You definitely seem more T than F, My mom is an ESTJ and lets just say our relationship blows.
I remember when she first opened her hair salon, at the time I was in boarding school and I got to come home on the weekends if i wanted to. She used to make me spend my weekends operating the front desk... FOR FREE, She refused to pay me for years, the best way to describe it was slavery. Also, after a hard week in school I would like to come home and stay up really late on my computer friday and saturday nights bc I didnt have school the next day. This really bugged the shit out of her, she couldnt stand knowing the fact that I was still awake and would make excuses of why I needed to go to bed, like that I was being too noisy or that my computer monitor was producing too much light and she could see it from her room with both of our doors closed, which was fucking BOGUS. Just small examples of estj mom.