youkneeburst
hypothetical
Im getting into college this july as a freshman and because the campus are towns away from home, Im obliged to find a place to live nearby. The problem is that my Dad wants me to stay in his brother's house, my uncle, with my cousins which is mostly an extroverted family. Ive once stayed a night with them before when I was applying for the university and is already a lot of torture, let alone staying with them for semesters. Im just not so good at socialization, i have unrefined social ethics which just make me awkward and seem so insensitive, like after we dine, i find it very hard to offer hands to do the dishes especially when they refuse to and all other household graces like that. Im planning to transfer into another university next year, which is my goal university at the first place. I havent gotten into my goal university because they admit limited number of students (it's known to be the top university in my country) and so here I am now stuck to my uncle's. I know I could just ask my dad to let me rent some apartment on my own, which can also be better on my studies (lack of distractions and worries) but because of the value of our country and our*family itself that is strong familial connections, its kinda unpolite if I am to live in the same town and yet different house with a close relative, or at least thats what I feel. Also, I am already used to living alone since I lived in a dormitory on my high school, which is also away from home. What can I do? I really want to be at my most productive state possible this year to pull my grades up so I can transfer to my goal university ASAP, and the best for me is living by my own. Should I stand up for what I feel comfortable to? Or should I just take this as an opportunity to learn proper socialization skills and also, not that it's important, to save a little money on my boarding house fee?