Actually have some ambition in me.
Actually get stuff done, was challenging getting there.
Not nihilistic, learning to care about stuff, fully accepting that I am smarter than most people and comming to conclusion, accepting and understanding fully that other people probably experience things just as vividly as I do took a ridiculously long time. And helped a lot. Found some meaning in that, that I couldn't break.
I am not annoyed at other people for being stupid.
Not a social cripple, people are exausting tho. My colleagues, my boyfriend and my extended family like me with an exception of one esfj aunt that my family offered to live with us, so she wouldn't have to stay in a living area at work. She almost always tries to guilt me for stuff that I supposedly have done. Blames me for everything. Tries to bribe me into liking her. Then complains that I don't make her feel welcome.
Dress well, clean, well fitting, non worn, neutral colored, clothes. The only thing fancy is that a tailor modified them to fit better, they are much more comfortable that way. It makes people sometimes actually consider what I am saying and I can prevent some mistakes they could have made.