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INTP's only please

  • Many around food
    • I hate people looking at my food, or asking about it
    • I hate eating with other people, I prefer doing it quietly alone
    • I hate looking at food pictures
    • I hate food that's not fresh, it must be just made or recooked
    • Complicated food
    • Colleagues who eat at their desk, or worse bring it to a meeting
    • Smelly food
    • Houses that smell of food
  • I really, really hate it when people have an (especially emotional) judgement in ignorance (e.g. they don't know what I think before they prejudge my ideas.) This is my biggest hot button
  • I hate it when colleagues are sick but still come into work
  • I hate it when people don't transcend their type, at least a little (e.g. ESTJ's who never make it past their Extraverted dominant, or IN's who never learn the basics of life)
  • I hate not having a full shower in the morning
  • I hate it when other people ignorantly assume what's good for them is good for me
  • I hate it when a boss digs into the details of what I'm doing (micromanages)
  • I hate it when older people don't transcend (at least a little) the mold of who they've become (their personality and life long habits, not talking Type here). This can be summarized as "I hate people that are just repeating patterns"
  • I hate it when people make decisions based on group consensus rather than making up their own mind (e.g. what Sensors really like to do, and why we have fads and manias. I largely have to somewhat insulate myself from the collective hive as this thinking drives me crazy if I get too close)*
  • I hate it when another person does something rude, but then tells me not to feel bad about being bothered by it (I don't feel bad, I'm angry they are being such a jerk and not recognizing it)
  • I hate showing something wonderful to another person who is just meh on it. For example, playing an Chopin prelude to a person who could care less. Or auditioning an exquisite stereo setup to an unresponsive clod, or demonstrating a perfect solution to a problem. I'm happy with them not liking it, or liking it, or not being moved but still seeing it's worth, but apathy pisses me off.

That covers the big ones I think. The rest are mere annoyances.

* Example of this is my brother and diet. He's read the Atkins books and that's it, he thinks he's got diet and health wrapped up and obviously sees me as being an oddball. Whereas I admit I could be wrong, but at least I've exhaustively studied the subject for decades, experimented and have a sound scientific basis for my approach. This is a form of willful ignorance. I hate that.
 

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I see being around you would be like walking on egg-shells.

Oops, I think I broke point #2 already.
 

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hmm

* when people hold beliefs that are neither logical nor factual nor groundbreaking.

* when people are more concerned with appearing good than being good.

* when people pretend to acknowledge my arguments but then performatively reveal that they won't even understand.

it's hard to compose a list of triggers. usually my perception of a character flaw is at once too specific and too general to make a good list item.

* oh and people who have dogs. i don't hate dogs. it's not their fault they exist, let alone are domestically enslaved and kept in human society. they are kind and sometimes even nice. but the people who own these obnoxious noisy beasts, wtf WHY?! that rude creepy entitled irrationality... if people bark, they get arrested - but you can have your bark machine and suddenly the unbearable hostility is accepted... t's a pet peeve i got lol
 

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I hate it when:

Two employees continue their personal conversation in front of me while all I want to do is check out and leave but now I have "inconvenienced" them by forcing ONE! of them to do their job. When I see employees doing this I almost want to walk out and say "You just lost my business" but that would require too great of an effort for principle alone.

I can hear a toilet running and the person doesn't care to fix it because it doesn't happen that often and it still works more or less. The sound of mysterious water trickling through pipes is worse than nails on a chalkboard for me.

When I used to be able to drive, having to maneuver around some clueless bozo who likes to cruise at the speed limit in the passing lane and use it as his/her personal stretch of road, ignorant to those around them trying to pass them.

When my mom says "What would you do without the Internet?" because it forces me to think of life without it.

I wake up and the power is out, we are on a well with an electric pump so we lose water too. Not fun to start your day with, having gone to bed planning for a normal day.

