Parties

[Lot]

After reading others use the word 'special' over and over again, I am thinking it did not quite convey my own meaning exactly as I meant.

I did not mean that I think that sex is or always should be a sacred spiritual experiment necessarily every time it is done, more like something that should be pleasant even in the parting, after the act, as well as before and during. Neither party should look down upon themselves or the other for mutual participation in something desired.

Sorry I misunderstood (I'll avoid the easy pun).

 

[MissQuote]

You didn't really misunderstand.

I just haven't been as concise as I could be, and everybody else's thoughts got me less certain, because that it the way it goes.

 

[ObliviousGenius]

I generally don't like parties and the only reason I would think to go is to pick up some chick, or make a move on a girl that I know there. I don't like doing parties without weed or some liquor in my system. I never have any fun if I'm sober because I don't connect with the people around me as easily. Most of the people I don't know (college parties) and I have to play the fit-in game, which drains more energy than twenty iPhone apps. If it weren't for raging hormones I'd probably never go.