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Suicide. Why not?

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Great, you get my used condom collection then. I knew if I waited long enough, I could find someone that would enjoy it. Good, now everything is settled.
Oh god-really? Keep it. Well, each of us find different things interesting. As long as it keeps us alive I assume it's fine. Find another.
That reminds me of the opposite. A person wants to kill himself in revenge. "You did this to me. Now you will miss me and be so sorry when I'm gone." I don't think that works for long. They may miss you for a while but you will miss life a lot longer.
Yes. That seldom works. Sacrifice may work, ala Jesus, with a devious plot. Revenge is overrated. Few cares for long. It's just for yourself done this way. And what is the point if you are not alive to enjoy it? seems like another trick of the mind.
 

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Great, you get my used condom collection then. I knew if I waited long enough, I could find someone that would enjoy it. Good, now everything is settled.
If one already has a complete set, there is no need for duplicates, is there?
 

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Oh god-really? Keep it. Well, each of us find different things interesting. As long as it keeps us alive I assume it's fine. Find another.
Yes. That seldom works. Sacrifice may work, ala Jesus, with a devious plot. Revenge is overrated. Few cares for long. It's just for yourself done this way. And what is the point if you are not alive to enjoy it? seems like another trick of the mind.
Now you tell me. I already done it. I had it all planned to see how they felt about the thing and now I find I'm trapped here in limbo without even a body or a keypad ... "Satina :evil: keep typing ..."
 

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I think it's funny when people talk about suicide being selfish and cowardly.

Why do you consider those perspectives funny? (Not actually meant to be as accusatory as it might sound, just curios)
 

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If INTPs are individualists (are they?), that's not true of the old Japanese culture where dishonor could be undone by this:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_hari_kari

Also don't forget modern suicide bombists.
Killing a bunch of people plus yourself for the promise of eternal bliss is hardly bravery. Killing yourself when you think you're going to hell, [ii]that's[/] bravery. You have nothing to gain, everything to lose, and you're going to be tortured for all of eternity. The dude who does that is a hard ass.
 

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Suicide could be coward/selfish/brave... dependent on the situation. The general idea is that it is a coward thing to do. But that's just an excuse to those people that say, "Suicide is the wrong thing to do!" Partly because Christians think it's taking away something god gave you or that it's selfish because all the people around you are going to have a cry. I literally have no morals so you could do it if you want, if you do it just because you lost your Warcraft account well, then... it was meant to be. But the reason to why you suicide is important.

I'm still young and began to have suicide thoughts when I was 14/15 then later become slightly involved in self harm. But I have never found a sufficient enough reason to suicide and have found sufficient enough reasons to ahem cut myself. I prefer to think of it artistically as an excuse.
 

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I wouldnt commit suicide because it would require too much work. and Im kinda lazy. The way I see it is it would be easier to just go on living then to go to all the trouble of suicide. If I die I die, but I wont force it upon myself.

also I'd really hate to deal with the consequences of a failed suicide
 

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Ironically, I consider myself a very optimistic person, but the thought has crossed my mind. I guess one factor would be that I consider life to be one large experiment that everyone participates in. We all want to learn more about ourselves, the world, and everything in it. There will always be the question about death hovering over us. Fortunately, we all will be granted the ability to learn what death is like eventually. It just takes patience and time. With that time, we have plenty to learn about every other question we have.

Suicide is more of an act of impatience than anything else. My personal goal is a search for knowledge. As long as there is more to be learned, I have all I need to continue. As far as the "My life sucks/ shitting pants" examples, what about this: Yes, your situation has changed, but is every day the same? For most people, the answer would be no. If it is yes, then you should reevaluate how you are living your life, not how you want to throw it away.

If you are dying of incurable cancer, than you should have even MORE reason to live and enjoy the time you have left. "Pfft, I don't give a shit about spending time with those that I love, let's just leave faster and never see them again." A little inconsiderate, don't you think? I'm sure that your death will come soon anyway, so enjoy it, learn with it, laugh with it, and cry with it. All experiences, whether good or bad, or experiences. You can't choose which ones you get, but all of them are worth something.
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Killing a bunch of people plus yourself for the promise of eternal bliss is hardly bravery. Killing yourself when you think you're going to hell, [ii]that's[/] bravery. You have nothing to gain, everything to lose, and you're going to be tortured for all of eternity. The dude who does that is a hard ass.
Really, so all that matters to you is that someone is "brave" and "hard" in doing so?

To the OP's question... no reason, really. Biological drive to stay alive, I think. I don't see any real reason to live, so I suppose the reason I do is because I don't want to kill myself. Simple, really. I have thought about it many times and even considered how I was going to do it a few times (though to do it in the way I imagined would require resources I currently don't have), but I have never come close to attempting. I am hoping to stay as far away from doing it for as long as possible.
 

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Now you tell me. I already done it. I had it all planned to see how they felt about the thing and now I find I'm trapped here in limbo without even a body or a keypad ... "Satina :evil: keep typing ..."
What horrors one is exposed for.

also I'd really hate to deal with the consequences of a failed suicide
Many support systems open only if your life is in danger. It's a functional way to get attention from an often non responsive system. I imagine it might be tricky. Calculating the bloodstream from cut wrists, to time ambulance arrives. I suppose one should be discovered instead of calling it in. Not the easiest task to make it all play out as planned.
 

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The thing about suicide. Maybe you believe no one loves you now. Once you pull the plug, you're alone and no turning back. If you wait it out, there's hope. Someone will come along eventually ... or go out and find them.
 
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To be honest with myself and people around me: I have no reason to live anymore!
 

