I'm only a dick because of our history. Otherwise I'm invoking the following in regards to agent-based conflict theory:
If A disagrees with perspective B and both parties are open to changing their views, they are equally at fault in communication if neither changes their views. If A disagrees with perspectives B-Q, it's most likely that A is at fault.
What this really does is raise the question of whether, in the case of the latter, the fault is intrinsic (in which case it's not A's responsibility, it just restricts A to a certain role in the system at large), or whether the fault is due to ignorance or purposeful. If the latter here holds true, then it's a question of how much should be invested in communication in terms of risk vs reward.
I don't know how you think (and I also believe the reverse to be true), which I'm assuming is why our conflicts tend to flare up. I always, always, always; it's automatic and deeply ingrained within my being and a strong default reaction; when a possibility comes up regarding whether something is true or false, assume that it is true and then compare it to the existing supersystem of understanding I've built since birth. This is Ne: What do I know and how does what I know apply to what's in front of me? When further developed, this instinct automatically desires to force and manipulate all things into a single system within which all is true. This is what, philosophically, leads me to take up ideas like panarchy and to explore the nature of subjectivity. This also leads me to auto-reject one-size-fits-all solutions and ideologies. They don't jibe with dynamic equilibrium and subsequently fail when put into practice. The same happens with appeals to authority (like stating you have a degree). A big loud buzzer goes off in my head because the label of accreditation is meaningless, unlike concepts, data, etc.
Though I refuse to believe you possess emotion.