We agree on the ends which society should focus on ie. welfare, security, self-determination, etc. but our "ideal" means differ. Converse to the portrayal, I am not zealous in my beliefs. I get taxed to pay for things like welfare, security roads, etc.? I don't mind. I would pay for such things anyway. When the actions of those who control the state starts to become egregious such as the mercantilism of the financial/banking sector and wasting billions of dollars on trying to mitigate climate change, I do start to mind. Effort has been focused on trying to give people the knowledge of detrimental effects.
I do think socialism, fascism, mercantilism, etc. are philosophies which lead society down the path of misery and should be attacked vehemently when ever an ideologue appears.
Advocating and debating for anarcho-capitalism is just a bit of fun due to it being an intellectual exercise. With people such as yourself around the place, it makes the process all the more interesting.