The truth? The truth is there, if you yourself understand that truth, then that is enough. Society is what it is and in order to participate in it, you must accept its capital condition.
Why? I mean, I realize that for some practical purposes it's unavoidable, but we need not be passive cogs in the system.
It doesn't "force"; at least, not to the extent I'm sensing your expressing. There are many women presidents, high ranking officials, etc. But the numbers favor men. Does this mean women are forced and that the numbers are rubbish? No, its simply the usual lack of objectivity(T) we find in women. Modern society can't force our personalities.
Your mother, sister, female friends etc. List all of their traits. If you believe that their true personality is not what they show because of society's influence, you should ask about their happiness.
To change your entire self, in exchange for society's acceptance and the dissatisfaction as a result of it, even when society is already quite flexible, would be an unrealistic event.
The extent of the difficulty your expressing is exaggerated. That personality will manifests itself, in such a way that it would lead to an easier obtainment of the position. This is, in turn, "unfair" for the other types. Plus, a strong decisive leader would understand those norms and if effective enough, would be able to handle this problem and include it to the rest of their problems.
You're misinterpreting my use of the word "force". Of course society can't dictate our personalities, but it can restrict us from implementing them in the manner to which they are most conducive.
Think purely in terms of getting the opportunity to gain positions of authority. Historically speaking, it's an extremely recent development for women to even legally have the right to try for such positions, and it's still only prevalent in the most developed countries. And once they legally had the right, it was still a long time before they were truly considered feasible candidates (much like third party candidates in the US right now).
That's what I meant by "forced into an artificial minority". Being prevented from gaining positions of authority caused them to be a minority in those positions. Being part of a minority is intrinsically a position of weakness, which in turn prevents them from gaining power, which then in turn perpetuates their minority status.
As for women I know hiding their true personalities (btw, I am female), you're right. They don't really, which is exactly what I was saying. Many women have personalities which are compatible with society's view of women, and thus don't have a problem.
J (and T) women also behave in a manner which comes naturally to them and are derided with the aforementioned insults. So as for being able to incorporate those problems into the rest of their problems and deal with them, I don't care how strong a leader you are, constant negative reinforcement combined with a system that is stacked against you is going to take its toll.
Yes, people need to take responsibility for themselves and not blame society for everything, but there's only so long you can swim upstream without getting anywhere. Eventually they give up and don't change their personality, but become a bitter, twisted version of that personality (rather like the mental equivalent of foot-binding).
your view is that we cannot tell if dogs can't fly because of the possibility that they're afraid of the fact that they're not suppose to. But here's the case, they have instincts. It is natural, and nature will attest.
No, my view is that society believes that bats cannot fly because they are not birds.