It depends a lot what subject you are talking about. If done well, the so-called didactical reduction doesn't make the previously learned false. For instance, you cannot start with atomic models in 8th grade by explaining what atomic orbitals are (heck, I'm in 12th grade and I don't know it yet).
Yes, as you said...
if done well. Most of the time it isn't done well.
Instead of saying light travels instantaneously, she could have said it travels very very fast, so much that it
seems instantaneous to us. A couple of extra words make this completely true and yet a simplified explanation. Of course most people fail at doing this kind of simplification, and they go "whatever, it's the same" at me for pointing out their inaccuracies, but no you morons,
it is not the same!
The kind of crap one learns when young because of irresponsible adults, which later needs to be unlearned (and the time and effort thus wasted) is enormous. I'm a believer in doing things right the first time, so why have to re-teach people over and over again to clarify so-called simplifications that were unnecessary in the first place?
And in fact I do think we should start teaching physics from the bottom up, starting with fundamental forces and elementary particles and moving upwards instead of the other way. Most people never grasp all those things well and their connection to macroscopic events because they way things are structured a) treats children like idiots and b) leaves everything standing upon holes and 'simplification' patches to be 'fixed later' which ends up leaving people confused and with plainly false information. And then you get the worst kind of despicable ignorant people spouting pseudoscience left and right...
... and 'stupid science teachers'
(well perhaps elementary particles is going too far not to mention an area still with a lot of unkowns... but one could easily start at the atomic scale and take it from there)