Parents of young kids in a restaurant or store who let their kids have a temper tantrum and/or leave a mess. The parents try all of these futile passive aggressive parenting techniques and the kid is just playing a game at that point to get attention. They will sometimes appologize but do they ever offer to clean up the mess or to change how they discipline their child? No, of course not, they don't have the time to raise a human life properly.

People bother to say no offense, directly before an offensive statement. Like sugar coating a put down, just give me something raw and off the cuff no need to package it with contradictory political correctness.

VIDEO BUFFERING!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously, the worst!

A condescending Christian who thinks I am flawed or possessed for stepping foot in a Casino or inhaling THC but then posts pictures on Facebook drinking cocktails at a buffet inside a local Casino. Who also blaspheme idolatry at any possible point they can but then treats the apostle Paul as if he was some legendary human being who SAVED Christianity (more like singlehandedly created this system of religion a la Joseph Smith and Mormonism).

Someone sucks out on the river, Texas Hold'Em reference. I.e. they have a less than 10% chance of winning but pull a magical card out of the dealer's butt and steal the hand from me on the very last card.
 

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I don't hate anything, since most forms of hatred just seem to be the epitome of stupidity and ignorance.

Only thing I could say that I universally dislike is entitlement. Though probably in a different manner than most people think of it.
 

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Hate itself is an emotional judgement driven by ignorance.

That said, I have quite a few things I hate as well.
 

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I don't hate anything, since most forms of hatred just seem to be the epitome of stupidity and ignorance.

Only thing I could say that I universally dislike is entitlement. Though probably in a different manner than most people think of it.

is this a joke?
 

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Depends what you mean by joke really. I can't really be bothered deconstructing every particular instance of entitlement-derived hatred for the purpose of demonstrating the ultimate and inherent stupidity, ignorance and futility of holding such a hatred.

I figure most people are smart enough to read between the lines on either an intellectual or emotional level (both preferably) and pay close enough attention to what I both did and also didn't say so as to not grossly misunderstand.
 

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Hate itself is an emotional judgement driven by ignorance.

That said, I have quite a few things I hate as well.

yeah ignorance at its most abstract, i.e. lack. which makes it mean little else than "life".

an emotion of hate can be adaptive and deserved. one can hate a behavior precisely because it's ignorant (in a more meaningful sense). hate is just the strong opinion that something is bad. is it not true that some things are bad? is a complaint or objection always ignorant? are emotions always misguided?

your dissection of existence isn't particularly relevant.
 

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I hate (generally dislike in most contexts) a demeanour that promotes hatred, ignorance and parasitism.
 

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I really hate Bronto and RB thread derails.
(Waiting for Cherry to show up.)
 

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yeah ignorance at its most abstract, i.e. lack. which makes it mean little else than "life".

an emotion of hate can be adaptive and deserved. one can hate a behavior precisely because it's ignorant (in a more meaningful sense). hate is just the strong opinion that something is bad. is it not true that some things are bad? is a complaint or objection always ignorant? are emotions always misguided?

Ignorance - lack of knowledge or information.

And I have to say, I can be strongly lacking in awareness of my own ignorance. All I can do is try to accept that I'm just as ignorant as everyone else.

You do have a point about hate being adaptive and deserved. Yet often, I see hate where I struggle to find it's merit and benefits.

Hate usually leads to aggression. And because I seem to be more passive and docile than average, I find my understanding of harmful and damaging interactions lacking. This confusion leads to a general illogical frustration, (or hate) in which I find, yet again, that I'm not much different than anyone else.
 

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I see being around you would be like walking on egg-shells.
Oops, I think I broke point #2 already.

Yes assuming too much is a variation. Notice I said what I hate, not what I overtly react to. Most of the time I brush it off*, because one of the cardinal rules I've learned is that People Don't Change. Which is why I make it a point to change, I like breaking cardinal rules.

* Example, I was preparing a few things for lunch when a colleague stuck his head close to my lunch and said "what is that?" So I had to make some conversation about whatever stupid thing I was eating. My solution now is to have lunch at an odd time time to avoid such encounters.
 

