I guess I never answered the official question.
I'm kind of a mishmash of various social masculine and feminine traits. I'm not really interested in the cliches of male interests (cars and sports, for example); at the same time, among my interests are comics, action/fighting movies, gameplaying (where I do play my best and try to win). I like to learn systems and minmax them. My decor is a kind of weird mix of bohemian + darker wood/leather. A lot of books and comics/fantasy pics (not the girly fantasy stuff, but somewhere in between). I'm fine with sweat, but I hate mud. I don't much like seafood and would rather eat steak and fries. I'll read science books and spent two years as a mathematics major at college, and I currently work in systems analysis, where I form a nice bridge between development and requirements gathering.
Then again, I actually like some traditional female stuff in this culture, like makeup and heels. (I will only spend about ten minutes on makeup, but I like how I look in it.) I like having longer hair that I get colored. I like jewelry like long earrings and rings. Sometimes I like to be pretty casual, sometimes I like to dress up and look attractive. I paint my toenails. I like one-on-ones with my friends where we talk about life and relationships... although I seem to burn out faster than other women on that. I deal fine with babies and kids, but I don't gush over babies and get bored quickly; I don't really enjoy long baby showers and similar things either. I have mild female mannerisms.
When I'm in a group of all guys, I do fine but also distinctly feel a little apart from everyone as a woman. Meanwhile, in a group of all women, I also feel out of place -- I still fit in but feel a little different than everyone else.
These are just categories made by society, but that's how I tend to line up. It feels weird listing them, because I don't really see them as determining my gender, they are just things I do or things about me. My sense of self is distinct. In terms of gender expression, I seem to venture between both sides. However, in my sense of self, I am definitely a woman and have always felt and identified as one.
Hey there, tiger.
