Edit: Uhrmegurd, so muh txt...
I don't know if I am understanding the OP correctly, so please forgive me for any redundancy or accidental wandering off topic.
From my interpretation, The OP kinda hits home. I have never quite understood the appeal of online or tabletop RPG games. I think this may have something to do with my own inability to immerse in fantasy though. I have come to understand that many other people have incredibly vivid imaginary abilities, and thus, RPG games would be a necessary outlet while also providing a level of meta-social interaction ideal for introverted types.
I have no trouble reading fantasy, provided it has a very good story line which never fails to grasp my attention. To do that, it must have elements of surprise/unpredictability, but not to the point where it is impossible to deduce an outcome. I also get that some RPG games have these elements of surprise as the algorithms provide enough options within the restrictions of that particular game.
Now, I'm of a generation that did not grow up with computers and I was additionally not exposed to groups where people engaged in such activities, so I may have a very wrong impression, forgive me if that is the case. I have engaged in roleplay where I could build a character but I had severe trouble focussing on this task as I got very bored with the limitations inherent in a human- designed character.
I'm having equal trouble verbalising this....I hate words sometimes.
I am not sure if online typology forums can be compared to RPG games, but I think I understand why OP is making this comparison.
With the acquired knowledge of my type (or indicator) there was definitively a shift in perception of self. A new layer of identity, or a layer which emerged on the surface from years of sleeping below the surface. I think this is inevitable as we are highly impressionable beings, despite the notion of self-awareness. External reinforcement of subtle characteristics encourage more dominance. We have multiple facets to ourselves, and some become suppressed and others encouraged, depending on external feedback.
When I started interacting tentatively with other people supposedly of similar nature, the perceived possibilities for novel outcomes seemed to amplify tenfold. If all these individuals had recently come to a new understanding of their multi-layered identities like I had, there was a lot of room for experiment and discovery. Here was a different dynamic based on people of similar dispositions as opposed to people of dissimilar dispositions. Which one of them would have the most elements of surprise?
In my experience, having come from a background which seemed to me extremely limiting in terms of culture and level of dogmatic constraints - an online forum for people of similar disposition was a significant step up in the process of my own self-development.
However.....I'm getting to the point here, type is but one aspect of the general thing that is existence. We seem to evolve to become quite different people as we get older, and thus, activity on a forum is a point in time where one is finding oneself at a particular stage of development. So within the context of a forum for a specific type, I am releasing aspects of myself conducive to my existence at a particular point in time in order to communicate with other people of similar disposition. It is not actual roleplay (although it may be for some) but it is a focus applied to a specific audience. It is limiting in a strictly technical sense, but that is not how I experience it. For me, it is a form of liberation, with the added advantage of anonymity, and thus could be said to have a similar function as a character based on pure imagination, only with seemingly endless options for themes and strategy (although, I think modern RPG games certainly provide enough options, but only within the context of one particular game, although that limitation sometimes poses the greater challenge and thus pushes the players harder into problem-solving territory as time constraints and immediate threats allows for that kind of flow).
However, I think am lacking this type of imagination immersion for gaming, although the rapid problem solving and group dynamic within that context would be quite addictive.
....I think I just made the argument for why RPG gaming can be equally challenging, ergh, nevermind - let me continue the argument for why I think typology forums are better (keeping in mind that 'better' here would be completely subjective)...
The dynamics that emerge as a result of a group of people of similar disposition, and of similar intellectual capacity acting in a collaborative, but also somewhat competitive (technical or personal, depending on the individual) atmosphere surrounding a specific topic, where the rules and options are not prescribed as it is in a game, is to me very exciting when it hits a certain level of intensity and focus. Every contribution in the form of written words (and this is where the written word becomes a powerful catalyst for visualisation, data collection which further enhances pattern building, and thus higher acceleration of creative feedback processes bouncing between people which results in new understanding and different perceptions of the same thing) constitutes a new piece of the puzzle that somehow makes up a total.
Uhh..where the hell am I going with this. I'm still struggling to express what I'm perceiving.
I don't actually play a role here, but within the constraints of typology and the fact that we are also limited by not seeing people we interact with, as well as the absence of immediate feedback through subtle things like body language, etc - it is a restricted role in some ways. However, I don't experience it as limiting because the rewards of the somehow unpredictable outcomes that are the result of the unique dynamic within this group far outweigh the limitations, and is thus preferable to something like an RPG game.
Although....I've made them sound pretty fkn similar, haven't I....
