You know what though I really do feel being an INTP is hard. I was friends (drinking buddies, mostly) with this girl at work for a fair while. We'd kind of get touchy feely each time at drinks and one day we eventually made out. I unfortunately got a bit emotionally attached even though she has a long term live-in bf of 7 years. Then I got mad at her after she became a bit distant, had a massive falling out, then recently made up again.... and made out again last Friday.
Anyway I don't want to bore you with that story because I've told people enough lol. But, from an MBTI perspective, it highlights a deeper issue. Shes an ESF of some sort - I never thought about MBTI in all the time we were friends, but in hindsight I probably mispegged her as an ENF.
(tbc)