Types you attract romantically/sexually?

[kora]

I usually attract E's. Don't know why really, maybe I've got the whole mysterious pensive chick thing on. Yay for me. I'm rubbish at typing people though, so I can't say anymore than that. I think I prefer Introverts on the whole.

 

[Stoic Beverage]

I have no clue.
I haven't noticed anybody attracted to me while it was actually happening, although recently I've had several girls express frustration over the fact that they apparently were interested in me without my noticing in the (woefully distant) past.
So, to answer the question, it's whatever types that can be attracted to somebody who doesn't know their first name. Because several of them. (And yes, I understand that's not type-specific.)
In any case, it's been quite the ego boost.

 

[viche]

Going by this relationship chart the Ti-Ne type is most attractive to Fe-dominant and Fe-creative types. This would be ExFJs and IxFJs. They are also in supervision relations to ENFPs so the later will be drawn to INTPs but it's very unstable kind of relationship.

 

[intpz]

Js, I don't understand how come INTPs like to be controlled in a relationship, while they can't stand authority? I, for one, would never let someone control me... That would be a horrible relationship.

 

[perkins]

Js, I don't understand how come INTPs like to be controlled in a relationship, while they can't stand authority? I, for one, would never let someone control me... That would be a horrible relationship.

INTPs don't like their Ti time expended by exoteric events, so planning is preferred to be left up to their partner.

Lately, I seem to have an influx of SJ types. It is nice to have the place tidy.

 

[intpz]

INTPs don't like their Ti time expended by exoteric events, so planning is preferred to be left up to their partner.

Lately, I seem to have an influx of SJ types. It is nice to have the place tidy.

Who's talking about planning? I don't like carrying out plans either. I couldn't stand a counterpart who'd plan a trip to Berlin in 10 years...

I do agree on having the place tidy, however I don't like when somebody's touching my things. I want them where I put them. However, someone cleaning the dishes and dusting would be great... So I guess for me it depends on what you mean by tidy.

 

[perkins]

@intpz: You said INTPs like being controlled in a relationship. I disagree. Insecure people might like being controlled, which could be any personality type defined by the MBTI. I think generally the INTP is just more apt to go with the flow and avoid unnecessary conflict.

 

[perkins]

I do agree on having the place tidy, however I don't like when somebody's touching my things. I want them where I put them. However, someone cleaning the dishes and dusting would be great... So I guess for me it depends on what you mean by tidy.

I have notebooks and random computer files that are somewhat sacred to me. I guess its like a diary as they pose my thoughts and ideas. I would be utterly embarrassed if anyone got their hands on them.

 

[intpz]

@intpz: You said INTPs like being controlled in a relationship. I disagree. Insecure people might like being controlled, which could be any personality type defined by the MBTI. I think generally the INTP is just more apt to go with the flow and avoid unnecessary conflict.

I was having in mind some descriptions about what INTPs like. But thanks for input - would be nice to hear others' opinions as well.

 

[intpz]

I have notebooks and random computer files that are somewhat sacred to me. I guess its like a diary as they pose my thoughts and ideas. I would be utterly embarrassed if anyone got their hands on them.

Oh, I was talking about the physical things. I don't even let anyone to lay their fingers on my keyboard! I was talking about things like napkins, cup, keys, paper, pencil, pen, etc..

 

[Synthetix]

INFJ...... And hmm... INTJ

 

[cerebedlam]

Last two very short stints were with Extraverted Females that were a decade + younger than myself...Not too shabby, son. This type of woman both scares and intrigues me...Yet, all I really crave for a long-term sitch is an another Introvert...a somewhat reserved and insightful, fair-skinned librarian type...with a nice can, of course. I should be so lucky.

 

[drifting cloud]

I'm not sure - I haven't actually met too many people in real life that have taken the MBTI. My girlfriend took it twice and scored completely differently each time (ENTJ once, I think, and something like ISFJ the next time?). I have a feeling that I am in fact a sucker for creative-Fe types.

But regardless of type, I tend to be attracted to people who either unavailable or who are terrible matches for me.

I often wonder what it would be like to be with another INTP.

 

[intpz]

I wonder if there are personalities who always scores different results because they always think differently (F types maybe?), or simply younger people. I'm not sure how old was your girlfriend, but I assume she was pretty young, considering what I've observed.

 

[birdsnestfern]

INFJ, ENFJ, ISTP, ENTJ, ENTP

ENTP's, can have long nice conversations and get into a flow.
They are usually open minded idea people which is cool. ISTP keeps busy on projects and therefore,
you can live side by side in self absorbed bliss and just compliment different tasks and get a lot done.
ENFJ is adventurous and great for day tripping, anything you want to do outside with people, you feel better with an ENFJ.
But, then they can get too one sided, which I don't like giving all the time either, it needs to be give and take.