Romantic association is probably why we do anything impractical, a very general iconcept that beautiful and unique ideas can be associated with certain subjects. These ideas vary from person to person and might come more easily to different people than others because of certain barriers or lack of certain tendencies.
I think we romantically associate primarily to explore what we find beautiful or intriguing since to do so is fun or exciting.
In a case when it is morality or what one views as conventional knowledge that holds a person back from romantically associating an idea or a concept, it is easy for that person to view those who are able to do this as disturbed, wrong or sick.
Personally, I would rather forget about subjective and skewed standpoints and view matters as they are, objectively. I think this is one of the reasons people find intp weird, since we do not living in the same dimension or are bound by the same rules.
I like anime because of its wonderful diversity and its creative and intellectual richness. Of course there are certain shows that cater to different tastes, but the well done series are always worth a watch.
It also grants me insight into the interesting mentality and culture of the japanese people. Of course what we mainly see is its subculture and at times, underbelly, but I am a person who would rather see things holistically and so I would not have it any other way.
There are those who would argue that anime only shows a very selective glimpse and is quite unrealistic. However I will say in reply that while that is true in certain cases, it is hardly in all. I can learn about the japanese psyche simply because anime was written by a japanese person and the fact that the imagination that fuels anime is not as bound by societal conventions means I can glean a more intimate and deeper look into the japanese psyche.
Well thats why I like anime, its a ride.