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This is how you piss me off:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0U0jib0g0CM

I absolutely loathe that kind of emotional appeal advertising, it feels like my brain is being violated, like being groped & stroked by an old man, I watched this video expecting to have the product presented to me and I gained nothing from it that would remotely convince me to buy it, I will never even touch one of these just to avoid the memory of this violation.
 

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Architect, I agree with yours for the most part. I have a lot of pet peeves when it comes to food too. I thought that was just one of my quirks, but maybe it's an INTP thing. The worst is when you're eating in front of someone and they ask you a question while you're putting food in your mouth, and the whole room turns and watches you chew. Ugh. Also, it's incredibly annoying when someone brings a strong-smelling food (e.g., peanut butter), into an enclosed area like a car.

And when you show someone something amazing and they're apathetic, it's probably worse than the food thing. A lot worse. The worst is when someone asks you a question about a topic you're obsessed with, and you go through the trouble to explain it, and they're just like "meh". *sigh*
 

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Architect, I agree with yours for the most part. I have a lot of pet peeves when it comes to food too. I thought that was just one of my quirks, but maybe it's an INTP thing. The worst is when you're eating in front of someone and they ask you a question while you're putting food in your mouth, and the whole room turns and watches you chew.

Goddamn I hate that. This is why I dislike eating with others, they have to talk so much while doing it. Then people will talk with their mouths full, and expect you to do the same. Disgusting.


Ugh. Also, it's incredibly annoying when someone brings a strong-smelling food (e.g., peanut butter), into an enclosed area like a car.

Yes, same as my point about eating at your desk or in a meeting room.

And when you show someone something amazing and they're apathetic, it's probably worse than the food thing. A lot worse. The worst is when someone asks you a question about a topic you're obsessed with, and you go through the trouble to explain it, and they're just like "meh". *sigh*

Yeah. And you know I'm OK if they're indifferent, but at least show that you appreciate how it could be something special, even though it's not too the individual.
 

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Yeah. And you know I'm OK if they're indifferent, but at least show that you appreciate how it could be something special, even though it's not too the individual.

Yeah, same, but it's so frustrating when someone actually ASKS you to explain something, and then they don't pay attention :facepalm:
 

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Yeah, same, but it's so frustrating when someone actually ASKS you to explain something, and then they don't pay attention :facepalm:

This has got to be one of the most annoying things in the world, which is why I seldom explain things unless I know the person will actually listen.

I agree with many points on here.

Patterns and routines annoy me when they are done like automatons. I follow routines but I will consciously break away from them once I realize I have been repeating them for too long.

Another thing is consistency which is ironic given that I get annoyed when people give a good case as to why we are herd creatures. But consistency in regards to logic or values. "I'm against abortion, or I believe in the right to life but I support the war-state". Anything related to making exceptions. Mostly religious people are like this or other dogmatic robots.
 

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Another thing is consistency which is ironic given that I get annoyed when people give a good case as to why we are herd creatures. But consistency in regards to logic or values. "I'm against abortion, or I believe in the right to life but I support the war-state". Anything related to making exceptions. Mostly religious people are like this or other dogmatic robots.

Yes, that's pretty annoying too. But what's even more annoying is hipsters whose morals don't make any sense. Like, it's ok to kill an unborn baby but "how could you kill an innocent panda? You're heartless!" I don't mean to trash-talk anyone or their beliefs, so sorry if I come across like that.

I'm Catholic myself, and one thing I like about it is that it's completely consistent. Any question you have, there's a rational answer in the Catechism.

Another thing that bugs me is people who say there's no absolute truth. That argument falls apart on itself so easily it's kind of ridiculous.

"There's no absolute truth."

"ARE YOU ABSOLUTELY SURE ABOUT THAT?"
 

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Another thing that bugs me is people who say there's no absolute truth. That argument falls apart on itself so easily it's kind of ridiculous.

"There's no absolute truth."

