Well, that was a waste of time.

Well, that was a waste of time.
I agree completely with your second paragraph.
However, if the patriarchy does exist the best way to fix that is to solve mens issues. What's an issue females have? Being seen as the primary caretaker of children. What's a way to solve that? Empower men to allow them to be the primary caretaker without prejudice! This will draw women away from being seen as the primary caretaker and thus solve that issue.
See a lot of gender problems are inverse. If you solve one side you solve the other. Women aren't seen as competent and have to prove themselves? Make being manly not about being competent at everything all the time. Make men who aren't competent exist and be visible in society in a meaningful manner and people will realise that men suck at stuff... err okay maybe not that. How about... don't judge and assume men are socially oblivious and useless at social tasks and this will in turn help women and men be seen as individuals.
Likewise let male rape be heard and taken seriously, this will increase the seriousness of female rape and lower false accusations and accusations of false accusations.
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By very few radical people, perhaps. I've yet to encounter anyone who self identifies as an MRA (men's rights advocate) who is not also a WRA (woman's rights advocate). You might find more extreme views when you start getting into MGTOW and PUA's, but even then it's hardly reflective of the majority of those communities.
What's often (I'd go so far as to say almost always) the case, as like I'm doing in this thread, is to contrast men against women to see if they do in fact have relative equality (both legally and of opportunity, not outcome). That is to say, to see if the patriarchy actually exists.
It seems strange to me that oppression would be claimed without having a metric by which to base that on. If you're looking for oppression of minority races in a culture, you compare against the majority race. If comparisons are not allowed, any and every inconvenience experienced by the group being examined can be seen as oppressive.
There's not much genuine evidence supporting the idea that women are significantly more raped than men. I say "genuine", because "made to penetrate" is often counted as not rape. This holds true for domestic violence and many other issues seen as "women's issues" as well.
Sexual predation is not a gendered issue. Nor is partner violence. It affects men and women alike and is not expressed by mentally healthy individuals.
I see very little evidence to support the idea that there is structural racism persisting in western countries today.You could use the same method to deny the existence of structural racism.
There's a pretty good list of citations to relevant studies here. It's the bibliography of this, which is unfortunately behind a paywall. It's important to note that this is mainly looking at female on male sexual predation, and the numbers for male on male are not well known (as far as I know).So there is some genuine evidence supporting the idea that women are significantly more raped than men? What's the evidence that they aren't? I'm sure men are also raped, and sexually harassed, but to the same degree? Doesn't sound probable what with the innate differences in sexuality.
Oh boy, I hope it's something significantly more compelling than hard data with explicitly defined methodologies that can be criticized if they're flawed.
This isn't a gender war. It's not men vs women. It's Patriarchy proponents vs their critics (many of which are women).
Oh boy... anecdotes
Because that's totally a more valid form of "evidence" than statistics.
There's sexual dimorphism, human beings are a tournament species more so than a pair bonding one. But humans are largely memetic creatures, can't just point to genetics and expect the answers to be there. Toy preference is a good counter to the tabula rasa notion, but that notion is just cuckoo from the get go. You don't need the tabula rasa notion to deny arguments which claim that sexism doesn't exist anymore and all the differences in how men and women live their lives and are treated are due to genetics, because we don't a precise enough understanding of human cognition to seperate genetic influence from memetic on such a large scale covering so many different areas.
Yeah exactly, that's the thing and why it's a change the discourse has turned out the way it has.
You could use the same method to deny the existence of structural racism. Not very meaningful imo. Just because a concept is nebulous by its very definition doesn't mean it shouldn't be considered to exist, which I presume is the implication of it not being falsifiable. One can prove specific instances of sexism or rasism, patriarchy or structural rasism and other similar instances, are just the imagined sums of these instances. Sure they are problematic because there is more being imagined than has been verified but this also prompts further uncovering.
So there is some genuine evidence supporting the idea that women are significantly more raped than men? What's the evidence that they aren't? I'm sure men are also raped, and sexually harassed, but to the same degree? Doesn't sound probable what with the innate differences in sexuality.
Let's say it turns out women are statistically better at childcare and men are slightly better with machines.If men and women are different and men are better at technology, then what - if anything - are women better at? And if the difference is too skewed and deep and decisive to cope with, how do we harness its truth?
Let's say it turns out women are statistically better at childcare and men are slightly better with machines.
