I don't mean to say that I automatically assume something, I first must observe their behavior in particular situation, but once I get a general feel, it really seems like humans all have general archetypes.
Totally. There are some general behavioral patterns and motivations for those patterns that can be overlaid in order to get a grasp of the situation; the key is in getting enough experience with variances in the patterns that you either recognize when the pattern doesn't fit, or that something is part of the same pattern even if it looks a little different, etc.
It's the same thing general practitioners in medicine do, when they're doing a routine diagnosis and determining what tests to give, right? You're just psychologically diagnosing someone instead of physical diagnosing, and you ask more specific exploratory questions to hone in on the probable issue.
This is one thing that worries me about the field. I've been hearing lots of negative, "Why don't you just go into one of those useless fields like Psychology?". I don't understand why some people have such a negative view point on it, other than the abundance of HOOPLAH theories, which should be expected, and overcome, in any scientific field.
Yeah. I get sick of that crap too. I also hear it about profilers, probably partly in response to the number of TV shows out popularizing the field.
There are lots of sucky profilers out there, but the few good ones know what they're doing. And it's the same approach: They have a decent idea of theory and it's synced up with actual hands-on experience with real-life cases -- patterns in the field. You also have to include the proper amount of variance (i.e., weight) with every assertion you make. Again, INTPs are good at weighing truth statements and assigning probability to a given statement... depending on their understanding of the field and their actual experience level.
I get this all the time. My friends come to me for advice constantly, and as long as they do not involve me in their problems, I am happy to offer my aide. I really enjoy looking at "drama" from every involved person's POV. From there, I can usually come up with a plausible solution, or at least nudge them towards a solution.
Yeah. I mean, I try not to just "give a solution" but sometimes we can just come out with some very "common sense" rationalities.
One of my favorite movies ever is "The Edge," where three men are stranded in Alaska and one is eaten by a grizzly, which then stalks the other two. They barely have any resources, no real weapons, and they're lost... and this bear is mercilessly hunting them down.
I love the intuitive rationality of the protagonist which really just comes across as "common sense." Most people would flee the bear until they ran out of resources and strength, whereupon they would succumb... hoping beyond hope that some random chance event would save them.
The guy (played by Anthony Hopkins) is a rationalist. He sees the answer in his head. If they flee, they'll wear themselves out and die. And while the bear is chasing them, they can't rest nor forage for food. The rational answer is that they have to kill the bear... which seems crazy to any other person, but it's the right answer.
(A similar situation appears in "A Wizard of Earthsea"... Ged is being chased by a shadow being that he thinks will kill him, yet is charged with protecting his village from nearby dragons. To get out of the situation, he does the most seemingly crazy and impossible thing but also the most rational, and really his only choice: Rather than cowering and waiting to die, he sets off to kill the dragons, so then he will be free to deal with the shadow.)
Likewise: I think we're really good at looking at people's situations, past their conventions and expectations and fears, and bringing them back to reality and rationality -- "Well, you might feel scared or it seems impossible; but <this> is the only real way out at this point." Once they see it, it's up to them to choose or reject it, though.
CBT is one of the fields I was definitely looking at, that's some interesting stuff!
Yeah. And I am not just the president but also a client!