"ARE YOU ABSOLUTELY SURE ABOUT THAT?"

Sounds more like a semantic argument to me. Typically when people say there "is no absolute truth" are more meaning that there's no way to know what the absolute truth is, and meaning is typically invested versus being verifiably inherent. Meaning is something generated by the believer.

Usually people who criticize the "no absolute truth" thing are doing so because they think they happen to know what the absolute truth is. Good luck with that. (I only hate the "no absolute truth" argument myself when I can tell it's essentially a lazy copout versus still doing one's best to explore and figure things out even if one might never find an answer.)
 

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Goddamn I hate that. This is why I dislike eating with others, they have to talk so much while doing it. Then people will talk with their mouths full, and expect you to do the same. Disgusting.

I have this same frustration any time I visit the dentist, which is totally overrated btw*. They try to start a conversation with you while they have 3 metal devices and two sets of hands inside your oral cavity. What kind of a response do they expect? Besides some incoherent mumbling that you can muster without choking on your own spit or hitting your tongue on their gloved fingers. i never understood this. Leave the smalltalk to the bartenders and hairdressers. I don't want to contribute to suicide statistics by convincing everyone to stop talking to their dentist but geez they should figure out a better way to interact with us at this point.




*The frequency with which one needs to get a check-up is equivalent to the myth of NEEDING to change the oil on your car every 3000 miles. They underquote the reasonable amount of time that can pass between checkups for your engine or your teeth, in order to generate more revenue. 5000 miles+ is more than enough of a gap between oil changes depending on make, model, and type of oil. I think that if I keep brushing with the proper technique (not grinding my gums and not missing key areas) and floss on a semi-regular basis I won't need to go to the dentist for another decade or so. Especially when most insurance providers don't include a dental plan, and a separate policy is required. Dental emergencies are a tricky situation for me in this regard but fingers crossed I don't crack a tooth.
 

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I have this same frustration any time I visit the dentist, which is totally overrated btw*

*The frequency with which one needs to get a check-up is equivalent to the myth of NEEDING to change the oil on your car every 3000 miles.

I disagree with that. Modern dentistry to me is the pinnacle of modern technology. You know what used to kill us by our 30's? Rotting teeth which then infected the brain due to their proximity. If not that then the heart, there's a bacteria that infects tooth roots (a common occurrence, happened to a colleague recently) that will take our your heart in a, well heartbeat.

The old Egyptians - the ones that left so much crap littered around in the sand, suffered their entire life from poor dental health, from peasant to Pharaoh. We figured it out too, it's due to how they made bread which was the staple of their diet, it incorporated a lot of grit which ground those molars down and causes incredibly painful abscesses.

Despite not getting hounded enough by my parents to brush, and having a lot of cavities thereby I still have all my teeth (albeit somewhat capped and drilled&filled, not that you could tell). A colleague is getting an implant, titanium post with a cubic zirconia (diamond) tooth. Amazing stuff when you considered Washington had horrible wooden things in his mouth to aid chewing (if they did).

As much as I dislike having my very personal mouth poked into I happily go to the dentist every six months, and it contributes to excellent oral health now and has caught many a problem before it became a bigger problem. Trust me, the mouth is a battlefield for your health. If you don't like the cost then get a job and insurance, it's cheap.

They try to start a conversation with you while they have 3 metal devices and two sets of hands inside your oral cavity.

Yeah I agree. I think they get bored, and many people are really chatty so expect to get chatted to.
 

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Your reply lies at the heart of my issue with healthcare. Preventative vs Corrective.

Part of my reply is being an arrogant, ignorant, in general genetically inferior yet superior personal oral hygenist. I did have braces for jaw correction, so that I did not need jaw surgery that a few of my friends had to have later in life. If I hadn't gone to my pediatric dentist, my parents wouldn't have known I had a growing underbite or that I would eventually need my wisdom teeth removed as a precaution. So I had a crap ton of preventative care so that I wouldn't need corrective care.

