Is g-spot massage the norm?

[Stagename]

Do most guys perform g-spot massage on the girls at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many girls say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Is it just another lie just like the "you're the best / biggest" bullshit?

 

[QuickTwist]

It might be just one of those, "I'm too abashed to say its been done to me" type of things. They sure do seem to like it an awful lot.

 

[Stagename]

It might be just one of those, "I'm too abashed to say its been done to me" type of things. They sure do seem to like it an awful lot.

Yes, way too much. I typically don't trust most of what they say about their sexual experiences, though.

However, some women have been open about their colorful sexual history, including many partners, threesomes, foursomes, and even orgies, yet they still claim that they have never experienced vaginal orgasm / g-spot massage until they met me. In that case the woman has already proclaimed her sexual promiscuity and appetite, and I really see no reason for her to lie about any orgasmic experience.

So, is it still mostly bullshit, or do guys typically not give g-spot massage?

 

[Puffy]

Do most girls perform prostate massage on the guys at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many guys say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Every guy I've slept with has told me he's never had a screaming multiple prostate orgasm until he's met me (and I really see no reason for him to lie about it) so I thought I'd make a thread here rather than just google it.

 

[Stagename]

Do most girls perform prostate massage on the guys at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many guys say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Every guy I've slept with has told me he's never had a screaming multiple prostate orgasm until he's met me (and I really see no reason for him to lie about it) so I thought I'd make a thread here rather than just google it.

Then make your own thread

 

[Pyropyro]

Can't we just give everybody a massage? I hear that's super effective.

 

[QuickTwist]

*Posts pic of orgy porn*

 

[Yellow]

A lot of those lies are designed to avoid issues. If a man is insecure or prone to jealousy, the last thing anyone needs is to deal with a guy who has it in his head that you've had better lovers. The problem is, the time for the "past sexual experience" conversation often happenss before the moment when a new partner starts down the controlling, "there can be only one" path. It's so much easier/safer to lie/be ambiguous and spare the man's ego than to deal with that mess.

I'm sure people act similarly with women. The "you're the most beautiful woman I've ever laid eyes on" routine is normally to avoid jealousy too, right?

 

[QuickTwist]

A lot of those lies are designed to avoid issues. If a man is insecure or prone to jealousy, the last thing anyone needs is to deal with a guy who has it in his head that you've had better lovers. The problem is, the time for the "past sexual experience" conversation often happenss before the moment when a new partner starts down the controlling, "there can be only one" path. It's so much easier/safer to lie/be ambiguous and spare the man's ego than to deal with that mess.

I'm sure people act similarly with women. The "you're the most beautiful woman I've ever laid eyes on" routine is normally to avoid jealousy too, right?

You're such an F Yellow

 

[Grayman]

Why is it more natural for woman to lie to preserve feelings than men? Is it cultural?

 

[Yellow]

You're such an F Yellow

I'd be an ISFJ if it meant never having to deal with pointless melodrama.

 

[QuickTwist]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uZ-p-tN8Gs

 

[Yellow]

Why is it more natural for woman to lie to preserve feelings than men? Is it cultural?

It's perosnal safety. As I understand it, most people don't want to be beaten up, stalked, etc. Since men are generally physically stronger, it's safest to coddle their feelings until such time as you've been absolutely assured that he has a handle on his emotions.

 

[Sinny91]

Yea, guys with bruised egos are a liability. (As are women I suppose)

 

[Grayman]

Men spend copious amounts of time bruising eachothers ego for a good laugh. Why can they handle this but not a woman?

also, from what I have seen. Woman are very gentle and even uplifting of each others egos.

 

[Sinny91]

They feel emasculated, afaik.
I've played this card a few times, never ends nicely.
Well, sometimes it does

 

[Yellow]

Men spend copious amounts of time bruising eachothers ego for a good laugh. Why can they handle this but not a woman?

also, from what I have seen. Woman are very gentle and even uplifting of each others egos.

I dunno, but they can't. Besides, if my experiences are any indication, men don't take peer-ego-bruising too well sometimes either. They brew and ruminate and "what the hell did he mean by that?!" and "well, he can go fuck himself if that's what he really thinks" when their buddies are gone.

I don't know about women being gentle and uplifting with each other. I see them fake it sometimes. I've never seen them mean it. It's just talk and usually has passive-aggressive undercurrents.

 

[Bock]

Woman are very gentle and even uplifting of each others egos.

People laugh at the concept of sisterhood for a reason.

