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Ever hit it with someone who's in a commited relationship already?

How was it like for you.

I guess I just asked coz someone from my past that I had a ehm ... encounter with, move to town. but he has a girlfriend - more like fiance. in the talk we had seems he's into me still... i dont know. i am single aint i... ugh... the hell...
 

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Depends, how unscrupulous are you?

If you can screw someone and threaten them at the same time then go ahead, have fun and if (rather when) he tries to get sweet with you just flippantly threaten to tell his partner as if destroying their relationship is something you might do for a giggle.

If you're not that unscrupulous don't even try, he'll just use you.
 

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My last gf and I were sleeping together before she broke up with her prior bf, and I have a sneaking suspicion she was sleeping with someone else before we broke up. If this person desires to have sex with you, and they value this opportunity more than the relationship they are in, it would be irresponsible of you not to let your sex stand monument to the weakness of their bond.

Relationships are so damn temporary, if this one is as weak as it sounds then there is really no need for you to deny yourself your wants in order to preserve it.

I personally think people who sleep around from within relationships are weak if they do not have their partner's approval; they should just end an unhealthy relationship if they are unhappy with the way things are going.
 

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RedN said:
Ever hit it with someone who's in a commited relationship already?

How was it like for you.

I guess I just asked coz someone from my past that I had a ehm ... encounter with, move to town. but he has a girlfriend - more like fiance. in the talk we had seems he's into me still... i dont know. i am single aint i... ugh... the hell...
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do it biatch
and tell us how it went
it's not you being bad
it's him
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fuckkit

:storks:
 

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If it's like a one time thing then sure go ahead. If it's like an affair type deal then no don't do it. There's potential for backlash there if his partner finds out. You never know what the effects of that could be especially since you knew he was in a relationship.

At the same time it's not really your business that he has a gf. The only real important point is just make sure you get away with it.
 

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do it biatch
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There's humor, there's emphasis, and there's just tasteless.
At least spell it properly, bitch.
 

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i met her face to face really, we seem to be in the same scene... she even added me on facebook - probly to spy on me hohohoho

i dont think in this case he's gonna be using me... its either the other way around or just a case of mutual understanding. i guess i can say we're sexually compatible...

well hado, I DO believe in that as well, that if youre in a real relationship thats working, you wouldnt be cheating - its like a sure sign its not. its not like youre trying to ruin something, if its already ruined anyway right?

besides, if she finds out, wont I be doing her a favor - atleast she knew what the guy shes marrying is like before they got married... -_-
 

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Polyamory. Learn it.
 

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Fucking magical :rolleyes:

So you going to marry this guy or what, when's the wedding, will there be cake?

There's really no point trying to talk you out of this, you've already begun to rationalise it which means subconsciously you've already made the decision, a decision you're consciously aware is wrong.

If you're going to become his bit-on-the-side at least don't be in denial about it.
 

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in my mind i want to, hes hot as hell and i could use some good physical fun, and thats it.

i do feel something thats... restraining me from doing so. i dont know if its pity for that woman? or guilt. ive never been involved with someone who is in a relationship already ok. a part of me doesnt want to start to be like that...

and no i have no thoughts on us becoming serious, weve always just been friends
 

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Friends do not mess with each other's relationships.
 

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Or simply in the same room :smiley_emoticons_mr

Edit: eh that sucked
 

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cog uhm it just crossed my mind... are you a woman? i dont know why i thought of asking that...

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shes not my type, in fact its wrecking my head why hes even with her. he has implied shes like crazy for him. and shes not my friend either ... and I think hed be way happier to ge......

what the fuck am i saying!!!!!!!!!

god i need to be rehabilitated or something...

but yeah i wouldnt do a threesome with her
 

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You never get a break, do you Cog?


Make him get tested RedN.
 

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adaire, what? you mean for STD?

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i know what im saying here can be a trigger to some women but... or ok maybe some men too but... well im sorry then if ever...
 

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cog uhm it just crossed my mind... are you a woman? i dont know why i thought of asking that...
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(sexy voice) For you, I could be.
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No I'm just yanking your chain :D
 

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RedN said:
i met her face to face really, we seem to be in the same scene... she even added me on facebook - probly to spy on me hohohoho

i dont think in this case he's gonna be using me... its either the other way around or just a case of mutual understanding. i guess i can say we're sexually compatible...

well hado, I DO believe in that as well, that if youre in a real relationship thats working, you wouldnt be cheating - its like a sure sign its not. its not like youre trying to ruin something, if its already ruined anyway right?

besides, if she finds out, wont I be doing her a favor - atleast she knew what the guy shes marrying is like before they got married... -_-
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I feel so fucking darkside right now.
 

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RedN said:
in my mind i want to, hes hot as hell and i could use some good physical fun, and thats it.

i do feel something thats... restraining me from doing so. i dont know if its pity for that woman? or guilt. ive never been involved with someone who is in a relationship already ok. a part of me doesnt want to start to be like that...

and no i have no thoughts on us becoming serious, weve always just been friends
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he was yours first
she's just babysitting him for you

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HELL YEAH!!!

:twisteddevil::twisteddevil::twisteddevil: I dont think that fat ass bitch can give it like I do!!! :twisteddevil::twisteddevil::twisteddevil:

she sucks at babysitting it seems!!!
 
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