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Toad

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Umm...I quit smoking about a month and a half now...most of the cravings are gone. But I get so bored now. What do normal people do when they are driving, drinking, and stressed? I feel like I'm missing something in my life.
 

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Well you shouldn't drink and drive or drive while stressed. How did you handle the drink AND cigarette while driving? I bet that would be pretty stressful.
 

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You know what i meant u macintosh bastard.
 

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Don't drink
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Not very helpful but you just gotta get yourself through it.
 

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Well you shouldn't drink and drive or drive while stressed. How did you handle the drink AND cigarette while driving? I bet that would be pretty stressful.

he could drive with his knees

*crosses fingers and hopes somebody gets the obscure Cow and Chicken reference*
 
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You could hire a prostitute to be with you for each drive and have her perform oral sex on you while you are driving.
 

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What do normal people do when they are driving, drinking, and stressed? I feel like I'm missing something in my life.

Uhm... listen to music?
 

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I guess I just miss smoking...i know it's horrible...I feel so healthy right now, but god damn I miss the way it made my lungs feel ALIVE...it made me feel alive...
 

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I was a coke addict and I found that when I smoked my coke craving was really really bad. So I put off smoking and drinking. Now I can smoke and drink without wanting the other one so bad.
 

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Umm...I quit smoking about a month and a half now...most of the cravings are gone. But I get so bored now. What do normal people do when they are driving, drinking, and stressed? I feel like I'm missing something in my life.

OK once you get through 2 months it does get easier - this is the hardest bit so stick in there! Distraction is the key. Also look at all the total idiots who manage to do life without smoking - surely you can do it if they can!!

driving - chew gum, play stupid games like I-spy if someone is in the car with you, make up words from the number plate (do yours have letters on them?) see how quickly you can add up numbers on number plates? etc. Listen to talk radio rather than music as it might engage your rage lol.

Drinking - try using worry beads or something, or chew straws or matshsticks. Enlist your friends to support you. Use thought stopping - basically every time you have a craving just say 'stop' really loudly (inside your head) or count to 10 - chances are the craving will fade. Go outside and breathe in and out really quickly through your nose.

Stressed - use some kind of relaxation technique, distract yourself with something, work on resolving whatever is stressing you - you might need to get help if it's something you have to *do* such as sorting out bills to counteract the INTP procrastination. Think 'what would a non-smoker do now?', run round the block, do some voluntary work with people worse off than you.

And remember - INTPs - we hate anyone controlling us so why would you let yourself be controlled by a cigarette and the tobacco industry??
 

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It'll go away. I smoked for five years and it was hard the first year I quit. Yes, it took that long.

Eat a little snack or something if you get bored.
 

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Snowqueen, you win for best advice. Thanks, really helped me. No foolin :)

FUCK we need to invent cigarettes that aren't harmful to your body! Neone agree with me?
 

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I agree, but that like making fossil-fuel cars that are good for the environment :p

some things just have natural consequences I suppose
 

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Smoking is such a good social thing to do. You go outside with your buddies to have a smoke and talk. I feel stupid just sitting there or standing there you know? We need to invent something to keep us busy while we have conversations or just relax. I'm thinking about picking up cigar smoking. People say it's pretty good.
 

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My husband smoked when I met him. Sometime before we started dating, I noticed he wouldn't smoke around me. But he'd smoke whenever I wasn't around. When we did start dating, he quit entirely. He didn't want there to be anything about him I didn't like, especially something like that. I never asked him to quit, he just did. I was amazed. He just quit cold turkey. It was rough for him. He had the same attitude about it that you do. He used it to fit in. Thank god he got over that.

One of the things I used to tell him has already been mentioned in this thread. Usually I'd say it when he was having cravings or withdrawal (there were a few times it was bad). Why would you let it control you? You hate being controlled in every other way. Why would you let yourself be controlled, especially by something like that?
 

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Why would you let it control you? You hate being controlled in every other way. Why would you let yourself be controlled, especially by something like that?

Haha. Omg that hit me good. I really do hate being controlled. I just really never thought of my addictions like that before. Thank you so much for that.
 

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Put something else in your mouth that won't distract you too much. Gum or mints may be one way to go. If you want to wean yourself off of that then just decrease it at some arbitary rate until you don't need it anymore.
 
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