GOD INFJs DRIVE ME FUCKING NUTS

[Steven Gerrard]

"When you try to talk to me in the mornings it ruins the rest of my day, so please don't talk to me this morning..."

It make me happy to think that some people have the audacity to say this.

 

[QuickTwist]

You know, for the life of me I cannot respect you. Either of you.

 

[Steven Gerrard]

mm?

 

[QuickTwist]

I didn't explicitly say it was you.

 

[The Introvert]

Shut up

 

[pernoctator]

Oops.

Don't worry about it. She's just trying to guilt-trip you.

 

[paradoxparadigm7]

o:


So... I wouldn't explicitly acknowledge the INFJs reactions, and the INFJ wouldn't explicitly acknowledge that what it reacted to was a misinterpretation, and from there it developed into a meta thing.

Generally in my life, I have approached issues from the viewpoint that objective reality has to be established first, then reaction to reality has to be tended to or molded as a secondary thing that is mostly dependent on the former.

The strong inclination towards going this route as well as my own very sore internal reactions to being wrongfully interpreted at the time were things I would have had to deal with / sidestep / leave for later to better tackle the reaction pattern of the specific INFJ in a fruitful manner.

I think... for the INFJ to adapt to my own reaction pattern, it would have to learn to sidestep / suspend its own feelings and preference for which order in which things are to be resolved. The emotive reconciliation through sympathetic and amiable expressions having to wait for the reality view reconciliation through discussion and clarification to finish.

This is exactly the unconscious desire of the highly sensitive and reactive INFJ (or I'll own it myself. This INFJ) to unwittingly obtain from an INTP. Of course, you can't get this ability from others (INTP or otherwise) but I think it's a magnet to the INFJ...something that you know you lack and see in the other.

I'm sorry that it went awry.