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So I decided not think so much this year

ZenRaiden

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Essentially I realized I think a whole lot of nothing, so instead of thinking Ill just avoid thinking.
There is fine line between having brake fluid in ones head and actually useful good thoughts.
I am just going to fill my brain with useful thoughts, thoughts that I really like. Its not like thinking makes me smarter or anything.
Realistically I think thinking is just making me dumber on a whole.
Sure its nice entertainment, but it really is dead end for me.
So just positive thoughts, helpful thoughts and shit like that whatever.

The motto of the year is NO BRAIN NO PAIN. :treeswing:
 

Puffy

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What are you doing that’s helping you achieve this goal? :happydolphin:
 

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Awesome. There is something very important about that, in that you need to have techniques that calm the thinking brain down, so you can listen to the calm. Absolutely. A little thinking, and then clear it as you can't be grinding thoughts all the time, its overwhelming.

Anita Moorjani has extra nice ways of easing in to this, she is on facebook, I love her posts:

Here is her most recent:

At the end of the day, it’s really this simple:
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Love deeply
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Laugh often
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Shine your light without holding back
That’s the real purpose—to be the light you came here to be.
 

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dr froyd

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i had an epiphany the other day. I was waking up from a nap, and at that moment, for whatever reason, my brain decided to completely flood me with negative thoughts. They just came rapid-fire, about all kinds of things.

"wtf is this" i thought. And then i realized: whatever this thing i call "I" is, "I" did not invite those thoughts. Maybe some primeval part of my brain got soaked in the wrong sort of neurotrasmitter at that moment, who knows. But the point is: one of *my* big responsibilities in life - "my" as in belonging to what i consider my conscious, rational self - is to control thoughts, discriminate among them, and re-frame them as needed
 

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I am just going to fill my brain with useful thoughts, thoughts that I really like.
So just positive thoughts, helpful thoughts and shit like that whatever.
Sounds useful. If it changes you for the better, which it sounds like it would, then that would make your life better. So good on you for that.

FYI, "useful thoughts" is often known as Wisdom. So you are seeking wisdom, which makes you wise, and a philosopher in the true sense.

The motto of the year is NO BRAIN NO PAIN. :treeswing:
What you think, is worthless, unless it changes what you do.
Brain + action = Smart changes.
Brain + no action = No change.
No brain + action = Stupid changes.
No brain + no action = No change.

So stick to thoughts that are useful, and you can do something about. Then you have to do something about it. Only when you do something to improve your life, will you see positive changes.
 

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I believe that negative thoughts happen because we do not know what to do and they are the default mode of how we handle or cope with this uncertainty.

I am inside my house and I would like to go places but I cannot for many reasons. So I sit here with nothing to do. This is not bad as I found out that all I need to do is absorb my environment as is. Eventually I will no longer feel overwhelmed and just be. This way I can have energy to move.

Being introvert I lose energy until I found all that is required is to have no tasks that need to be done externally. It is an adjustment because everything external requires attention that's draining. Yet if I make sure not to have anything important to do it's not draining.

When you have important things to do and you need to think all the time how not to mess up - that is the problem.

Finding things that are easier requires first observation of what's around you without that worrying. It is deconditioning oneself from being adverse to the outside environment.
 
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