What do you do? Do you force people into roles based on their predispositions, or do you let everyone try their strengths and find their answers.
What do you do with this knowledge? Does it change anything about the situation?
Not necessarily political power. You are asking what the differences are and I'm asking what are you going to do with your answer.What i would do if i had political power in my country would be to eliminate policies based on the premise of innate psychological gender likeness. I wouldn't force anyone, except forcing the forcers to stop forcing. My whole point is self-actualization. Ideally, people would end up in places where they're useful, but forcing this defeats the point entirely.
Maybe you don't live in a place where state politicians spend time thinking about how they should "get the outcome right" by incentivizing/soft-coercing. I can see why my post would have you confused. But i'm pro individuality and anti forcing people into roles which is why i'm in this discussion.
Not necessarily political power. You are asking what the differences are and I'm asking what are you going to do with your answer.
I like your principles, I don't see how it's related but I'll answer.
I live in a place that recently elected a completely bigoted, fanatic, catholic party giving them a decisive majority in the government and allowing them to make idiots of themselves to the international community, as they did in the past. People in politics here don't care about forcing, they just want to look nice and be elected over and over to grab the money and secure futures for their family members. It doesn't matter which party rules here, things generally look the same.
I think you may be fundamentally missing the point. It's not aptitude or cognitive deficiencies/advantage. While these differences do exist to some extent, it's preference, not ability. One may be a brilliant pianist but prefer not to peruse that as a career.@bronto and @420munkey
So is the general criticism of this tabula rasa assumption underlying feminist thought the assertion that the female gender is not as cognitively adapted to some tasks as the male gender? I get what is being negated but what is being affirmed? <~~~this is the point that needs discussing now. If feminism (in general, there are many strains in fact) is wrong about its expectations of statistical outcome and is now wildly putting it down to a general conspiracy theory of "the patriarchy" when it is innate differences causing the discrepancy, what must we tell women to accept about themselves and to tell their daughters etc... Should the female gender be encouraged to direct itself towards things it is more adapted to? Or should everyone just be satisfied with things as they are? Is that the point?
Dunno
The studies I looked at always told me cognitive differences were pretty minimal, and variations between individuals were of more consequence than between genders. Real cognitive difference kicks in later on with culture... Here is a study for example that pretty much counters all toy differentiation studies monkey posted, and if the disparity is not innate + biological, then feminism is correct in its assumption that the disparity is down to culture.
Here is linked study for monkey, it counters the toy studies you linked (Brontosaurie mentioned them to me too but never provided them) I will answer you more specifically laterz though weed smoking ape.
https://software.rc.fas.harvard.edu/lds/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/spelke2005.pdf
I think you may be fundamentally missing the point. It's not aptitude or cognitive deficiencies/advantage. While these differences do exist to some extent, it's preference, not ability. One may be a brilliant pianist but prefer not to peruse that as a career.
Men aren't custodians more often than women because either one is smarter, it's just a job that is preferred by one sex over another, and there's nothing wrong with that.
I'd say the freedom of preference is effective enough in providing correct starting points. Personal endeavour and community behind are the life shaping factors that allow the individual to fill a role in the society.Paragraph 1: I can see your point, but how argue self-actualization properly with people who think its bottom line is "do whatever you want" rather than "make the best of yourself"? The notion of tabula rasa is contrary to the philosophy of self-actualization, at least in certain spots. I honestly think people need to confront and acclimatize themselves to the idea that just because we all have minds doesn't make these minds the same, people have different capacities and these are sometimes correlated with sex or ethnicity.
I'd say the freedom of preference is effective enough in providing correct starting points. Personal endeavour and community behind are the life shaping factors that allow the individual to fill a role in the society.
The differences aren't big enough to falsify the tabula rasa idea or to consider limiting freedom or community stereotyping as helpful and they aren't small enough to push for the role equilibrium as the only right way.
The patriarchy to address is the inequality arising from factors other than agency (nature, choice), that could discriminate for gender and getting rid of any basis for discrimination external to the individual performance.
I'd say the freedom of preference is effective enough in providing correct starting points. Personal endeavour and community behind are the life shaping factors that allow the individual to fill a role in the society.
The differences aren't big enough to falsify the tabula rasa idea or to consider limiting freedom or community stereotyping as helpful and they aren't small enough to push for the role equilibrium as the only right way.
