I would tell someone who experienced that "that's really unlucky bro" and if I were the one to have experienced it my response would be "no shit?". Then I would try to figure out why their/my values can't account for permissively allow me to eat my colleges when the time calls for it without feeling guilty later. Yes indeed the education system has failed us.
I think fringe cases show us that our reasoning about morals has limitations.
Since we often have situations that are predictable we can have law and order, but those things are sufficient in predictable cases.
But even law is arbitrated by certain moral of society.
Hence why countries have different laws.
More importantly there is certain necessity for moral relativism, because unfortunately humans brain work only from context and interdependence of information. Each piece of new information you are opened to changes your equations again and again, until the model of reality you work with expands to a point where what you were assuming previously no longer works.
But if variables change and assumptions don't its hard to pin point where morality fails, as it would mean morality is always right.
But if morals are always same they have to apply to everything.
When you have black market economy you also have mafia and that is result of black market value being higher than the risk of getting going into jail.
Worst the feedback loops there are well known. The more risk it takes the more aggressive and Machiavellian people go into this. The more Machiavellian people go into the black market the more laws they break the more reluctant will be the people for supporting changes which allow for integrating the black market.
For instance Italy has black market for disposal of dangerous chemicals, but companies definitely are perpetuating this black market not the mafia.
The mafia is just doing something the companies want and willing to pay for.
But the stronger the mafia is the more powerful it becomes.
So it is a chicken and egg thing.
Is it the government failure, or the mafia or the companies?
What if all three elements of equations are guilty of failure, but each point fingers at each other.
In all seriousness these edge cases are things we should be looking at. Survivor bias (no pun intended) is a real thing. The idea that since one person has success going down a academic path, so we should instill that same process in others is pretty fucking dumb. It is antithetical to individual differences.
There are all kinds of things.
Hard work pays off. Definitely not true. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
If we account for people who work hard don't succeed then we might know if its true.
Being good pays off, maybe true, but rarely do people actually say what sort of good it is that pays off.
What about being good and not having reward.
Capitalism says that is not right. IF its good, but you get nothing in return your self interest becomes a problem as you have no way of paying bills.
So ultimately you have feedback loops.
Plus number of people willing to help in such ways rarely have money, so they end up giving only meager help compared to people who have money and thus can change thing much more.
People are not rational about work, because we live in economy where unit of work is relativistic.
You can work hard and make very little money all your-life.
Then you can work very little, but in way that society values and make shit ton of it.
Talking about education its also feedback loop.
Education creates people who make up the working market.
The working market then makes values according to ability thus education which they got, and then the working market dictates what education people get.
Thus doctors, lawyers etc. are seen as successful even if the market is full of these people who depreciate their own standing by being too many.
In Jungs time being a psychiatrist was sort of rare job. Not something everyone did, hence why it was called specialization. Specialization in the past was really special.
Today having a Phd is like having a boy scout badge that you can do whatever every kid can do.
Its thus why so many outliers get crazy successful if they find a way to market abilities.
Such a scenario almost makes rhetoric a necessity over making a good argument because people don't understand arguments, and harping on their emotions (pathos) and their sense of authoritative values (ethos) is more effective.
Why pathos and ethos work though and not arguments.
Id argue it has to do with how much people can gain vs how much effort they give.
News are full of bull, so its hard to find the facts. Even if possible if you have to literally make a science of reading news just to get to actual real truth, you are better off just working to become rich man and read information that are easier to digest and have real world value.
People are not stupid, but they are socially engineered to think certain way, then they can and always will act stupid.
I mean reading news today without irony people became desensitized to so many things that would be unheard of in the past.
I found old news articles a little naive and funny, but at least they seemed more matter of fact.
Today they are not actually playing dumb when they want to spin controversy or misinform or lead on people.
They literally just tell you what they want you to think and then you see people on internet just repeating what they have been told.
Reading other peoples posts is like reading the news.
Trouble is news is not telling us facts, its telling us what to think. BIG problem.
The idea of not being able to wipe ones ass, ironically made it so that some people would be less likely to wipe their ass, with toilet paper.
I suppose it does come back to cynicism, which most people have a poor relationship with. Being optimistic makes you primed to be hurt. Being pessimistic makes it impossible to be hurt but you probably disintegrate too much. The balance is hard, because there is no middle all the time.
Yeah and how do you learn about society when what you learn can create feedback loops.
I still don't know where people got the idea of buying toilette paper from lmao.
I literally heard nothing and saw nothing until it happened.
Its like people have some top secrete channel to alternative universe.
So, time we have to perform our actions is a factor. Risk, is also a factor. Calculation of certain variables (errors may be made that should be excused in some situations). It sounds to me like I want to be mad as often as possible I think.
The thing about risk, is that it sometimes diminishes.
For instance Bill Gates at start of career made huge risk.
Later on he was basically in less risk than most people who never take risks.
A driver who drives on race cars, will probably be much better driver and safer than a average driver who is afraid to make risk.
A guy who fights fights is probably much safer in a fight then someone who never fights. That too might be karma.
I think senseless risk like jumping off cliffs even though no matter how skilled you are you die that is the type of dumb risk Id say is bad.
I think unreal optimism is much worse than unreal pessimism. That being said being categorically pessimistic is not necessary.