Girlfriend - 21 years old, ISFP she is a very sensitive person as well extremely idealistic she just do not know how to make real her plans, it's funny to admit it but she may seem silly, when actually she hides a pretty smart mind specially when it comes to draw conclusions about something, sometimes she leaves me speechless. She's half liberal but as far as the relationship goes she keeps a semi traditional look to it, we get along really well and share many interests and ways of thinking, she's kinda little stubborn, so am i. She doesn't like to talk about the MBTI.
Sister - 21 years old, not really sure about her type. She's probably the only solid pillar in the family, she keeps us united and weirdly gives us an state of calm, she's strong and has a rigid realistic thinking yet she has a good heart, never gives signals of sadness and was always the best of the three brothers in studies, she's constant and really smart, she's the only person in the family whom i can freely talk to. Although I tend to listen people, i change my role with her and become the narrator, i can be talking for hours. However we collide many times, for her it's like i always do things without thinking about others, she even told me it today. I think she uses a shield or a mask, but behind it, once a while in extreme situations you see a sensible person. She doesn't like to talk about the MBTI.
Brother - 16 years old, seems some kind of ISTP, he's always in his world, in his room or down the street with his friends, he is going through a difficult time and he's always causing problems at home, not interested in studies, amazingly good at drawing and it seems he does his thing effortlessly, highly narcissistic, has tons of friends, however he acts as if he cares about nobody, when he gets angry it's crazy specially when he doesn't get what he wants from any of us, it's scary. A healthy boy, once told in like a very baddass way that me that drugs were crap, once came home drunk and said it was his first and last time and seems that it was. He's incredibly stubborn, if he's in a good mood we get along pretty well, he is so nice when he wants but overall we do not talk that much. He does not like to talk about the MBTI .
Mama - over 50, ESFJ, my mother has a good heart but I think she has some psychological disorder or something, she always cared too much about us to the point of suffocating us, imo many of our insecurities are due the way she overprotected us, my relationship with her has always been difficult and not very solid, she supported me when i was interested in something but at the same time she always blame me for not studying and compared me with my cousins who have crazy university degrees. She's very outgoing and always happy to spend money like crazy, in recent years she has become even more hysterical and was always starting fights at home with my father, since childhood I think my father always try to keep the family afloat but he ended up failing and lengthening a problem that should have ended long ago, IMO their relationship never worked. Now after countless years of discussions they are divorced. It was the best decission they ever made and i just think that it should have been taken earlier to prevent lots of sad moments.
Papa - over 50, ISTP, my father always tried to keep us united, he's the captain of the transatlantic ship we are, he's pretty chill and has a weird sense of humour, i have a cold relationship with him. He has a good heart but he's before anything a very realistic man of logic. He always supported all the things I wanted do even if he was like: you're crazy, there's nothing to do about you lol he was like ok he's happy i'll support him you know, never said no to anything and silently thank him everything he has done for us.
Me - 24 years old i was typed as ISFJ by Cherry Cola, still have my doubts, first of all, I must admit that lots of the problems I have with my family are in 60% my fault, their demands are pretty normal, i'm a sensitive guy, love art, music, i act kinda childish sometimes, unfortunately studies never interested me, i wish i had been good at science as an intp or intj, anyway i think i've matured a lot in the past 3 years and at this point i see some progress in my life, before this happy period i was pretty hopeless about my future. I was always weak in times of stress, i literally shaked with my parents fights as a kid. Also when i left my country in my teenage ages i was bullied hardly for almost 2 years, now I have forgiven my past and understood that in a way it helped me to have a more open minded vision of the world, life hardest experiences have made me fucking stronger and i can destroy you if i want, i won't feel anything, because i've seen it all (lol). However this has caused me insecurities that often result in behavioral changes that make me hesitate a lot, among other things, about me personality type.
Well this was kinda like a therapy, i never take some time to think about people.
