attractive(definitely not going to break me liking them, but it's nice to have)


Consider yourself lucky! I'm looking for the same exact qualities in a girl. Haven't found one yet.
 

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INTP males dig what about women?

Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life-- Ayn Rand

Really would like to discover whether or not my personal taste in women is the norm for INTP males, or the anomaly...OR, perhaps, male INTPs have varied and non-typified tastes in this regard?...

Ideally, what has appealed to me most are somewhat reserved, introverted, semi-intellectual types who are pretty/beautiful in subtle and unique/individual ways...Ever hear the expression, "I don't know, there's just something about her."...

They're usually socially/politically middle of the road, like myself...The 'independents' in the population who ultimately decide elections...Smart and opinionated, but not so much that it's a threat to my level of display...Plus, an overt display in this department would be seen as a definite turnoff for me...I don't want to hear the same vitriolic rants that spew from my own mouth...The 'reserved' criteria must still hold true...For some reason, traditional females are the most appealing to me, although I thoroughly detest displays of conformity, especially religious ones...Go figure.

Sweet, but not sickeningly so...Empathetic, but not a tree-hugging liberal...A well-proportioned body...Ten to twelve extra pounds, totally ok...Fifteen extra, way too many...lol...Brunette, for sure...Definitely not an overtly sexually agressive woman...But, most definitely sexually responsive in the right setting...Basically, a monogamous slut who almost appears almost prudish to outsiders who don't know any better...A well thought out and internally consistent life-philosophy which evidences depth of intelligence...Plus, probably a bunch more stuff.

Want to know if this overview sounds like the average taste for INTP men...I would like for GUYS to be completely honest here about their actual tastes, and confess whether or not intellectually shallow women, with big fake boobs and bleach-blonde hair are what really attracts them most...

Just because this is my own personal taste, doesn't mean that this is the type of female I've spent the most time with over the years...I've had two long-term g-friends which meet this paricular criteria...Maybe I'm romanticizing the past, and unconsciously crave what I was once most happiest with...

As the years have passed, this type of lass is usually the female most inclined to go for the safe, well-established, social-conformist, bread-winning type of dudes...The county or state worker who has full benefits and is happy to work in the garage and watch episodes of Will and Grace seems to be the type most appealing to them...

DO INTPs go for a specific type of WOMAN?
 

ProxyAmenRa

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Re: INTP males dig what about women?

I an INTJ but I will answer anyway.

I like intelligent, knowledgeable, curious, independent, blunt/sarcastic, assertive, outgoing, creative, libertarian, average or above average physically attractive, not over-weight, women. The aspects pertaining to the character/personality are more important than the physical appearance. Most importantly, not a leftist or an authoritarian right winger.
 

mu is mu

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Re: INTP males dig what about women?

Hm... Well, in some ways different INTPs are obviously more similar to each other than they are to people of other personality types, but in other regards (e.g., religion, hobbies) a certain INTP may have more in common with a certain ESTP than with another INTP. Because of this I'm curious to see what types of answers the INTPs on this forum will give to your question.

For me personally, I suppose I have these three main criteria for an ideal woman: 1.) Christian character, 2.) physical attractiveness, and 3.) a certain level of intelligence. If I perceive that a woman is deficient in any of these three areas, then I won't be attracted to her in any significant degree and subsequently won't even consider her to be an option for me.
 

EyeSeeCold

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Re: INTP males dig what about women?

Your Ideal Female 'Partner'

Is:
-Emotionally: healthy, mature, calm and direct
-Physically/Sexually: attractive, active, confident and especially athletic
-Intellectually: curious (don't have to be a genius, street smarts are even better)
-Spiritually: curious
-Open to new experiences, is classy & cocky, likes going out, has good music taste, and is an initiator in general
-Good with people
-has a home-y / down-to-earth side
-has a kinky side
-Not a whore in any way, shape or form(i.e. does not have self-esteem issues combined with a need to seek sexual and social validation)
-Moral / has good character
I could get more specific I think, but it'd be too detailed.

To some extent there is an average female that is generally okay regardless of my preferences, but at the same time there are some things I'm not compatible with and actually repulse me. A deal breaker is someone who can't control their emotions, this has nothing to do with being a Thinking type. There are females out there who can restrain themselves and treat others with respect.
 

Cognisant

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*sigh* I dunno, it feels wrong to say I want this or that in a woman, y'know different people have different charms and do I really know what's best for me, I doubt it.

*ponders for a while*

Shouldn't think about these things.

Because if I do really think about then I realise the desire for women at all is chemical, I don't actually want anyone as far as my mind is concerned, well sure there's infantile desires for emotional/psychological support, but as I said they're infantile, I don't need someone to care about me, I don't need someone to be nice to me, I don't need someone to understand and appreciate me, I don't really need any of it.

They're wants, nothing worth giving a damn about, the perfect example is that I want to get laid, but I can live without it, because it's not who I am that wants this it's what I am and the more I think about it the more disgusted I am that I'm subject to these arbitrary desires. A denial of agency coming from within my own body, forces bending my will and distracting my mind, it's infuriating, all the more so as I am seduced by the pleasure of it, torn between wanting and hating it.

I would free myself from these shackles of humanity if I could, but I can't just yet so I guess I want some sweet, loving, long legged, large breasted, seductive creature to warm me through the night, and shamelessly so, I mean why should I apologise for being what I am if I never had a choice in the matter?
 

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I'm not hung up on looks at all. If I had to pick one look it would be nerdy. More important: highly intelligent, similar interests and worldview. INTP preferred.
 
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