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SO WHAT TYPE IS THE INTP'S "INNER CHILD"?

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The Inner Child refers to your emotional body. Carl Jung called it the 'Divine Child'. Emmet Fox called it the 'Wonder Child'. Charles Whitfield called it the 'Child Within'. Some psychotherapists call it the 'True Self'. Our personalities emerge as a result of our genetic code, DNA, or inherited characteristics, and the environment in which we experience. Childhood is dictated by those who raise us and often causes scars that will take years to heal. For the most part, our issues go back to childhood and what impacted on our emotional and physical bodies at that time. The inner child remains with us all of our lives. We are all children at heart, innocently searching for our meaning in life.


Inner Child Types

The Playful Child

That self that is naturally playful, creative, spontaneous and fun loving child. This self longs to play. Many of us have forgotten how to do this without guilt or anxiety that as adults we must be doing something that is worthwhile.


The Spoiled Child

That part of us wants what they want and they want it now, and if they don't get what they want, they throw temper tantrums.


The Neglected Child

The child self that was always left alone without much nurturing and love. They don't believe they are lovable or worthwhile. They don't know how to love. They are depressed and want to cry.


The Abandoned Child

This child self has been left in some way like divorce or adoption or just left because the parents were kept busy working. They are always fearful that they will be abandoned again and again. This part of the self is starving for extra attention and reassurance that they are safe and okay. This self is very lonely.


The Fearful Child

This part has been overly criticized when they were small. Now they are anxious and are in panic much of the time. They need lost of encouragement and positive affirmations.


The Unbonded Child

This Inner Child never learns to be close to anyone. They are isolated. Intimacy feels alien and scary. Trust is a basic issue.


The Discounted Child

This is a part of the self that was ignored and treated as though they did not exist. They don't believe in themselves and need lots of love to assist and support them.


The Spiritual Child

This part of the self searches for answers from higher realms. The final result of healing the Inner Child - is balance within Oneself and being able to give and receive LOVE.
 

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Would the entire type have just one Inner Child? Your topic title makes it seem like that's what you're looking for, but then you go on about childhood leaving scars, and that seems quite personal. Just wondering.

For my part? Either Abandoned, Unbonded, or Playful. Probably bits of each, mushed together.
 

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Would the entire type have just one Inner Child? Your topic title makes it seem like that's what you're looking for, but then you go on about childhood leaving scars, and that seems quite personal. Just wondering.

For my part? Either Abandoned, Unbonded, or Playful. Probably bits of each, mushed together.

My mistake. the only part I wrote was the title
as an afterthought, after an error message...
The body is just a "Cut and Paste" from another site

I had no expectations, I just noticed that the term 'Inner Child"
appeared quite often on another thread...

Sorry for the confusion...
a Playful/Spiritual Child
 

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What about the multiple siamese child? Cause I find something of me in all of those.

Anyway, whoever said children were innocent was an asshole. Maybe they're naive, but not innocent. This "Inner Child" thing has got to stop. Children are cruel monsters.

If there is any "inner" creature in me, it is a dumb, savage beast.
 

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I think i'm the Unbonded Child.
 

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Playful/Spoiled/Fearful child, I guess.
Playful because since young, I always thought that life is not worth living unless I'm having fun. What's the point of staying on if you aren't enjoying your life?
Partially spoiled because I want what I want. Chaotic neutral. :D Things can wait, but eventually, I still want to get what I want.
Fearful because of my upbringing since childhood (and also all the way through till now). My parents hardly praised me (can't remember when was the last time they did) and whatever I do or even don't do, they have something negative to say about it. I always doubt myself, thinking if I'm competent enough for a given job or anything for that matter, to the point that my friends actually asked if I enjoy picking on myself.
 

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Maybe they're naive, but not innocent.

The naivety is the point tough. Kids do the wrong thing sometimes on purpose (though that thought does bring up some important points to think about when dealing with how adults do the wrong thing), but they also often do the wrong thing in ignorance.

Mine is definitely the playful child. Weird, silly, oblivious. There's some neglected child in me, but its not the dominant side.
 

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Where did this come from? Is there a web page?

I think I am the Misrepresented child. Nearest to Discounted.

Playful and Unbonded in there as well.
 

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I read a book called "Inner World of Self" by Barbara Wicks years and years ago. Same subject in a more sophisticated manner.
 

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Where did this come from? Is there a web page?

I think I am the Misrepresented child. Nearest to Discounted.

Playful and Unbonded in there as well.

Yes here's the link , not much more there (it's a new age witch's site)
but there's an internal link
at the bottom of that page to Children and Metaphysics (?)

http://www.crystalinks.com/innerchild.html
 

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Me too. though i think the different kinds seem somewhat arbitrary. Aren't there other kinds of it as well? And then we would be back to normal typology/personality-traits...

Ogion
 

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I found the web page on my own.

Spoiled is ESFJ, perhaps ISFP.
 

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I found the web page on my own.

Spoiled is ESFJ, perhaps ISFP.

you found it on your own? that is actually a frightening thought.
Maybe, Elle is a better Witch than I thought...
 

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I'd say the Playful child, but I do have issues with trust, so throw in a little unbonded child as well.
 

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all of them sum me up in different ways. i think i could relate to all of them (except maybe spiritual).
 

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I assume the Abandoned Child fits best with me.
 

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all of them sum me up in different ways. i think i could relate to all of them (except maybe spiritual).

So why the one exception? Some kind of developmental event?
 

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I read a book called "Inner World of Self" by Barbara Wicks years and years ago. Same subject in a more sophisticated manner.
I'm not reading it unless there are animals in it :)
 
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