Because my dad saw that having a good smile was one of the most important things ever, he invested a lot of his money in my teeth that he didn't get the benefit of. Guilt by association, I made sure to brush and floss so as to not piss him off. Plus when you don't brush with braces it leaves wierd semi-permanent stains and I had braces for (unfortunately) 3.75 years of high school, solid brushing and flossing techniques is hard wired into me at this point. 2 fillings I think from pre-pubescent candy hoarding but nothing beyond that.

I had dental insurance for 3 months 2 years ago just to get a check up and the dentist said I must have good genes (absolutely do not in any way shape or form especially in dental genetics), I told him I do what you guys say and brush the RIGHT way, flossing about 10 times a month or so. He said keep it up, BUT in 6 months I should come in for a laser cleaning anyway because it is the "cutting edge" (for a small co-pay of $295 per cleaning). I'll go back to the dentist in 8 years or so and I'll bet any sum of money he says the same thing with his latest piece of technology he bought on credit and needs to pay for somehow.

EDIT: I do respect that dental technology has made my current dental structure possible and it can ease discomfort that is unbearable. Because when your mouth hurts nothing seems to work. I have been given a gift of a nice set of chompers and all I am saying is it is not that difficult to maintain that level of hygiene sans dentist.
 

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Sounds more like a semantic argument to me. Typically when people say there "is no absolute truth" are more meaning that there's no way to know what the absolute truth is, and meaning is typically invested versus being verifiably inherent. Meaning is something generated by the believer.

Usually people who criticize the "no absolute truth" thing are doing so because they think they happen to know what the absolute truth is. Good luck with that. (I only hate the "no absolute truth" argument myself when I can tell it's essentially a lazy copout versus still doing one's best to explore and figure things out even if one might never find an answer.)

Ok, fair enough. I believe in God, but when I say that I believe that's the absolute truth, I'm not intending to "force my beliefs" on other people. Like, yes, I do believe that my beliefs are the correct ones, but if I didn't believe I was correct, then they wouldn't be my beliefs. You have to believe something is true in order to believe it. However, part of my beliefs is that people have free will, and so they can believe what they want, whether I believe it or not. So people who claim that there is no absolute truth (and actually mean it), believe that the absolute truth is that there is no absolute truth.

As for semantics, I can sort of agree with that. Someone with a "live and let live" mentality might claim that there is no absolute truth, but not really believe it.
 

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I hate it when people try to make me laugh.

Modern shooting games like Call of Duty.
Fake people.
Mark Zuckerburg.
Bill Gates.
CNN.
People who think CNN is unbiased. Or a good thing to watch.
Winter.
Advertising in general.
 

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What is your classification of winter?
Cold
Cold and wet
Cold, wet, and freezing
Cold and snow
Cold, snow, and icy roads
Cold, foggy, and cold moist air
Tampa winter of random flash thunder storms and hurricanes
Just rainy and not really cold

I say winter over summer anyday cuz I can get warm easier than I can cool down.
 

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What is your classification of winter?
Cold
Cold and wet
Cold, wet, and freezing
Cold and snow
Cold, snow, and icy roads
Cold, foggy, and cold moist air
Tampa winter of random flash thunder storms and hurricanes
Just rainy and not really cold

I say winter over summer anyday cuz I can get warm easier than I can cool down.
Cold. Not much sunshine. Dry air. Sometimes I like the cold weather when it's humid too.
 

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Unjustified entitlement.

Those moments where you flash back to the bigger or more embarrassing mistakes of your life and you feel like shit for days.

Spontaneous lethargy.

Things that move (on land) but don't have legs.

Parasites. Leeches are the worst (see above), but mosquitoes keeping me up at night are a close second.
 
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people who take themselves rather too seriously.

admittedly my calibration for what constitutes too seriously may be uncommonly low, but ugh they are impossible.
 