The patriarchy to address is the inequality arising from factors other than agency (nature, choice), that could discriminate for gender and getting rid of any basis for discrimination external to the individual performance.
I'm not aware of tabula rasa as defined inside of the patriarchy discourse, so I'm going with the general tabula rasa, which is true with respect to both men and women that they can become pretty much anything and sex restriction doesn't apply. What applies though is their innate preferences and challenges.When you say the differences aren't big enough to falsify the tabula rasa idea what do you mean? How big a difference would it take to falsify it? The tabula rasa idea states that there are no biological differences, or in the very least that they are entirely negligible.
In this I'd agree with you, the whole media-policy idea-forming structure should be brought down as it pollutes everything.Maybe it's a start. But how smuggle that nice liberalism in there? I just get the feeling political correctness and postmodernism need to be overthrown as they don't allow for appeals to reason. It's like trying to run a car shop by teaching people to stand beside cars and wave tools. It looks right, but they're still stuck in their old non-car-fixing ways until you instruct them in the mechanics.
Sure, I don't mean to change people's functioning to stop them from discriminating, rather I'd think of a system where discrimination is evident and immediately subjective and easily defended from or pointed out. Or where there are ways of avoiding it, alternatives.Getting rid of discrimination isn't a realistic ambition imo. We should keep track of it, mostly. It is relevant, just not a chief concern and not a site of effective solutions.
It's important to remember that a job/career is more than just the application of a skill. There are a host of different factors at play when choosing what you do for a living, like compensation, how demanding the job is, and a litany of other factors that are unique to certain jobs/categories (like willingness to be exposed to vomit or feces in the case of custodial work, willingness to potentially be subjected to violence, willingness to work outside in the heat/cold, willingness to work outside the law, etc). Each individual is going to weigh the importance of these factors differently, either positively or negatively, depending on their preferences, and average trends in these preferences can exist amongst various demographics.In the end, it'd be hard to argue that a preference difference won't also entail a capacity difference, at least practically.
You're right that preference is the better starting point, though.
I see very little evidence to support the idea that there is structural racism persisting in western countries today.
There's a pretty good list of citations to relevant studies here. It's the bibliography of this, which is unfortunately behind a paywall. It's important to note that this is mainly looking at female on male sexual predation, and the numbers for male on male are not well known (as far as I know).
I think simply looking at aptitude is missing most of the picture.
Either that or misinterpreted.That's rather different from what you were stating about CEO'S earlier...
At least from what I read, did I mis read?
What I find "problematic" is intellectually dishonest arguments like the conflation of observed negative outcomes with oppression. There's no barrier to opportunity, as far as I can see. Discrimination based on race and gender is illegal, and has been for quite some time.You must not have been looking then. Either that or there's something about the concepts definition, or the demonstration methods employed which are problematic to you. Irregardless, if you deny structural racism in western countries, then there's little point in discussing sexism.
It doesn't lack context. It's a list of cited studies, each of which you can look into if you desire. The studies there seem to show a fairly equal distribution of men and women being sexually assaulted by a fairly equal distribution of men and women. Of course, on average, women are more likely to have reported being a victim of sexual assault, but not by a very wide margin (which is what I mean when I say "fairly equal"). If you want to simply write off evidence of this as "loony", then you've demonstrated that you're unwilling to be reasoned with and there's no point in engaging with you further.The material you link to lacks context and is thus not put in proportion and as such is more or less irrelevant. I'm not denying the fact that females rape and/or sexually harass men. Of course they do, and oftentimes the reactions from the social sphere wherein such rape occurs is disgusting. Rape Culture is also a bullshit concept, at least 90% of it or some similar number. But to deny that rapists are primarily men and victims primarily women is just loony. Come on, you said you were aware of biological differences, then you should understand that in a tournament species rape and sexual harrasment is not going to be even close to gender neutral in any matter because different reproductive strategies are employed.
What I find "problematic" is intellectually dishonest arguments like the conflation of observed negative outcomes with oppression. There's no barrier to opportunity, as far as I can see. Discrimination based on race and gender is illegal, and has been for quite some time.
It doesn't lack context. It's a list of cited studies, each of which you can look into if you desire. The studies there seem to show a fairly equal distribution of men and women being sexually assaulted by a fairly equal distribution of men and women. Of course, on average, women are more likely to have reported being a victim of sexual assault, but not by a very wide margin (which is what I mean when I say "fairly equal"). If you want to simply write off evidence of this as "loony", then you've demonstrated that you're unwilling to be reasoned with and there's no point in engaging with you further.
