Which types do you have the hardest time getting along with?

[Ink]

Which types do you have the hardest time getting along with? In constant close contact, living with eachother etc.

 

[own8ge]

How can INFJ or ISFP be hard? I don't understand.

 

[JASSY]

@own8ge

ISFP I dated one for two years and he was so moody/wrecklessly impulsive.
INFJ my dad and my best friend have temper issues and take everything personal

Although I think anyone can be somewhat to extremely annoying .

 

[Brontosaurie]

SJ types overall. i am the cliché.

 

[scorpiomover]

Different types, at different times of my life.

 

[Montresor]

he was so moody/wrecklessly impulsive.

Haha yup!!

 

[nanook]

differences in judgement could possibly be compensated for with well-meaning intelligence.

people with a combination of Ni and Se don't seem to live in the same time and space dimension as people with a combination of Ne and Si. when locked into a room, there is involuntary alienation. (though it's not like this implies instant war, it's just strange at first)

that's my current impression anyhow.

 

[TheScornedReflex]

differences in judgement could possibly be compensated for with intelligence.

people with Ni and Se don't seem to live in the same time and space dimension as people with Ne and Si. when locked into a room, there is involuntary alienation.

that's my current impression anyhow.

I am best friends with an INTJ. And I agree. He text me last night saying that our friendship is a stalemate of wills. (He was reading an article about INTJ/INTP relationships). It made me laugh.

 

[Obsidian]

Basically, I find INFJs annoying because generally they are just smart enough to think that they are smart, but are too illogical to actually be smart.

I voted ISTJ, ESFJ, and INFJ.

 

[Obsidian]

Also, I think I am just not that big a fan of Ni

 

[Ink]

I find it weird that I usually get along very well with ESFJs. Maybe it will change someday.

 

[Duxwing]

ESFJ's, both young and old, make thunder-chat so annoying that I want to effect brutal violence on someone nearby, preferably with an ice-pick.

-Duxwing

 

[own8ge]

Basically, I find INFJs annoying because generally they are just smart enough to think that they are smart, but are too illogical to actually be smart.

I know right?! I have this extremely with myself. It's a constant battle I have with myself. Am I being a fucking retard for thinking like this or is it truly justifiable? It's a question that always swims around in my head. My overly high IQ doesn't stand a chance to grant my consciousness confidence in thinking.

Mainly it is because we INFJs think in perspectives and philosophy. Nothing is wrong with doing that, it's just that it goes beyond our own capable understanding. So we would actually ramble things based on the way we feel rather than to think as the scale of what we are trying to think is way to big to grasp.

Irrational huh? Though... We, or at least the well developed ones, acknowledge this with every word that is being said. We know that we are likely full of shit. What we also notice with ease though, is that others are even more full of shit. And that shit really pisses us off.

Though... Even then, it might merely be our perception for the other person to be full of shit because our perception is ignorant of essential elements. Though, when we are certain, it probably is likely. When we are uncertain, we can be sure it is certain. We are a mess. Our thoughts are way to intelligent for our own consciousness causing us objectively to be fools.

I could write 10000 pages of text right now. That is how detached I am from reality. No1 will care. No1 will read this. I don't even care if anyone reads this because atm I'm just being full of shit... Like always...
I keep writing though, for some higher purpose or w/e. It is my intuition that does all the work. Intuition pushed forward by emotions. Wow, that sounds irrational. It must be! It must be! Burn the witch!

 

[MMarcus]

theres no intj option and u put infp twice. i was gonna vote intj their tertiary fi is annoying af. some intj's i know will be in a great convo and they randomly get offended. if there is nothing remotely reasonable for them to get offended about they will be a dick and when i reciprocate they get offended.

 

[Duxwing]

I am best friends with an INTJ. And I agree. He text me last night saying that our friendship is a stalemate of wills. (He was reading an article about INTJ/INTP relationships). It made me laugh.

I can attest to that as well. Proxy and I think so differently while having the same goals in mind.

-Duxwing

 

[Absurdity]

I have trouble getting along with assholes and morons. They seem pretty evenly distributed across the spectrum.

 

[Wolf18]

In general, I find INFJs to be very "no one understands me and I'm so unique and special," which is very nice for them, but it is annoying when it's all they can talk about. Otherwise, they can be very nice.

