As promised, here is part one of a four-part series. (Wow, four parts – almost makes the fact that I ended up with four tutorials look...planned.)
Any given Mojo will have four Mojos in particular that share many of the same cues. As mentioned in one of the tutorials, no other Mojo can give off all the cues I give off. But some get pretty close, for different reasons.
Here's a nice list of the beginner-level cues I give off and [what they mean]:
* Nyy Dancing Eyes, buoyant signal [Nyy Mojo]
* Signal of Buoyancy is the most dominant [Nyy Alpha]
* Eyes have a Syncopated (appears to be having another mental dialogue) as opposed to Accentuated, solid rhythm [Interpretive]
* Natural State Nyy perk-up [Nyy Mojo]
* Unhooded Eyes [Objective]
* Gatherer Eyes [Adaptive]
* Right Xai Drift, emotiveness picks up when eyes disengage [Xai User]
* Left Vai Check, look of concern [Vai User]
* Eye drifts and checks have a “going underwater” look that shows lack of comfortability [Objective]
* Unaware Mouth [Xai User]
* Voice has the weighty emotive spectrum of Earnest to Mournful [Xai User]
* Anvil Cheeks [Zyy User]
* Cool Articulation [Zyy User]
* Emotive expression goes above the Midline of the Mouth and Voice [Values-Based]
* Emotive expression does not go into the facial or vocal Brimline [Lead Perceiver]
* Natural State Yin Gesturing and Altered State Yang Gesturing [Adaptive]
* Natural State Approachability and Altered State Boundary Setting [Adaptive]
* Altered State Jutting [Adaptive]
* Jutting is cool and forceful, not warm and persuasive [Zyy User]
* The majority of movements are side to side, as opposed to back to front [Adaptive]
* Lots of overall movement, movements are quick [Objective]
* Movement is fluid and has an overall “bobblehead” quality [Nyy Mojo]
* Ease of Double Barreling (using both Objective Powers) [Objective]
* Altered State Channeling (using both Subjective Powers) [Objective]
* Speech is not inherently structured [Adaptive]
How Pod'Lair Reads People: Introduction & Five Fields - YouTube
I am a Nyy'xai ??(@), which roughly correlates to ENFP in MBTI and other Jungian models. This means the Power of Nyy (??) is the biggest source of mental energy for me, and therefore this Objective, Adaptive, Interpretative Power most defines me and gives meaning to my life. But like that scene in
Return of the Jedi when Yoda said “there... is... another... Skywalker,” there is another Mojo that shares this outlook on life, but in a slightly different way (no, not the incestuous way).
The Nyy'zai ??(=), which roughly equates to ENTP, is the Nyy'xai's Same Source Partner, which is one of the twenty Social Alchemy groupings. That topic is rather advanced for a beginner, but suffice it to say there are many different ways for humans to relate to other humans. Sometimes it can be quite hard to see the similarities, but that is not the case for this dynamic. Having the same Source Power means sharing a boatload of similarities. The key differences lie in the Pod Power compounds they use.
As a Nyy'xai, my Nyy and Xai (as well as my Modulation Powers of Zyy and Vai) form what we call a Compound Relationship. It is helpful to think of each Pod Power as a subatomic particle that cannot make an entire atom. This is because each power does not work in a vacuum. It pairs up with another power on the same side of the brain. My Nyy is therefore always flavored with Xai, even if I'm using much more Nyy in the moment than Xai. If you hate pepperoni but find them mockingly perched on top of that crappy pizza (which is somehow the only pizza left –
noooo!) at your event, you're going to roll your eyes at that stupid pepperoni lover who innocently suggested you remove the offending so-called “edible item” from your pizza. It's just not the same as a succulent cheese pizza, because the pepperoni grease seeps into the cheese around it, and you will still be able to taste that oh-so-disgusting processed meat that you hate. The pepperoni flavors the entire pizza, and likewise the nature of the compound changes when there is a different Tandem there. If you just look at how a Nyy Alpha is using their Nyy, you will still see traces of the Tandem. Perhaps Nyy'xai is a de-pepperoni'd “cheese” pizza and a Nyy'zai is a de-sausage'd “cheese” pizza. You can tell the difference between the pizzas upon eating them, even though they look very similar.
