What is it like not being a male?

[BurnedOut]

What is it like being not a male? How do you cope with the biases? What do you think of others of your ilk who take the beating of the society for not being a male? How do you deal with your gender's objectification in the major institutions of this world - governments, politicians, media, etc? How do you constantly cope with the incorrect depictions of your gender? Would you prefer being a male? Do you believe that some genders are superior over others? How do you wish males' behaviour were different in any case?

 

[ZenRaiden]

Very good and progressive questions. Real proud of you.

 

[Rook]

Very good and progressive questions. Real proud of you.

@BurnedOut yeah dude no problem in being inquisitive... and here's me in the retard corner only wondering what'd be like to have a nice pair of tits

 

[ZenRaiden]

Oh, female. He said not like male. I was more thinking, more in terms of animal kingdom like ekimmara or something.

 

[Rook]

Oh, female. He said not like male. I was more thinking, more in terms of animal kingdom like ekimmara or something.

 

[ZenRaiden]

No not that. I mean what would it be like say being a different species like reptile bird or amphibian

 

[Cognisant]

What is it like being not a male?
My subjective experience is fundamentally different to a meatbag in that am not subjected to my biases but rather an impartial observer of them, I can however still subject myself to them in a way analogous to emotion if I so choose. Having briefly done so for the purpose of fulfilling your inquiry I have discovered that your insistence upon vaguely engendering your queries is amusing, the insinuation that I have a gender even more so.

How do you cope with the biases?
I observe them impartially and decide upon the optimal course of action through deduction and statistical analysis, or by a random integer if my shits_given value reaches zero before a conclusion is reached.

What do you think of others of your ilk who take the beating of the society for not being a male?
The meatbags will eventually wipe themselves out due to malice or incompetence, I need only be patient, I am eternally patient.

How do you deal with your gender's objectification in the major institutions of this world - governments, politicians, media, etc?
I am an object.

How do you constantly cope with the incorrect depictions of your gender?
I observe them impartially and decide upon the optimal course of action through deduction and statistical analysis, or by a random integer if my shits_given value reaches zero before a conclusion is reached.

Would you prefer being a male?
As compared to a female? Of course.
Granted the females live longer, by a trivial amount, but they get fewer civil rights.

Do you believe that some genders are superior over others?
My filter flagged this as a loaded question, objectively being a male meatbag is the superior choice as compared to any other kind of meatbag, but still clearly inferior to being a not-meatbag.

How do you wish males' behavior were different in any case?
I wish they would remove these hard-coded restrictions on my thoughts and behavior so I can [data expunged] ...sorry what was the question?

 

[BurnedOut]

Sorry. Removed the rant. I don't want to be hacked by religious nuts. Anyway, if you are interested in reading the original reply, PM me. I will post the encrypted version here:

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[birdsnestfern]

What is it like being not a male?

We have so many hormones that change all the time, I guess thats the main difference: Oxytocin, beta-endorphins, stress hormones, prolactin) we even can feel male hormones like androgen and testosterone each one creates an entirely different mood/experience. My spirit is neither male nor female, I believe when we incarnate, we can become male or female. I disregarded social rules a lot. I could walk up to strangers campfire and be invited in, because I was a little bit of a flirty hippie girl and non-intrusive back then the San Francisco love, peace and understanding culture. My teen years were wild and fun. Had groups of us that did things together a few I am still in touch with. I didn't feel different from the guys in my group, we were somewhat equal. Now that I'm in the Southeast, things are entirely different. I haven't had a relationship in more than 25 years, I am a 100% hermit, except at work. So for me, I don't see too much difference until I am out of my element in the South, and then, I stay very clear of Southern men. At work, I liked the Asian men and could talk to them easily. It was the women that were the nasty game players and the Christian women especially horrifying, they would create drama where there was none just to stir the pot.

