meshram.alok
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I Love this thread.
I worked with an INTJ during a summer internship at a firm, and though I initially thought we would be a good team, it started falling apart right from the beginning. He was always focused on achieving something, and I was always looking at a new possibility, or developing new connections with different subjects (Applying Digital Signal Processing to Power, Or Electronics to Digital Signal Processing), and though he appreciated it, he wouldn't like it if I went too far, and would stop me, stating, "you aren't logical".
I often felt as if he was trying to control me in order to achieve his goals, as he would often direct me to do his bidding, or so I felt. He was indeed very honest about things, and would genuinely appreciate my strengths. But what I didn't like was his preoccupation with achievement, which led him to drive me (which I hate extremely).
Well, looking back, I think it was an ego struggle. Both of us are very amibitious, and he wanted a result, and I wanted to create something new, somewhat competing purposes. In the end, we stopped working as a team and he started focusing on making ties with other office people in order to learn how to handle being successful in a similiar situation in the future.
This I completely despised, and kept working on my own little venture (which wasn't appreciated at all, adding to my frustration).
After all this, though, I've seen the "Opening up" side of his (very rarely seen by anyone else), and sometimes I stir something in him that suddenly makes him interested in me again, and I feel as if we're long lost friends. But mostly I still despise him.
I worked with an INTJ during a summer internship at a firm, and though I initially thought we would be a good team, it started falling apart right from the beginning. He was always focused on achieving something, and I was always looking at a new possibility, or developing new connections with different subjects (Applying Digital Signal Processing to Power, Or Electronics to Digital Signal Processing), and though he appreciated it, he wouldn't like it if I went too far, and would stop me, stating, "you aren't logical".
I often felt as if he was trying to control me in order to achieve his goals, as he would often direct me to do his bidding, or so I felt. He was indeed very honest about things, and would genuinely appreciate my strengths. But what I didn't like was his preoccupation with achievement, which led him to drive me (which I hate extremely).
Well, looking back, I think it was an ego struggle. Both of us are very amibitious, and he wanted a result, and I wanted to create something new, somewhat competing purposes. In the end, we stopped working as a team and he started focusing on making ties with other office people in order to learn how to handle being successful in a similiar situation in the future.
This I completely despised, and kept working on my own little venture (which wasn't appreciated at all, adding to my frustration).
After all this, though, I've seen the "Opening up" side of his (very rarely seen by anyone else), and sometimes I stir something in him that suddenly makes him interested in me again, and I feel as if we're long lost friends. But mostly I still despise him.