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So what's so bad?:confused:
 

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There's always more to be had
the coming-of-age
the set's never complete
the cumming-of-age
I have a confession to make. I pick up trash that collects along the side of the road. I found two used ones (on different occasions), but threw them away. If I'd known you were a collector I wouldn't have. Do you want me to save any future finds?
 

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When there is nothing left for me to experience and/or I have become a burden on my loved ones I would like to option to end my own life.
 

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When there is nothing left for me to experience and/or I have become a burden on my loved ones I would like to option to end my own life.
There is a real problem here. Think of your favorite pet. It gets sick. Do you want to kill it or do you want to try medical treatment.

I think of my cousin of a few years ago. She was 80+ and on her way out. Had to be taken care of. Nurse or nurse aide. She once spoke of the same thing talking about a pill. But it never happened. People wanted to visit her until she died.
 

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Life is about experience. I've experienced some good experiences which have made me felt Bliss, I've also experienced experiences which I would call hell.

I've lived through the hellish experiences and on the timeline of life positive has come after negative so I may as well see this extended long day called life through
 

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There is a real problem here. Think of your favorite pet. It gets sick. Do you want to kill it or do you want to try medical treatment.

I think of my cousin of a few years ago. She was 80+ and on her way out. Had to be taken care of. Nurse or nurse aide. She once spoke of the same thing talking about a pill. But it never happened. People wanted to visit her until she died.
Good for them. Depending on how sick my pet is, I judge whether or not to euthanize them. Just because I would like to keep them around doesn't mean the humane thing to do isn't putting them out of their misery. It's the same with humans. Just because we want to visit a loved one, or just because people want to visit you, does it mean the pain is worth it? That's up to the sick person to decide, or whomever has their living will or their power of attorney whatever. Sometimes the pain simply isn't worth it, and if they're going to die soon anyway, why bother? So loved ones can see you? They care more about being in your miserable presence than allowing you to make the decision that living isn't worth it any more? In this case, I'd say the sick person's selfishness has priority.
 

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Good for them. Depending on how sick my pet is, I judge whether or not to euthanize them. Just because I would like to keep them around doesn't mean the humane thing to do isn't putting them out of their misery. It's the same with humans. Just because we want to visit a loved one, or just because people want to visit you, does it mean the pain is worth it? That's up to the sick person to decide, or whomever has their living will or their power of attorney whatever. Sometimes the pain simply isn't worth it, and if they're going to die soon anyway, why bother? So loved ones can see you? They care more about being in your miserable presence than allowing you to make the decision that living isn't worth it any more? In this case, I'd say the sick person's selfishness has priority.
I have yet to prove there is a difference between people and animals, but what is that difference? Nothing people like more than to have autonomy. They want make their own decisions. Pets can't do that. They can't speak. We have to judge. In rare cases people can't communicate. Those cases may be tragic and rare and unavoidable.

SpaceYeti. I almost forgot. I tend to lose track of posts. Here is one you may have missed on another thread: Re: Improve Democracy?
 

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For me, it's pretty simple. Life is about experiences. They end at death, and that's reason enough for me to be so obstinate as to say no. I will never die. I refuse. I don't care how bad it gets. Until there is nothing left of me, I will struggle, because there is no other reason to live.

This is exactly why I said "no" In fact suicide has never even crossed my mind. Well yes, it has, it just did now. But it's never crossed my mind as an option.
 

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This is exactly why I said "no" In fact suicide has never even crossed my mind. Well yes, it has, it just did now. But it's never crossed my mind as an option.
Suicide has something to do with giving up hope. There is always hope though. There is hope even if one thinks there isn't because one can think wrongly. (Find a flaw in that argument, lol.)

Only when energy runs down, at the end of life, can one die in peace. But that is not suicide. It is a running out of energy. I've seen that in old people when I've seen them on their way out.
 

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I have considered it in the last few months but I think it would take a lot more at the moment for me to make any plans around it. At the moment it's just a circular 'die' thought that greets me every now and again. I still have one very close friend and as long as he is there I know there is hope I can still make more. My parents may split but at least they are both alive and care for me very much.

If I had no one to care for and know one who cared for me - I think that would be my lowest. As stubborn as I like to be I can admit I need people... and their approval. Sigh ;)
 

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If I had no one to care for and know one who cared for me - I think that would be my lowest. As stubborn as I like to be I can admit I need people... and their approval. Sigh ;)
Puffy. Sorry for being so theoretical, but it seems that what we are comes partly from what is us and partly from other people. I think this thread somehow tells us what is needed. Since what we are is from other people, what we are going to be can use other people, though what we are is further along than what we were before.

If your parents split, that is their business, but that doesn't mean each is split from you. They aren't.
 

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Yes, I think once when I asked myself 'Who am I?' I realised there is a puffy for every person I have encountered, and a puffy for every person who has read one of my posts. I am more 'we' than I am 'I' - lol?
 

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Suicide has something to do with giving up hope. There is always hope though. There is hope even if one thinks there isn't because one can think wrongly. (Find a flaw in that argument, lol.)

Only when energy runs down, at the end of life, can one die in peace. But that is not suicide. It is a running out of energy. I've seen that in old people when I've seen them on their way out.

I agree. There's a major difference between running out of energy and giving up. I'm am okay with people who run out of energy. We all do at some point. But just "taking out your batteries" is not a thing I hold greatly.
 

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wow you guys think about suicide, even at early age????

it never crossed my mind!!

i avoid & postpone death as much as possible until my work is finished!
 

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If I committed suicide, then I wouldn't be able to taste the delicious food that I'm about to eat. Mmmm...

You can't eat ribs when you're dead, folks!
 
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