What was your "whole point" related to then?
Saying I have no balls because I want to avoid abuse is a cruel and heartless thing to say. I do not think you said that explicitly or on purpose but it is hard to get what you say all the time.
What I want is to talk to people who will not judge me like that but those people are not on Twitter. So I said small is better. People do take me seriously without attacking me mostly in real life. The internet is different but not all people attack others there and I have tried to find those spaces. I am not saying defending yourself is bad, I am saying most people only look for people like themselves to feel comfortable saying what they really think, and attacking people is not what makes people take others seriously, in fact, it does the opposite. I like discussions but not when others attack me or others, that is when I take them less seriously.
Don't say something if you can't defend it. Seems pretty simple to me.
No one cares about your beliefs if they are attacking you.
They don't want to understand you if that is the case.
Real non-judgemental situations are the only times people truly wish to understand.
As I said, I can talk to people whom I believe will not attack me.
Those people don't need to defend anything from me because I am not trying to destroy them. Those conditions are in place when people take each other completely seriously.
It is completely appropriate to say, only talk to people who will accept you.
There is no reason for people to have to deal with anyone they don't want to.
That relates to the freedom of everyone being able to believe what they want.
And I can say whatever I want to say, I do not need to defend it because of the first amendment. Anyone forcing me to debate them can't stop me from saying what I want and also ignoring them. It just depends on how I feel about who I want to talk to and I respect others right to do so as well.