I find ISFPs and INFPs to be emotional know-it-alls. For example, regularly: I am researching something and an ISFP friend-type person tries to make conversation. I make a cold remark to let him know that I am busy, and now is not a good time to talk. Then he says, "you're just pretending not to be sad, but I know that you're really a crying inside. You don't need to hide it from me. I used to be like that too, hiding my emotions, but you can open up to me and you'll feel better." Projection. I'm not sad.

I suppose ESTJs can be a bit difficult to deal with because they are inflexible, and many ESTJ students I know tend to be a bit egotistical as well. Probably by coincidence, a lot of my ESTJ peers are sexist on top of egotistical. Not pleasant.

SW

 

[Pyropyro]

ESTJ's and ENTJ's annoy me a lot. I don't like bossy people.

 

[Hadoblado]

OMG I hate ESTJs. Well.. all the ones I know anyway. Given their circumstance in life, they should be depressed, but they're not, and that makes me sad. They're so fucking confident with so little happening beneath the bonnet.

 

[Montresor]

I like the ESTJ flavour this thread has taken. That was my vote way back.

 

[Lot]

I like ESTJ's once they learn to use all their CF's and realize that knowing and caring about emotional states of others is practical. Then they are some of the best people to be around. Other wise they are total pricks and do nothing but piss me off to no end. I've only met a few that have reached maturity in their type. So I picked them.

ISTJ's are fun until they "grow up". They can be quite playful and their sense of humor is quite clever. I hear stories that they get better when they get older. I have yet to see it. I also hate when they get put in a position of authority. They be come the very definition of totalitarian dictator. Their way is the only way. They often don't bend, even to sound reasoning. But this is only my minor experience. I do know a quite pleasant ISTJ chap (I bet deep down he hates everyone). So maybe not all become total pricks.... just most.

 

[EvilBlitz]

Interesting. Most of my friends and my ex-wife are all EXXJs. I have been told it is because I enjoy the conflict.
I personally think it is because they are they most willing to challenge my ideas and offer different views. My country doesn't have a very strong culture of debate.(Supposedly 1/3 are ISFJ/ISTJ from one site I found, and fits from my experience.)

Personally my vote is ISFJ. They typically seem to love the bling, are rule following, ass kissing suck ups with poor logic and afraid of a decent debate.

Closely followed by ISTJ. Their utter obsession with social structure is so grating.

ESTJ and ENTJ are easy to get along with, dont take their brashness overconfidence so bad and argue back just as strongly and you will be fine. They view us as useful minions, reverse that, see them as the best implementors of our theories, you just have to convince them first(easier with ENTJ). I also find I can share humour more easily with those types than others for some reason.

 

[Beat Mango]

ESTJ and ESFJ kill my life

 

[Montresor]

<<Enjoys what has been recently said about ISTJ as well.

Spot on the money.

 

[Architect]

<<Enjoys what has been recently said about ISTJ as well.

Spot on the money.

Aren't those sweeping generalizations about Sensors?

 

[Montresor]

Aren't those sweeping generalizations about Sensors?

In proper context, anyways.

 

[QuietFire]

INFP is doubled in the poll. INTJ!!!!!

 

[SLushhYYY]

@own8ge

ISFP I dated one for two years and he was so moody/wrecklessly impulsive.
INFJ my dad and my best friend have temper issues and take everything personal

Although I think anyone can be somewhat to extremely annoying .

Your dad isnt an INFJ.

 

[TimeAsylums]

I have trouble getting along with assholes and morons. They seem pretty evenly distributed across the spectrum.

lol ok agreed.

but nonetheless looks like SJs and SPs, or just Sx takes the cake! woo!

 

[QuickTwist]

I don't know... I don't like it when people are offensive and I don't like it when people get offended easily. Its also hard for me to get a word in when I'm talking to an extravert. Their loss I guess.

 

[Shanks]

ESFP : they are so shallow, but very confident that they are the most rightfull

all bossy type of people (I guess it's J)
all people who don't use their logic to calm down and takes everything so seriously in emotional way. (F)
all people who just can't get over with small things just because of value in irrational way (F)

 

[chi-moon]

ESTJ. One that I know just won't listen to any of my opinion, demand me to just shut up and believe what he believes. He even accused me of doing and believing something ridiculous without letting me explain myself. Basically all I can do is just listen to him claiming that he is very righteous and all that crap, without talking back. He claim to be logical yet his logic is irrational and bordering on being delusional. The best way to deal with him is just being silent.

 

[Crux_Cheetah]

You put INFP twice and you forgot INTJ, I think..
But I've an ESFJ mom and it takes a lot of effort to get along with her..lol