How can you pretend to understand what you read from him? In previous threads numerous offers of help have been given, yet the topic is always altered in the favor of Zeldon, keeping himself hidden in a shroud of ambiguity. The ones who claim to understand don't really understand at all. You are just taking hir at face value.
Obviously, you didn't read my post, because I addressed that issue, by saying later on that I didn't wish to be presumptuous. But, I do identify with his main points, shall I break it down for you?
Point A:
I need to get a physical contact, maybe somewhere in Central California. I am thinking a Ti dominant ENFJ would be best...
Relation: For myself, I also the seek the same sort of connection - Ideally, I'd like an ENXX to hang out with
Point B:
I cannot headhunt worth shit, and I have a considerable lack of resources... I need at least someone who can help me work out my ideas
Relation: but more factors come into play for me now that hold me back, and with a partner, I would be able to solve the problem. (Factors of mine mostly being a lack of certain resources)
Maybe I'm simply as incomprehensible as him.
I'm not saying he's going about things the best way - in fact, that's precisely what has prevented me from posting anything before, because I don't like the way he/hir/her talks and addresses people either. But I do see people repeatedly trollingbullying him - for the sake of ease, I'm going to leave it at 'him' until otherwise clarified - and it's entirely unnecessary.
Ever heard don't feed the trolls? If you offer your help, and it's not helpful, and you try to clarify, and it seemingly can't be clarified - why go on the offense and get mad at him? Just let the issue drop, and next time it happens, if you're feeling generous, try again, if not - you're not required to post, you're not required to read it, etc. I don't see him spamming the forums by any means, yes, he's made a few selfish threads - but most my threads have been selfish in nature too.
Trolling is such a touchy thing these days too, as, by definition, a troll is simply there to incite a reaction, and by reacting (mostly in a negative manner) you're feeding the fire, so to speak, and letting the troll win, and in effect, start trolling yourself, often times.
So, let his posts fall into ancient history with a lack of replies (at least, once the lack of clarification has been exhausted, again, if we're feeling nice, I suppose.)
(On another note, I'm terrible at commas, but it's how my thought process was chopped up ^_^)
- Also, you've apparently missed him acknowledging some of the advice that was good - Need I point that out to you was well?
Sounds reasonable... I think consulting with people will allow me to make a more calculated decision.
In response to proxy.
Lpolar also apparently identifies with him to an extent - some of seem to be able to understand something from where he's coming from, even if it's not the exact problem.
You said so yourself; it's futile to continue posting - however, for YOU. Not necessarily him, as there is still valid input he may respond to (or choose not to, of course.) He could entirely reject what I said as completely off base, for which, I apologized if it was! But if it's not, well, who are you to not allow me to attempt to assist simply because you were unable to help, or comprehend? Also, who are you claim to understand what I'm able to understand in relation to someone else?
