Rune
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I mentioned this in my introduction but in my long time at PerC, I saw a tremendous amount of people claiming how set in stone the MBTI is, and I just want to share my argument about how theyre wrong in their conclusion.
Honestly, I am LIVING PROOF of their wrongness. Lol.
So I dont know whether I stumbled upon the theory when it was still in its infancy, but growing up knowing about it, and really and truly identifying with my INFP label, and feeling more like I knew where I fit in society or with humanity or whatever.. Ive always understood that there ARE clear benefits to having found your MBTI type..
However..
people saying it is set in stone are wrong because people still change over time.
Theyre still growing into who they will become. even then, theyre still growing and changing.
because people are multi-faceted.
I wasnt even like a super young child that got an MBTI type before my personality developed.
Ive just grown to become a much different person than the person I used to be.
And calling it a transformation based on trauma is.. well, I mean ive suffered traumas, but its not like I died and some INTP spirit possessed my body..
Im still "me".
I chose my own path and it just led me here..
Definitely didnt see it coming!
but here we are..
The thing is, MBTI is about personality archetypes.
Theyre just snapshots.
and cognitive functions are associated with those archetypes as an explanation for WHY people are the way they are.
but people still say those too are set in stone..
it has to be one specific way of thinking all the time.
You only have these CF strings.
Youre not thinking with these, because thats *impossible*!
but what use is MBTI or cognitive functions if you try to force fit yourself into that same archetypal box your entire life, even when the label no longer fits?
Just because people say it wont and cant change so youre screwed unless some traumatic event displaces your soul from its body??
I wasnt even trying to prove these people wrong..
but..
its just a matter of fact.
People are growing all their lives.
Maybe its true of people stuck in some specific mindset, but that cant be expected to fit for everyone.
If someone says *you just werent an INFP then* well there are a lot of people, including myself that will whole-heartedly disagree with you.
Just ask my old friends.
I was the epitome of the INFP archetype.
Now people see me as over the top logical and critical.
Thats a pretty big distinguishing feature between Fi and Ti.
Fi, broke down and cried in community college from all the stress of being a super slow learner. From feeling hated. but i was friendly and known as a sweet but naive person.
Ti, Now Im cold and distant and a person people prefer to avoid, even if I havent exactly meant to.
At the very least, theres no reason for me NOT to identify as an INTP.
because if the shoe fits, why try to force one on your foot that doesnt fit just for nostalgias sake?
Do people still wear the same shoes they wore as a baby?
The same pair of shoes all their lives?
I do think itd be pretty sweet if we could just spray on our shoes like that dude did in Cloudy with a chance of meatballs.. xD
kidding.. im not sure thatd be hygenic.
btw, people may see a crapload of Fi in this post.. and thats FI-NE.
[lollll]
but.. my more Ti argument which inspires this rant is on my tablet right now and its more mean than this is..
and well, I PREFER not to come across as someone unlikable if i can avoid it.
Honestly, I am LIVING PROOF of their wrongness. Lol.
So I dont know whether I stumbled upon the theory when it was still in its infancy, but growing up knowing about it, and really and truly identifying with my INFP label, and feeling more like I knew where I fit in society or with humanity or whatever.. Ive always understood that there ARE clear benefits to having found your MBTI type..
However..
people saying it is set in stone are wrong because people still change over time.
Theyre still growing into who they will become. even then, theyre still growing and changing.
because people are multi-faceted.
I wasnt even like a super young child that got an MBTI type before my personality developed.
Ive just grown to become a much different person than the person I used to be.
And calling it a transformation based on trauma is.. well, I mean ive suffered traumas, but its not like I died and some INTP spirit possessed my body..
Im still "me".
I chose my own path and it just led me here..
Definitely didnt see it coming!
but here we are..
The thing is, MBTI is about personality archetypes.
Theyre just snapshots.
and cognitive functions are associated with those archetypes as an explanation for WHY people are the way they are.
but people still say those too are set in stone..
it has to be one specific way of thinking all the time.
You only have these CF strings.
Youre not thinking with these, because thats *impossible*!
but what use is MBTI or cognitive functions if you try to force fit yourself into that same archetypal box your entire life, even when the label no longer fits?
Just because people say it wont and cant change so youre screwed unless some traumatic event displaces your soul from its body??
I wasnt even trying to prove these people wrong..
but..
its just a matter of fact.
People are growing all their lives.
Maybe its true of people stuck in some specific mindset, but that cant be expected to fit for everyone.
If someone says *you just werent an INFP then* well there are a lot of people, including myself that will whole-heartedly disagree with you.
Just ask my old friends.
I was the epitome of the INFP archetype.
Now people see me as over the top logical and critical.
Thats a pretty big distinguishing feature between Fi and Ti.
Fi, broke down and cried in community college from all the stress of being a super slow learner. From feeling hated. but i was friendly and known as a sweet but naive person.
Ti, Now Im cold and distant and a person people prefer to avoid, even if I havent exactly meant to.
At the very least, theres no reason for me NOT to identify as an INTP.
because if the shoe fits, why try to force one on your foot that doesnt fit just for nostalgias sake?
Do people still wear the same shoes they wore as a baby?
The same pair of shoes all their lives?
I do think itd be pretty sweet if we could just spray on our shoes like that dude did in Cloudy with a chance of meatballs.. xD
kidding.. im not sure thatd be hygenic.
btw, people may see a crapload of Fi in this post.. and thats FI-NE.
[lollll]
but.. my more Ti argument which inspires this rant is on my tablet right now and its more mean than this is..
and well, I PREFER not to come across as someone unlikable if i can avoid it.