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Life-changing speech

LAM

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(You guys have probably seen this speech; itd Randy Pausch's "final lecture." For those who didn't, you have to watch it.)

YouTube- Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams

A bit long at 1 hour and 16 mins, but worth every single second. This speech helped me understand life so, so much more than I ever did before. It helped me understand what I didn't before and clear up some misconceptions I had before.

Edit: he died on the 25th of July 2008 of pancreatic cancer. This speech was his last official speech.
 

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*added to stuff to watch for tomorrow* too tired right now
 

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I just watched this and have to say something, yet have no idea what. I think this is my shortest ever post!
 

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I would have loved to have him as a professor. I have nothing but respect for someone who can live so fully despite the hardships he faced.

He really is an example for how to live your dreams.
 

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...and as always with these kinds of things we made money hand over fist at the book store. *sigh*
 

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...and as always with these kinds of things we made money hand over fist at the book store. *sigh*

Why the sigh? Do you think his book sold well because it was popular? Was it something else?
 

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It reminds me of how every time a famous author dies and suddenly everybody is reading their old books. Most recently it was Salinger. We sold out of Catcher in the Rye within two days. Previously we had 10 copies and not a single one had sold in over a month. We jokingly call it death advertising.

It is inspiring however how some people prevail emotionally over the prospect of their own impending death. But then again, I've always thought death was just the next journey.
 

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I just watched this and have to say something, yet have no idea what. I think this is my shortest ever post!

Same, I thought I had to say something but I had no idea what it actually was.
 

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It reminds me of how every time a famous author dies and suddenly everybody is reading their old books. Most recently it was Salinger. We sold out of Catcher in the Rye within two days. Previously we had 10 copies and not a single one had sold in over a month. We jokingly call it death advertising.

What a coincidence!
 

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I still haven't worked out what my reaction to this is. It wasn't the initial self-hatred induced by loosing my memory thus having no idea of my childhood dreams are, so being aimless. It wasn't the jealousy that no-one gave a shit about me growing up where this guy was practically pushed to seemingly the ideal job. It wasn't even the resentment that I've wasted my life by any standard imaginable - I've achieved nothing academically, am still a social retard and have never spent any significant time or money helping anyone/thing.

Yet this really was life changing - I haven't felt this negative in 7 months. Thanks LAM :(
 

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I still haven't worked out what my reaction to this is. It wasn't the initial self-hatred induced by loosing my memory thus having no idea of my childhood dreams are, so being aimless. It wasn't the jealousy that no-one gave a shit about me growing up where this guy was practically pushed to seemingly the ideal job. It wasn't even the resentment that I've wasted my life by any standard imaginable - I've achieved nothing academically, am still a social retard and have never spent any significant time or money helping anyone/thing.

Yet this really was life changing - I haven't felt this negative in 7 months. Thanks LAM :(

Wow, see this is exactly what I was trying to show you. That guy approaches his problems with optimism. Now I am going to differ between what a man like the guy speaking in my video would do and what someone of a self-deafeatist disposition would do. I might sound harsh but all you gave me in that post was self-defeatist emo BS which I hate coming from people like you, who have probably got the intelligence to do something in this world.

Instead of say, getting new dreams and goals, which you as an adult would want perhaps even more than fulfilling childhood dreams, you instead chose to limit yourself to moping about it.

Instead of trying to not become a social retard or at least trying to find people who are similar to you and understand your pain and confusion or at least will accept you for who you are, you chose to mope about it.

Instead of applying to trade jobs, working as a charity worker in far away countries, moving to a country with more job opportunities or joining the army (only 25% are foot soldiers you know. Many are mechanics, engineers, administrative, intelligence, etc. This would set you up with money, education, perhaps even housing.) You chose to continue with a dead end job; situational slavery, even though you apparently have nothing to lose in your life.

You hate yourself because you think you should be and could be doing better. Except its not really going to happen with this attitude, which drives other people off, assures your defeat and consequentially assures you see those defeats and the world in increasingly dark shades. Now if you found love, chances are that you might rise above this hidden self-destructive cycle or maybe lose her/him because of it as well. Maybe you never will find love in the first place if you only see everything as crap (I know that basically to find love you have to be searching for it, but sometimes it chances upon people. you never know :P)

Maybe now you understand why this video is so good. It shows you a man who has had a decent life, which he never would have had if he didn't "go through the brick walls." He went the extra mile whenever he could and he got his rewards. Just because you have to go 2 extra miles doesn't mean its impossible. It just means you will hopefully come to value successes and learning from mistakes as much as Randy. Randy is an inspiration not because he had a sheltered life, but because he has one of the best attitudes to leading and appreciating life.
 

