As the title says. What are your highest values? What is important to you?
I only value logic. Logic is the measure of all my values.
What does logic mean?
I value authenticity, especially when cornered and questioned. For me authenticity means a willingness to think on the spot combined with vulnerability and being open to being wrong and answering questions (does not = pushover in the least).
(i.e. never saying "just because"; whys that result in further whys are answered to the most reduced and honest place they can go.)
I read that link. Not too hard to remove the apparent contradiction. Don't have to worry about Godel as one can add definition refinements which fix things up.
vulnerability
hmm
isn't that just a possible symptom of honesty?
To give you an example of the type of vulnerability I value, let's say a gay guy has been pretended to be straight for years. That person may already accept his own sexuality (self awareness). Now imagine if that person has to come out to his friends that he has been lying to for years. The moment he comes out his emotions would screaming against what he is about to do and his heart would be pumping and most likely he would physically shaking.
It is easy to be honest about things you are not insecure about.
I think INTPs in general have issues with this. I know for sure that I have.
i agree that vulnerability is a good compass, but i think it can be easily reduced to honesty, in terms of the underlying value, as desirable vulnerability always coexists with honesty. vulnerability is not a value in itself, that is.
maybe i misunderstand. perhaps vulnerability requires honesty.
You're right and it is almost impossible to define values in just a few words. I could punch holes the other values I outlined too. I'd argue that honesty is not a value in itself either.
I only value logic. Logic is the measure of all my values.
Vulnerabilty? Honesty? Interesting what you two guys have asked are values. Off hand I'd say vulnerability is not a value unless one decides whether of not to place oneself in that position. ???
Honesty being a matter of choice must be a value. I suppose the answer would be context. I am older than most you guys but hadn't revealed that until lately fearing bias. That was dishonest of me if I was being deceptive. I decided the hell with it and posted my age when asked. That means I will have to find out the value of that.
Creativity, good books, dependable friends, brunettes, red wine, whiskey (unless I have too much), wanderlust, libraries, overcast weather, rhythmic prose, snowfall, the occasional cigarette, and moments of sublime beauty that jar you out of the everyday routine.
So....for the moment I must admit I felt rather drawn to the things Absurdity listed. The brunettes, inclusive. I do like snow and open fires. And books. And mountains.
Edit: How could I forget cats...... ^..^
I value self awareness, intellectual perceptiveness and vulnerability.
hmm
isn't that just a possible symptom of honesty?
To give you an example of the type of vulnerability I value, let's say a gay guy has been pretended to be straight for years. That person may already accept his own sexuality (self awareness). Now imagine if that person has to come out to his friends that he has been lying to for years. The moment he comes out his emotions would screaming against what he is about to do and his heart would be pumping and most likely he would physically shaking.
It is easy to be honest about things you are not insecure about.
I think INTPs in general have issues with this. I know for sure that I have.
i agree that vulnerability is a good compass, but i think it can be easily reduced to honesty, in terms of the underlying value, as desirable vulnerability always coexists with honesty. vulnerability is not a value in itself, that is.
maybe i misunderstand. perhaps vulnerability requires honesty.
You're right and it is almost impossible to define values in just a few words. I could punch holes the other values I outlined too. I'd argue that honesty is not a value in itself either.
nah probably not. =)
just had to poke the easy-poked one. however, vulnerability is a very beautiful thing regardless of its status in an order of values.
i agree that vulnerability is a good compass, but i think it can be easily reduced to honesty, in terms of the underlying value, as desirable vulnerability always coexists with honesty. vulnerability is not a value in itself, that is.
maybe i misunderstand. perhaps vulnerability requires honesty.
I value knowledge of theoretical reality above everything else. I don't think I ever had a choice, and I don't see how it can possibly change short of death or severe brain damage.As the title says. What are your highest values? What is important to you?
In general, my thought is that vulnerability needs honesty (you can't really be vulnerable as a "virtue" -- only really as a weakness -- unless you can honestly face what's going with a situation), but that it's more directly related to "courage".
Basically, you know what something will cost you, and it WILL cost you or put you at horrible risk, but you choose to do or say it anyway and leave yourself vulnerable. You're putting yourself at risk for a reason.
Then again, is courage the main virtue, or is it conviction?![]()