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i don't like it when people get truly mad

i feel a lot of the time like people are basically trying to get mad, because i can see through them like they're jellyfish

like they draw a line in the sand, denoting the boundary between "stuff i take srs and am culturally permitted to vent my anger on" sit on top of it and wait for people to so audaciously (<- sarcasm) step over it. i feel like that's most people, and that that area is so large that the "unwalled" area of things they don't take serious is really just a small portion of their consciousness, and that when they're in there they're really just fear-driven and acting within a specific tiny cubicle of consciousness in their highly departmentalized construct of reality to the point of basically just acting. When the empire of "serious land" is huge in a person, it's understandable if they've had a lot of suffering, if all those serious things are rooted in a suffering experience in the past or continuing. Like the feels prevent them from not taking it serious. But then there's the other ones who just seem to be like "Hey, I'm giving this a shot, I wanna take this serious because I wanna be proud, because I want the esteem boost because if I can get angry at other people for x then i can see myself as y which I like" and those people i think are super lame because you have to walk on egg shells around them just as a self esteem oriented [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hamiltonian_spite] spiteyspite. The wallwatcher gets angry, but esteemed, and the other party who stepped over whatever identity impeding line they made is disrespected. it's lose-lose, basically, well, phantomgain-lose.


my bias on this though is that the things i find interesting to talk about are often unsettling to consider, like unsettling to who they are, because that's something I'm always interested in, and most people seem to be way more tip-of-the-iceberg-consciously in regards to introspection than my constructs of understanding applied to them are. also i don't take myself seriously like hardly ever. it's rly cool because then you can be impulsive and at the same time basically you can see the reasons behind it so you're like a person inside a person, y'know man?!? so it just allows for the most understanding of people by having no foundational bias about your subjective data which is the largest bunch of data you've got to analyze!

so that this is more constructive: my thoughts on how someone with a large area of stuff they take serious would take themselves less seriously is by inundating their what-they're-used-to's with attacks on them, basically deadening the anger knee-jerk response to whatever their triggers are through repetition. maybe listen to some self deprecating comedians, (which is a lot of them, because it makes people feel relaxed and able to not take stuff seriously, which most people are like a lot imho). goof around, etc idk glhf

also

you never saw hitler goof around, did you
 

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I hate when people think they know everything about me, and make baseless speculations.

People who don't take anything seriously are a slight annoyance.

People with an air of superiority over others.

Rebellious attitudes with little insight that they are actually conforming to social norms.
 

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This is how you piss me off:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=0U0jib0g0CM

I absolutely loathe that kind of emotional appeal advertising, it feels like my brain is being violated, like being groped & stroked by an old man, I watched this video expecting to have the product presented to me and I gained nothing from it that would remotely convince me to buy it, I will never even touch one of these just to avoid the memory of this violation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKK74Wh-J10

This demo is reportedly running on Source 2.
 

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I get annoyed when people give a good case as to why we are herd creatures. But consistency in regards to logic or values. "I'm against abortion, or I believe in the right to life but I support the war-state". Anything related to making exceptions. Mostly religious people are like this or other dogmatic robots.
yeah. out of all the things listed on this thread, this is what irks me the most.
 

Brontosaurie

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i hate that i'm waiting for someone to hate hating the things i hate so i can hate back
 

OrLevitate

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I'm intrinsically luminous, mortals. I'm 4ever
i hate that ppl like totally subscribe to the gold i dripped earlier but still r mad but in s3cr3t
 

BrainVessel

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* I hate it when people laugh at un-funny or offensive jokes.
* I hate it when people make non-eventful things into stressful events.
* I hate religion(not religious people) and the things it leads people to do.
* I hate human suffering.
* I hate it when people pollute the planet for greed or just because it's convenient.
* I hate when people pretend or make themselves hate someone or something being they think it's cool to hate.
* I hate it when people make untrue generalizations about anything or anyone.
* I hate it when people aren't curious.
* I hate it when people are arrogant.
* I hate it when people shame other people for doing harmless things.
* I hate that I can't decide what to do with my life.
* I hate it when I don't have the right words to say.
* I hate it when people don't let me talk, but most of all, when they only pretend to listen.
* I hate that no one around me can empathize with me.
* I hate being the smartest person in the room.
* I hate it when people laugh at me for knowing things.
* I hate it when people tell me what content I should and shouldn't be consuming.
* I hate the widespread indoctrination throughout the world that is holding humanity back.