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Sorry LAM, you seem to have missed the not's at the start of each sentence. Those things did cross my mind but I'm far from the self hating emo you interpreted from that post though I can see why you'd think I was. That is what I mean by a social retard - even in this forum of like-minded people I am misunderstood. I'm trying to improve, honest!

This guy may have been thrown through a wall (into what appears to be an elite educational institution, which then employed him...) and having got lucky he helped many equally lucky/rich kids at that institution have lots of fun. He also admits to lying for personal gain though, which is hardly commendable but the charity work probably makes up for this if I were to believe in a God keeping score to see if he qualifies for heaven or not.

His legacy appears to be a "fun" way to brainwash children, especially teenage girls, into being computer programmers. He talks of the benefits of learning life skills playing football while encouraging them to sit in front of a computer - is that not sad and hypocritical? Another depressing thing is more obvious, the guy died young of a disease caused by humanity. As happens to many good people...

Maybe I should watch it again in the hope of truly working out what my reaction is.
 

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Sorry LAM, you seem to have missed the not's at the start of each ]sentence. Those things did cross my mind but I'm far from the self hating emo you interpreted from that post though I can see why you'd think I was. That is what I mean by a social retard - even in this forum of like-minded people I am misunderstood. I'm trying to improve, honest!

This guy may have been thrown through a wall (into what appears to be an elite educational institution, which then employed him...) and having got lucky he helped many equally lucky/rich kids at that institution have lots of fun. He also admits to lying for personal gain though, which is hardly commendable but the charity work probably makes up for this if I were to believe in a God keeping score to see if he qualifies for heaven or not.

His legacy appears to be a "fun" way to brainwash children, especially teenage girls, into being computer programmers. He talks of the benefits of learning life skills playing football while encouraging them to sit in front of a computer - is that not sad and hypocritical? Another depressing thing is more obvious, the guy died young of a disease caused by humanity. As happens to many good people...

Maybe I should watch it again in the hope of truly working out what my reaction is.[QUOTE/]

I didn't think you were an emo. I wasn't even addressing this specifically to you, but to people to whom it might apply more. And also to explain in part what some of the things that the video showed.

however, i still think the mental mindset thing applies to you to some extent. I mean, that is quite easily the worst possible examination of the situation you could have while still having logical integrity. Basically it is a really, really pessimistic point of view. It is far from optimistic or neutral, because you basically only noticed the bad.

In my view his legacy is a highly succesful learning tool to teach people in a fun way about programming. (especially teenage girls and other groups of people who are extremely unlikely to takeup programming.) All of his other work as well was to create fun ways for young people to use their creativity. Basically he is helping to teach a generation of right-brain users to programming in very effective and enjoyable ways. it doesn't matter who he helped, at least he changed the world for the better. So what if the lucky or rich kids benefited from his work, at least someone did.

Pointing out that he lied to achieve one of his childhood dreams is picking at minuscule details that basically nobody else cared about. The fact that he advises people to get some "Head fake" learning with extracurricular activities such as sport-although it could be drama and other things as well- has very little to do with him developing fun ways to teach programming to teenagers. You can easily do both and not once did he say to people to sit in their homes all day learning to program. You just assumed the worst and made this into a deeply unrealistic hypocrisy that disparages with probability or reality.

And also, seriously, cancer has been with humanity for the entirety of human existance. It is something that can happen to everyone, because it involves cells which to put it simply "go bad." It does not specifically target good people <_< .

The pitfall of an INTP is getting stuck in a cycle where no information that doesn't agree with the existing beliefs is allowed to come in. The, in my view, serious lack of context, extremely stretched connections and extreme lack of any attempt to see things from his perspective (aka: he helped people,) make me believe you may be stuck in such a cycle. try thinking about things from a new perspective when responding to this post, maybe you will findout something to help you out.
 
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