It's important to remember that a job/career is more than just the application of a skill. There are a host of different factors at play when choosing what you do for a living, like compensation, how demanding the job is, and a litany of other factors that are unique to certain jobs/categories (like willingness to be exposed to vomit or feces in the case of custodial work, willingness to potentially be subjected to violence, willingness to work outside in the heat/cold, willingness to work outside the law, etc). Each individual is going to weigh the importance of these factors differently, either positively or negatively, depending on their preferences, and average trends in these preferences can exist amongst various demographics.
I think simply looking at aptitude is missing most of the picture.
You can't pass a law to eradicate prejudice. You can, however, pass a law making it illegal to be prejudice, thus rendering equal opportunity. If you are discriminated against, you can take legal action and be compensated extremely well for it. It's an incredible disincentive to discriminate, but that doesn't mean it never happens. The fact that it does happen also doesn't mean it's systemic. It's not a black and white situation.I take issue with your defense of 'it's illegal now', '(so obviously it doesn't exist)' sort of attitude. At least that's what I am perceiving from you, correct me if I'm wrong.
So basically your definition of racism isn't the same as that which is commonly employed, yours being more precise, less inclusive? Or what exactly do you mean?
Weed is illegal in plenty of places where people smoke it. I guess they don't actually smoke weed though, cause it's illegal?
I mean discrimination based on race.So basically your definition of racism isn't the same as that which is commonly employed, yours being more precise, less inclusive? Or what exactly do you mean?
As I clearly stated, you can look into each study further if you'd like more context. I basically gave you a list of 42 studies and you're complaining that it didn't comprehensively explain each one.And the nature of such assault? The severity? What was that about intellectually dishonest arguments like conflation of observed negative outcomes again?
You can't pass a law to eradicate prejudice. You can, however, pass a law making it illegal to be prejudice, thus rendering equal opportunity. If you are discriminated against, you can take legal action and be compensated extremely well for it. It's an incredible disincentive to discriminate, but that doesn't mean it never happens. The fact that it does happen also doesn't mean it's systemic. It's not a black and white situation.
Yes, exactly this.What I gather from his position... I am probably all sorts of off base...
The fact that woman are statistically less present in a certain workforce is treated as 'proof 'of their oppression and rejection within that workforce.
Statistics showing more blacks in jail is automatic proof that cops are oppressing blacks.
It shouldn't be 'automatic proof' at most it should be a reason to investigate and obtain what is the source of this. It also shouldn't be gone into with the midset to prove that racism and sexism exists but to instead enter with an open mind of many possibilities.
I think you're conflating equality of opportunity with equality of outcome.Passing a law making it illegal to be prejudices does not equate creating equal opportunity, your post even says so itself.
You wanted prove, I gave you proof. It's not my fault that it was more than you're comfortable with and simultaneously wasn't as verbose as you were comfortable with. If you want to look them up, simply go to scholar.google.com and query the study you're interested in. You don't have to look at all of them, just the ones you want (without cherry-picking the outliers).I've also had enough time to look at most of the studies you linked (thank you very much for linking extremely short summaries of 42 studies to support a ridiculous claim while saying here ya go you can look em up individually lol)and they are not enough to support the case you've made about rape.
I mean discrimination based on race.
As I clearly stated, you can look into each study further if you'd like more context. I basically gave you a list of 42 studies and you're complaining that it didn't comprehensively explain each one.
Frankly, I don't care what it says on Wikipedia. The fact that you're honestly trying to promote the content of Wikipedia over dozens of actual peer reviewed studies says quite a lot about how intellectually honest you're being.
What I gather from his position... I am probably all sorts of off base...
The fact that woman are statistically less present in a certain workforce is treated as 'proof 'of their oppression and rejection within that workforce.
Statistics showing more blacks in jail is automatic proof that cops are oppressing blacks.
It shouldn't be 'automatic proof' at most it should be a reason to investigate and obtain what is the source of this. It also shouldn't be gone into with the midset to prove that racism and sexism exists but to instead enter with an open mind of many possibilities.