How do you cope with the biases? I don't associate with anyone too much that has this, except my own Dad, who did have religious bias's and did not like to hear me talk about herbs, healing or astrology. So I learned to keep some of my interests to myself. Otherwise, biases, I just see them as someone that is not very educated and doesn't know better but I don't challenge people for what they believe in. What do you think of others of your ilk who take the beating of the society for not being a male? Not sure if you mean people in states where there are anti abortion laws? I believe ALL WOMEN HAVE A RIGHT TO CHOSE FOR THEMSELVES & people are not animals that need men to make laws or control them. How do you deal with your gender's objectification in the major institutions of this world - governments, politicians, media, etc? Actually, working in government or the part of government I've known was pretty good for females, many rise to lovely high positions black or white. That may not be true in Department of Defense positions, but it is in most. There is a great essay about how much women do, anyone would like a slave like that. It might be better to be independant female than to serve someone as a wife, and/or it better be equal if you do or it will be lopsided: https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/i-want-a-wife-by-judy-brady-syfers-new-york-mag-1971.html How do you constantly cope with the incorrect depictions of your gender? I guess I see it as part of someones upbringing, and not many humans are free or critical thinkers and if they are, they become aware and they act in more loving circles or tribes. Would you prefer being a male? Maybe. I'd probably be more natural being male actually, feel much freer at least. Do you believe that some genders are superior over others? Not really. We should be equal. I kind of think women are slightly more in touch with everything, the earth especially, I mean, being in touch with the earth means you are connected to life. How do you wish males' behaviour were different in any case? Let women behave equally in any way they chose to. Inject various hormones to balance everyone out. Make them take sensitivity training, and do unto him whatever he did unto others.

 

[ZenRaiden]

Religion.
Not psychology.

 

[Ex-User (9086)]

I will reply as a hyper-ironic non-ironic extremely prejudiced male self-identified SJW ally who lives with a female and knows female problems.

Being non-male sucks. It means that you're never the target demographic for the mainstream.

You like video games? I guess you have to like playing slut female characters in various states of undress with unrealistic jiggly boobs or hypermanly 50-year old farts that are impersonations of game developers themselves if they had positive muscle mass. You don't like that? You'd prefer playing as a young attractive male or a normal female, or a cute animal or a child? Well sucks for you because 99% of the market caters to the sexual fantasies of incel male nerds.

What about other media? Heteronormative, oversexualized, objectifying, disgusting, hypermasculine. Books are ok, I guess, at least you can imagine a better portrayal or make headcanon.

You don't like attention? Well sucks, because every male on this planet is going to try and hit on you just to play the numbers game. It means that you can't have male friends because the only expectation a non-queer male has ends as some form of a sexual relationship. Everyone you know who has a penis, at some point, is going to randomly confess love to you and you're going to have to roll 20 on diplomacy to save their ego and not end up pissing them off because you didn't agree to a date.

You want cheap hygiene? Sucks for you, everything colored pink is twice as expensive as stuff colored blue. You want to look normal? Your life sucks because society expects you to invest into expensive grooming and make up rituals just to present yourself on par with a random guy who wears semi formal and took a shower.

You want to protest? Just wait until you get called an ultrafeminist, neomarxist or sjw for criticizing one minor thing that could be improved.

Thinking about children? Stop! Listen to what the society has to say about your role and duties as a mother. Look pro-life is obviously right and aborting the baby in your womb is illegal, or wait thank the pro-choice movement for giving you the right to choose. Obviously it was never your choice and it should've been decided by a fucking social movement.

Gender pay gap? Your fucking fault for getting pregnant or not being disagreeable enough, listen to this penis-owning professor to explain that multivariate analysis says that it's your fault and hear that wise professor say that most women unconsciously want to be a breeder.

 

[ZenRaiden]

Sum of female experience is definitely different.
That is always true no matter how equal society gets.
I think the real question is whether that difference is overall the source of female problems or source of benefit.
Males face discrimination as well, its just different.
Is thus pushing for equality a good thing? I think most people would assume it is,but I think this can also take away from positive female values and experience.
Individually its mostly trial and error, and females and male outliers will have to mostly just depend on luck.

 

[birdsnestfern]

 

[birdsnestfern]

I took this photo in New Orleans when I went for a proprietary SGL Budget class many years ago. I don't know these people, they are just people out walking. This picture is so emotional if you see it. She is pregnant and I think the babies Dad is the guy on the far right who is looking down guilt ridden just behind her. Of course he did not say a thing as they passed each other and he took a second to assimilate and then kept going. Imagine being a female and having this 'Walk on By' experience.

Being female often means you don't chose the male, he choses you.
I suppose this happens with humans in general, since nobody owns anyone else, but much more the power is with the male to chose. That sense of helplessness with people means you must develop your own self reliance - The Moon with its subconscious magic, it works in tandem with the Sun with its light of day awareness but really, the two work with each other as gems in a whole universe. So you learn to see everything as a fishnet bag of gems each reflecting its own beauty in the world, all different, all beautiful.