What are you, a feeler?
2A) I like letting my wife lead and others but I have no problem leading if no one will step up or people are not comfortable leading.
2B) I always work to accomidate other peoples needs.
2C) I like being a provider of the family and since I was child I have always wanted to be a good father and husband. I want my family to feel safe and not wanting. I don't like doing this for people outside of this.
2D) I never say no when someone needs help will go to amazing lengths to make myself availble for them. I also become extremely appreciative of their help and buy them things or take them to coffee etc..
2E) I not only accept others ideas but encourage them and hope that people come up with their own way of doing things and enjoy learning from their creativity.
2F) I don't like speaking up or bringing attention to myself, but I will most certaintly do it if I feel something is wrong.
2G) Anyone who depends on me, work and at home, knows they can really count on me and often more so than others. I will do tasks others will not. Go to work when it is my day off or even in the middle of the night because I don't want to leave a co-worker alone to deal with whatever they are dealing with alone.
2H) I actually trust people to a very large extent. I'll even defend people against great numbers believing that they are worth the defense even if I barely know them.
2M) I work really hard at showing people and even animals affection, outside this forum anyways. I like to brush my wifes hair and rub her feet when we are sitting together. I sit with her in the morning while she is sleeping. I like to exert male affection with other men and will put my hand on a guys shoulder and smile, or pat him no the back while laughing. Or open the door for a person and smile and nod. I like to call people at stores by their name and take interest in their day at work, when they get off, or if it is busy I comment on that. Older people are often lonely so I go out of my way to talk to them also. For some reason I am often drawn to the older folk and playing with kids but kids are alot of fun. (While affection for family, the elderly, animals, and children comes naturally to me affection toward people of my own age seems more difficutlt for some reason)
2O) Being in a committed relationship is really important to me. It is part of the role of being a father and husband.
2P) I don't see a point of a love where you don't love a person unconditionally.
2Q) It is important to me to share love and affection. The thing is that I am not necessarily good at it but that isn't the question.
The questions in regard to me needing affection and attention are (0). I am okay by myself but I do enjoy affection from the people around me when they choose to give it and do so without feeling pressured.
