So you guys are ENFP experts! I would really value your opinion on the following.
I am now actually hanging with a new girl who I think is ENFP, but she is actually the first real life person I have typed as ENFP, so I need to know if these are correct traits of an ENFP (below describes her particularly):
- She is anti-discrete, she blurts out everything to anyone.
- She is socially fast. She says whats on her mind directly in an impulsive way. (She is so fast that she can outperform a Te-dom in a conversation.) She tires introverted people down because she is such a fast talker, people wish she would have an "off button" but she does not.
- Actually she goes off when alone, she can also be a bit depressed at those moments. Although nobody usually sees this, she openly tells about this when not alone.
- She mocks about herself to the max, and often. (Her ego is so ridiculously large that its not egoistical anymore, but just ridiculous/funny.)
- She is loud at social occassions, without shame (never in a cheap way, but still a bit obnoxious),
- She is ADHD-like. She can run aorund like crazy until she collapses and retreats into her bed.
- It may seem to new strangers that she judges fast (e.g. as if she keeps a low number of options and is judgemental), but she just chooses impulsively, because she sees way too many options and she will just choose any option impulsively (which looks like judging fast) because its too overwhelming .
- Her dressing style is very expensive brands, but not as in "the common Louis Vuitton bag all the ESFPs have", but its totally different and unique stuff as in "what nobody else has". She actually shops around for them on ebay, and re-sells the stuff too on ebay. (something an ESFP would never do, since they want it from the nice expensive shop).
- She thinks she is very hot/sexy and classy/proper at the same time, although a bit true actually, her dressing style is also a bit wacky which takes away from both the hot/sexy and classy/proper, she doesnt see that wackiness herself, she is oblivious to seeing it.
- She could/would try any drug, "bad hot boyfriend" or any "so-called bad thing", since she is open-minded enough for anything. She would also be able to kick it out any time, she'd rather be into something new instead of staying addicted. Evidence is there that she already tried many and kicked them out easily also once tried.
- She can zoom-out into abstract stuff on worldly level, and she actually understands. Thus she is very intelligent and could score high on an IQ test. Yet she is unable to run her own concrete life properly (as in living wealthy for example). (She neglects the concrete, because she focuses more on the abstract.)
Guys, is all of this typically ENFP? (or maybe some of it not so?), your expert opinion is appreciated...!