And I hate that this list is long and not even complete.
 

emmabobary

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-I hate people telling me how to do things while I´m doing them.
-I hate people with no manners.
-I hate people complaining about my coldness.
-I hate people that are stuborn on their depression.
-I hate people who make great demands of affection , That needs more and more pats on the back everytime "there , there"
-I hate people complaining and making excuses, then feeling bad because of that.
-I hate P.E.T.A. and most protection associations for the planet , animals ...souls, etc.
-I hate happy people.
-I hate cold weather.
-I hate crowds.
-I hate when I fail. And I hate when I fail because I´m influenced by some other person´s feelings.
-I hate when patterns get broken.
-I hate closed minded people, that doesn´t see the posibilities.
-I hate clutter and dirt.
-I hate prisons, prohibitions, manuals, and anyone/anything telling me what to do, how to think. (On the other hand I like those three things for the rest of the world)

mmm well... More that hating I think it´s most like I don´t tolerate these things.
Plus:
-I do not understand reciprocity.
:)
 

EyeSeeCold

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Everything you hate, there's a person behind it.

..meaning all your problems are caused by people.


If there were no more people?
 

Yellow

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I agree with nearly everything above. I'm glad that the dog thing was brought up too. Anyway, I think you guys missed a few, and I think they're self-explanatory.

* I hate logical fallacies -- the following in particular
- false dichotomies
- special pleading
- appeals to authority
- tu quoque's
- strawmen
- anecdotal rebuttals to actual statistics
* I hate self-serious news broadcasts
* I hate political and religious bumper stickers
* I hate it when people bond over commercial products "OMG you have a __ purse, I looove __ sooo much"
 

dark+matters

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I hate logical fallacies.
I hate having my concentration interrupted.
I hate when I'm trying to get information out of someone or something and they won't give it to me.
I hate having to live life outside my head.
I hate feeling rushed.
 

Nibbler

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Here's one: I have a severe aversion to busy-body neighbors. My home is my sanctuary, but unfortunately it's on a very conspicuous corner. My backyard is visible in all directions and my washer/dryer is out there. I cannot go outside at any time of day or night without SOMEONE walking or driving by. A few different people like to stop and ask me what I'm up to and offer opinions.

As a result, I have not come out much in the past year and a half to do much yard work and the place is a wreck and people are starting to complain... which only makes me want to come out LESS!

:facepalm:

I miss: "Hello, neighbor! Nice day we're having! ... Ok, see you later!" and that was it. No. Everyone wants to stop and insert themselves in my life and evaluate what I'm doing when they usually don't understand.

"Oh! You know a weed eater will clean that right up!"
"No, ha... that's OK. I enjoy pulling by hand."
"I have one if you need to borrow it!"
"No... haha... That's OK! I enjoy pulling them..."

(They look puzzled and on a mission to save me)

"Really, it's no problem. I can come by Sunday to help you."
"No... really... I like this! I'm relaxing out here" (HINT!)
"I can come by Sunday but not Saturday. I have a thing..."
"No. REALLY. I'm OK!"

And they go away. And I don't come back out for a MONTH.
 

peoplesuck

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if i cant hear the things around me i get extreme anxiety, yet i have sensitive hearing so its a struggle to find the right balance.
 

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I hate when someone tells me what should I do. I hate being forced to do something or being manipulated.
I'm quite tolerant, but also I don't like:
-when someone smells
-disgusting things
-shouting at me
-emotional people in conversation
 

Anomalous One

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I hate that everyone has to be so careful expressing their opinions, and that they need to be phrased a specific way to make sure no one gets offended.
 
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