People arent unique

[buteco]

I think that no one is unique. I mean, youre unique just like everybody else is. This means nothing.
Because of this lie kids grow unhappy thinking that just being themselves is enough. Its inhuman to tell people this kind of things.

 

[Rebis]

Context.

 

[buteco]

nah.. i dont think its necessary xD

 

[buteco]

I just got kinda upset with certain kind of behaviour of teenagers, and since I am one, this fucks me up even more. We all believe we gonna do great things but we wont you know..

 

[moody]

I think that no one is unique. I mean, youre unique just like everybody else is. This means nothing.
Because of this lie kids grow unhappy thinking that just being themselves is enough. Its inhuman to tell people this kind of things.

I used to think strictly like this. I’d get irritated when I felt that other people thought themselves special just for existing.

Then I realized this attitude isn’t coming from anyone else but myself. I was the one viewing others this way because I was projecting. I’d been constantly told for years that I wasn’t special and that I wasn’t smarter than others in fairly demeaning ways.

Forcing this belief on other people is a projection of how you treat yourself, because others have treated you that way.

Next time you react to someone like this, analyze yourself. What makes you think that? Are they really just annoying, or is it you who has the problems?

I just got kinda upset with certain kind of behaviour of teenagers, and since I am one, this fucks me up even more. We all believe we gonna do great things but we wont you know..

I can relate, as I was there as well at one point. Notice that it’s the older generation instilling those beliefs. As a teenager, you have to have some unwarranted confidence to do anything. You do not have enough life experiance to know for sure what your limits are, and as such, you have to trust your own competence and abilities moreso than more experiances individuals.

 

[Haim]

Some aspects of people are unique, some are not.
Some people have higher number of unique aspects.
What you are speaking about is that people lack the ability to understand that their problem and situation is not unique, that they are not the first nor the last .They don't think ahead and therefore don't see the end of the tunnel.

I am special for existing, that does not mean I can demand anything from people.

 

[ZenRaiden]

We all believe we gonna do great things but we wont you know..

Yes most people live ordinary lives. However doing great things is a matter of being valuable to others or looking at value through your own eyes.

My angle in life is that I both look at what values I uphold and what values people see in me and I try to keep those two perspectives on me for reference.

I think you should not be too concerned with what slogans others use. That is things like you are unique or you are talented or you are this or that.

If you really want to know where you are at always ask yourself what I really can do and what I know. That should always be your reference point. Be your own fair judge. Do not expect others to give you always meaningful feedback instead always try to look at what people tell you and make the most use of it for yourself. That is even bad advice can be good advice if you know how to use the advice.

 

[Rebis]

I have two different coloured socks on how am I not different? You just don't understand how my crazy mind works, I look at oceans and think of land.

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[moody]

We all believe we gonna do great things but we wont you know..

Yes most people live ordinary lives. However doing great things is a matter of being valuable to others or looking at value through your own eyes.

My angle in life is that I both look at what values I uphold and what values people see in me and I try to keep those two perspectives on me for reference.

I think you should not be too concerned with what slogans others use. That is things like you are unique or you are talented or you are this or that.

If you really want to know where you are at always ask yourself what I really can do and what I know. That should always be your reference point. Be your own fair judge. Do not expect others to give you always meaningful feedback instead always try to look at what people tell you and make the most use of it for yourself. That is even bad advice can be good advice if you know how to use the advice.

That is very well said. I don't have anything to add, I just felt compelled to mention I appreciate your post.

 

[moody]

I have two different coloured socks on how am I not different? You just don't understand how my crazy mind works, I look at oceans and think of land.

1. My socks never match. Who has time for matching socks.

2. Land is formed at the bottom of oceans.

I am now crushing your dreams of being unique, just like my 1st grade teacher. Watch be be totally basic by passive-aggressively projecting onto you like a pro.

 

[Rebis]

I have two different coloured socks on how am I not different? You just don't understand how my crazy mind works, I look at oceans and think of land.

1. My socks never match. Who has time for matching socks.

2. Land is formed at the bottom of oceans.

I am now crushing your dreams of being unique, just like my 1st grade teacher. Watch be be totally basic by passive-aggressively projecting onto you like a pro.

Perhaps thou is moody brethren, tormented by your iniquity?

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[moody]

Perhaps thou is moody brethren, tormented by your iniquity?

que..?

 

[Black Rose]

one of a kind, can not be replaced, not in time and not in space.