Some extra notes from real life experience.
Your enemy has got it on for you.
You are looking for friends. You have to judge them on how you feel about it. Are you worried most if they
1) fail to treat you with respect, belittling your words etc.
2) responding to you as a different personality type inauthenticating your self
(e.g. treating you like a salesman, artist, office clerk, writer, professor, computer nerd, dope fiend, waiter, back door fornicator or whatever you feel contrary to your own image)
3) accusing you of being rigid and not flexible, not adaptable
4) accusing using you of not sticking to your guns, being fickle
Which one would actually disturb you or stress you out the most?