 

[Brontosaurie]

Do you mean doing it with the dick during the fucking itself or doing it as a separate gesture

 

[Stagename]

Do you mean doing it with the dick during the fucking itself or doing it as a separate gesture

Separate.

 

[Inquisitor]

Do most guys perform g-spot massage on the girls at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many girls say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Is it just another lie just like the "you're the best / biggest" bullshit?

What's your sample size and age range of women you've hooked up with? If a guy wants repeat sex with a woman, he'll try to make her feel good.

 

[Reluctantly]

I don't think it's a norm at all. Something about the idea of sticking fingers up a women's cooch to search for a happy place seems a little...unsexy. But to each their own I guess.

Plus it's a lot more fun to use a tongue.
I guess you could combine the two, but it would be a little difficult to do both at the same time, lol.

...unless like, you have a dude fucking her and you use your tongue, but that might be kind of weird, I don't know.

eh well, I don't think it's normal and I hope you cut your nails before going on the finger journey.

 

[Pyropyro]

...
Plus it's a lot more fun to use a tongue.
...

*Tries massaging people with tongue*

This is hard-work, not fun at all

 

[TheScornedReflex]

Bahahaha!!!! This thread is fucking hilarious.

 

[The Gopher]

You're such an F Yellow

I KNOW IT'S SARCASTIC BUT LET ME RANT REAL QUICK. Having basic social understanding doesn't make you an F type. (What? I said it would be a quick rant.)

Do most girls perform prostate massage on the guys at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many guys say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Every guy I've slept with has told me he's never had a screaming multiple prostate orgasm until he's met me (and I really see no reason for him to lie about it) so I thought I'd make a thread here rather than just google it.

Wow Puffy chill with the humble bragging. (On a side note I know someone you need to meet...)

 

[Helvete]

*Tries massaging people with tongue*

This is hard-work, not fun at all

If I were you I would charge a bit more for these types of massages. But I'll have one while you're still doing them so cheap!

 

[Pyropyro]

If I were you I would charge a bit more for these types of massages. But I'll have one while you're still doing them so cheap!

Sorry dude, I think I just ran out of saliva so I can't massage no more . I am now thinking of alternatives though.

 

[Happy]

Do most guys perform g-spot massage on the girls at some point during sex?

It's very effective, yet many girls say they have never experienced it. I have a hard time believing that.

Is it just another lie just like the "you're the best / biggest" bullshit?

This isn't really something I ask other dudes, but I don't think most guys do because I've had the "What the fuck are you doing? I didn't say stop." reaction a few times now. I could be wrong, though.

If indeed it is uncommon, my hypothesis would be that it's not something that exists within common dude lexicon. It's never come up in any conversation I've had with other dudes, and I've had some pretty weird conversations.

Interesting thread BTW, I've never considered it before - It's been in my repertoire since day 1 and only because I read about it when I was a curious virgin teen.

I don't think it's a norm at all. Something about the idea of sticking fingers up a women's cooch to search for a happy place seems a little...unsexy. But to each their own I guess.

Plus it's a lot more fun to use a tongue.
I guess you could combine the two, but it would be a little difficult to do both at the same time, lol.I don't think it's normal and I hope you cut your nails before going on the finger journey.

The logistics work fine.
Unless you're describing something other than what I have pictured haha

 

[Helvete]

Sorry dude, I think I just ran out of saliva so I can't massage no more . I am now thinking of alternatives though.

Not to worry! Here take some of this citric acid, a great fix to all your saliva related problems.

*Helvete sits down awaiting the drooling Pyro to commence with the tongue massage.*

 

[Ex-User (11125)]

This isn't really something I ask other dudes, but I don't think most guys do because I've had the "What the fuck are you doing? I didn't say stop." reaction a few times now. I could be wrong, though.

If indeed it is uncommon, my hypothesis would be that it's not something that exists within common dude lexicon. It's never come up in any conversation I've had with other dudes, and I've had some pretty weird conversations.

Interesting thread BTW, I've never considered it before - It's been in my repertoire since day 1 and only because I read about it when I was a curious virgin teen.

The logistics work fine.
Unless you're describing something other than what I have pictured haha

Oooooo grope-yes
Welcome back happy

 

[Pyropyro]

Not to worry! Here take some of this citric acid, a great fix to all your saliva related problems.

*Helvete sits down awaiting the drooling Pyro to commence with the tongue massage.*

*Gets on with tongue massage. Gets overzealous and massages everybody in the thread*