Here is how the above mentioned cues are the same and differ between the two Mojos. Differences have been struck through and rewritten in red:
* Nyy Dancing Eyes, buoyant signal [Nyy Mojo]
* Signal of Buoyancy is the most dominant [Nyy Alpha]
* Eyes have a Syncopated (appears to be having another mental dialogue) as opposed to Accentuated, solid rhythm [Interpretive]
* Natural State Nyy perk-up [Nyy Mojo]
* Unhooded Eyes [Objective]
* Gatherer Eyes [Adaptive]
*
Right Xai Drift, emotiveness picks up when eyes disengage [Xai User] Right Zai Check, emotiveness decreases when eyes disengage [Zai User]
* Left Vai Check, look of concern [Vai User]
* Eye
drifts and checks have a “going underwater” look that shows lack of comfortability [Objective]
*
Unaware Mouth [Xai User] Aware Mouth [Xyy User]
*
Voice has the weighty emotive spectrum of Earnest to Mournful [Xai User] Voice has the persuasive emotive spectrum of Butter to Baleful [Xyy User]
*
Anvil Cheeks [Zyy User] Stoneface Cheeks [Zai User]
*
Cool Articulation [Zyy User] Warm Articulation [Xyy User]
*
Emotive expression goes above the Midline of the Mouth and Voice [Values-Based] Emotive expression goes below the Midline of the Mouth and Voice [Logic-Based]
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Emotive expression Neutralization does not go into the facial or vocal Brimline [Lead Perceiver]
* Natural State Yin Gesturing and Altered State Yang Gesturing [Adaptive]
* Natural State Approachability and Altered State Boundary Setting [Adaptive]
* Altered State Jutting [Adaptive]
*
Jutting is cool and forceful, not warm and persuasive [Zyy User] Jutting is warm and persuasive, not cool and forceful [Xyy User]
* The majority of movements are side to side, as opposed to back to front [Adaptive]
* Lots of overall movement, movements are quick [Objective]
* Movement is fluid and has an overall “bobblehead” quality [Nyy Mojo]
* Ease of Double Barreling (using both Objective Powers) [Objective]
* Altered State Channeling (using both Subjective Powers) [Objective]
* Speech is not inherently structured [Adaptive]
Here is a Nyy'zai for compare-and-contrast purposes. Enter ??(=)X Cate Blanchett!
Cate Blanchett Plays Her Queen - YouTube
She starts this interview playing with her hair and looking rather cagey, as if she would rather not be doing this interview. Nyy'xai like myself are also very cagey, as caginess is a quality of being a Nez Alpha, or one of the four Mojos who have an Interpretive (N) power over a discernment power, either logic or values. This caginess shows up in both Mojos as a “hard to pin down” quality, as Vai is the Nyy Alpha's Polar Power. There is also a wildness to both Nyy Alpha's articulation, which can strike some people as odd, due to Xyy and Zyy's need for control. Because Nyy drives the ship, so to speak, Nyy Alpha Double Barreling (using both Objective Powers simultaneously) gives the third-ranked articulator this wild “where will this go?” unpredictable quality. This is why the Nyy Alpha are naturally cagey creatures.
Cate is rather restrained for an Objective Perceiver. Compare this restrained quality to the massive amount of buoyant energy and overall movement in my videos. (Just look at that hip shift right after I introduced the topic at 0:04 for one of many examples.) This is not a difference between Nyy'xai and Nyy'zai – this is just something that happens to Nyy Mojos when they have to use more of their Modulation powers. You can tell that Cate has some good Momentum going on because she has several Nyy perk-ups and periods with more gesturing. But overall, she is rather restrained in this interview; she uses Zai a lot without muting or slowing down her awesomely developed powers of Xyy articulation. This is quite impressive, but notice how much more awesome, intense, and sexy she is in the scenes from this “Elizabeth” movie. This is extremely common for Nyy Mojos, because they have to promote themselves and their movie in interviews like this. Nyy'zai in particular need to bring in their spunky persuasion with their Offside Xyy. She cannot be overly cold and she needs to engage with the Xyy. (Nyy'xai have to look strong enough to handle criticism with their chilly Zyy. Can they handle the logic and structure themselves well?) She also needs to be serious enough to structure her thoughts and get her point across with Vai. It is hard to sustain enough momentum while simultaneously getting your goal met with the Offside and Polar Directive Powers. Pod'Lair has helped me immensely in this respect, and I would not have been able to put myself out there like this before learning about how my innate configuration works. The aforementioned playing with the hair is Cate Blanchett's way of getting into the articulation and pushing groove. It is a ritual of sorts, and people are ritualistic by nature. I walk down to this area by a lake and go off the trail into the dense woods. It seems like an awesome adventure, and the seclusion of special places like the one I filmed at puts my Xai at ease. People are very different, so they will naturally find different ways and venues to access their Modulation Powers while still rocking some serious momentum. This is what works for me – your mileage may vary.
Nyy'zai can be very cute and playful with their tactical caring under their Source Power of Nyy, which is the power of pure possibility. That is one major playstyle, and many comedians and actresses play that angle. Another common playstyle is what you see here with Cate: a regal bearing that one may misread as Directive due to the gravitas of this approach. One thing that gives her this regal quality is the chilliness of her Zai. She articulates well, but the Zai over Xyy gives the articulation a more calibrated (as opposed to a fiery and passionate) quality. Personally, this makes me think of the purring of a cat: it shows pleasure in a directive fashion, but it has a more constant tone to it, as opposed to the greater variability of the tones a Xyy Mojo like Nai'xyy Natalie Portman has. (I won't go into detail about her, because she is not one of the four major misreads. You can do that for “extra credit” of sorts. Pull up a Natalie Portman interview. What can you see/hear?) Natalie emphasizes words with more passion than Cate does. Cate uses Xyy to this effect several times. (2:23, etc.) Her Xyy isn't imbued with as much feeling and passion as Natalie's. The purring analogy extends to the Adaptive use of Xyy: Cate's Zai takes the volatile edge off of the Xyy while still leaving enough passion to persuade.
