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I appreciate the welcome and I think I will stick around. I'd like to gather more insight into the INTP world -- especially as it might apply to my current relationship but also as it lends to a general broadening of my understanding & perspective.

Nihilmatic, In what way are ESFJs "dumb"? How are you judging this?

Questions for INTPs It sort of blows my mind that there is an INTP forum filled with INTPs who actual interact and share their thoughts. How is this possible? Isn't thought-sharing one of your least favorite things? What motivated you to seek out a place like this in the first place?

Wow. This could have been a statement from my husband. Hearing it from another INTP makes me sad, though. I want to believe there is always hope, people can change and grow. You know -- the whole "where there's a will there's a way" thing. I want to convince him of this too. The fact that you so...

Hi Baccheion I find your statement "I personally can't stand ESFJs" a bit close-minded and insensitive but I'm going to assume you did not mean it in an offensive way and were simply stating a fact. Is that correct? Surely, you must know even within INTPs, ESFJs, and every personality type...

What were the positives as compared to other relationships you've had? Sorry. I tried to answer this but I'm probably not exactly understanding the question. I can't really think of general blanket positives compared to other relationships. Were you very much aligned in terms of values and...

As an ESFJ female married to an INTP male for 13 years (7 bad years & 2 separated) I would say if you're not already in a committed relationship with this combination, save yourself. Don't do it. It takes an enormous amount of effort and I'm my opinion, the INTP will give up on trying and leave...

I'm a female ESFJ married to a make INTP. (Yes, I'm sure that sounds like most of your worst nightmares but it really was good for a while.) We're pretty much at our end and I'm grasping at straws. My husband tried marriage counseling once a few years ago but the counselor and I both agreed...