As I also stated, it's the bibliography of a larger report (which I also linked), which you are able to access if you so choose to.Actually that wikipedia article (and its sources, I mean you did look at all those before dismissing what it right? And the 9 years of editing history? You did look at all that before dismissing it right? I mean you have to because you just dumped extremely short summaries of parts of the contents of 42 studies of largely dubious online availability unto to me) pwns what you gave me about 50 times over.
Yeah I'm more intellectually dishonest than you are. Because you don't get how silly you're being so you can't be dishonest.
...and this proves racial bias how? This is like trying to honestly claim "black people are clearly worse human beings. Look how many more of them are in prison than white people".Statistics are often that retarded when it comes to sexism, but measuring methods are more sophisticated when it comes to racism. One doesn't just look at the amount of white people in jail directly compared to the amount of black.
...and this proves racial bias how? This is like trying to honestly claim "black people are clearly worse human beings. Look how many more of them are in prison than white people".
As I also stated, it's the bibliography of a larger report (which I also linked), which you are able to access if you so choose to.
Sorry, I misread what you wrote.I wasn't trying to prove racial bias to him. And no it's not like that at all, what is said was explicitly that such was not the case and that is like saying it is so? Excuse me but what?
I mean discrimination based on race.
As I clearly stated, you can look into each study further if you'd like more context. I basically gave you a list of 42 studies and you're complaining that it didn't comprehensively explain each one.
Frankly, I don't care what it says on Wikipedia. The fact that you're honestly trying to promote the content of Wikipedia over dozens of actual peer reviewed studies says quite a lot about how intellectually honest you're being.
I'm having a bit of trouble finding the studies that actually had accessible data (can't remember the titles of the study), but here's one that gets at what I was saying.No I was just completely exhausted, morning come I'm interested again, I'll check out the studies. Thanks for a thorough answer, if you could take the time to complete it that would be great (I mean extrapolate on how these supposed innate differences should translate to adult society)
Alright, fine, I'll examine the first relevant citation.Wikipedia comes with footnotes, it's those sources you should criticising.
I was attempting to explore the cultural avenue, unfortunately I had to leave my post.
Monkey keeps talking about 'intellectual honesty', but what intellectual diversity is he bringing to the table?
Alright, fine, I'll examine the first relevant citation.
Citation 7 -> BBC Article -> CDC Site -> Summary Report -> Let's look at how "rape" is defined...
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Alright, fine, I'll examine the first relevant citation.
Citation 7 -> BBC Article -> CDC Site -> Summary Report -> Let's look at how "rape" is defined...
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According to this, only being penetrated counts as rape against either a man or a woman. While "made to penetrate" is still generously (sarcasm intended) still being deemed "sexual assault", it isn't classified as rape. Being drunk, regardless of by choice or not, is considered rape by this report, but being forcefully fucked by a woman against your will isn't.
But fuck it, we've come this far, let's dig deeper.
Let's take a look at the Prevalence of Sexual Violence, women as compared to men, in the last 12 months in the category of "Other sexual violence" (I'll get to rape in a minute. hold on):
Women: Estimated number of victims 6,646,000, 5.6%
Men: Estimated number of victims 6,027,000, 5.3%
But wait, that's not fair. "Made to penetrate" only applies to men in that category, so let's deduct that:
Women: Estimated number of victims 6,646,000
Men: Estimated number of victims 4,760,000
A bit of a difference, but not massive.
Now, let's look at rape.
Women: Estimated number of victims, 1,270,000 1.1%
Men: Estimated number of victims, *Estimate is not reported
Oh, wait a minute, we subtracted, but we forgot to add. Let's fix that:
Women: Estimated number of victims, 1,270,000 1.1%
Men: Estimated number of victims, 1,267,000 1.1%
Hmm, well, those numbers look pretty damn similar. That's not at all what the Wikipedia article (which, again cited the fucking BBC as the source, not the actual report itself) would seem to indicate. Sure seems like those 9 years of edits really resulted in some top quality stuff...
The reason I looked at 12 month data rather than lifetime is because human memory is terrible and this study had absolutely atrocious definitions for rape that would have included drunk sex. The 12 month data seems like a far more reliable indicator of the actual prevalence of sexual predation/victimization in our society.
The rest of my post was in regards to the 'patriachy', not rape. There's another recent thread on rape somewhere.
I still contest that a covert patriachy exits in the west (politically, econonically and culturally), and that an overt patriachy still exits more predominantly else where including politically, economically, religiously and culturally.