Notice how my voice has a completely different tone as Cate's. I use a lot of Values-Based discernment in this tutorial, so I would think a casual observer who only knew about MBTI might correctly assume I am Values-Based, but often this is not the case with some Xai Mojos. This is because Xyy Mojos have very sweet and buttery tones of voice that go up and down in a very melodic fashion; Xai Mojos do not. This is the hypnotic quality that all Xyy Mojos (even Zai'nyy!) have to some degree. As Objective Discernment, Xyy is designed to move a dynamic: in this case a human one. The fluid micromovements of the Aware Mouth are designed to persuade and move these dynamics. You can think of the Aware Mouth as putting out all the stops to get people on board with what the Xyy User is saying. Xai does not do this because it is Subjective Discernment. These powers are naturally weighty and amorphous. Unlike Xyy, Xai often learns its boundaries through experience, as it does not naturally do this. Its values are less defined, so this power has an unaware, invested quality in it. This shows in its emotive spectrum, which is not persuasive Butter to the intimidation of Baleful like Xyy has. It runs in shades from Earnest to Mournful, and Xai alerts the environment to its emotional state in this unaware, authentic way. This shows up in its more monotone vocal tonality, which is paired with the Cool Articulation of Xyy. This is also why the Xai Unaware Mouth has less overall micromovements and focuses on gross muscle movements.
She has the Zai/Xyy mouth jostling thing going on, showing the commonality with the others in the Zai-Xyy Modulation Octate. (At 4:09 she does this while listening to the question, in anticipation of what discernment she will need to prioritize for it. This sort of mouth jostling often happens while an interviewee is listening or otherwise trying to find the exact words to say.) Cate Blanchett shows her Logic-Based nature in how quickly she can neutralize her expression. (Compare this to how easy it is for me to continually emote.) She has two flavors of smile: the neutral eyes smile and the more deliberate smile. She squints her eyes in this second kind of smile, which she displays at 2:23. This looks like it would be her "smile for the camera" smile, whereas the quick neutral eyes smile are for the times where she does not need to hold her smile as long. She does this at the end of the interview when they are talking about fashion. These show that she doesn't care for this topic as much - her squinty-eyed smiles look more genuine to me. She also does this quick smile to show she's actively listening - for instance at 1:16.
She does a claw hand at 3:27, but it has a less wild, more defined quality to them as opposed to the ones I'm rocking around 0:18 of this tutorial. The “water off a duck's back” quality that Zai has, as well as its more defined, Logic-Based nature gives this claw this less wild quality. Her movements are overall less fluid as mine due to the more Yang nature of her Tandem. Cate also uses some altered-state Yang gestures and Yin gestures in this interview as well. All of them are very close to her body, which is a hallmark of an Adaptive Nature. (Notice how I often gesticulate with the lower half of my arms, but keep the upper part locked close to my body most of the time in this tutorial.) Like all Nyy Mojos, especially the Nyy Alpha, Cate Blanchett moves her head around in a fast and fluid manner that we affectionately call “bobblehead.” She is quite expressive with her head movements at times, and she has the Adaptive sway to her overall carriage as well. The part where she says Elizabeth was destined to rule is very intriguing, as she starts leaning forward while disengaged into Vai, and once she comes out of it she looks at the interviewer. (Around 2:58.) It's not the natural buttery jut of a Xyy Mojo Directive, but she uses the gravitas of her Vai and then articulates it with Xyy while altered state jutting to persuasively state her case. This is a very high level maneuver – not many Nyy'zai or Objective Perceivers in general can pull this off.
Cate has a confident-cagey look when engaging with the camera and the interviewer. It gives her a lot of sexy charm (in her chilly way). This ability to look at the camera for long periods of time with the buoyant eyes of Source Nyy gives both Nyy Alpha lots of charm. (This also shows their Objective nature; even shy Nyy Alpha can stare into the camera for longer periods of time than Subjectives can.) There are many Nyy Alpha in creative fields like acting and music, and they are often very highly ranked on lists of the sexiest women alive. It is great that people appreciate some aspects of the Nyy Alpha, even though their overall creative process is not all that well-understood. But these two Mojos are some of the ones that dominate people's ideas on what is considered “sexy,” even among Mojos that would not mesh well with the Nyy'xai or Nyy'zai. One reason why people need to learn how to accurately read Mojo is so this monopoly on sexiness can change to something more all-inclusive. All Mojos are appealing, though your own apparatus will always be naturally drawn to certain Mojos. This is nature's way of making sure you don't surround yourself with people who suppress you.