hamsham
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Hey everyone. I haven't contributed much to this forum, but I have been reading a lot of articles that people have posted. I just wanted to share my story with you guys.
I used to be an INTP. However, early this year everything changed. I'm now an ENFP. I'm curious to see if anyone else has ever gone through any kind of dramatic personality change.
I used to be reserved, philosophical, shy -- a die-hard INTP. In the middle of January, my mind began thinking about other things -- about a girl that went to my school. My mind went into overdrive. I didn't understand why I all of a sudden liked her. All I could think about was her. I don't know if it was because of hormones or because of my excess of thinking, but I was consumed by thoughts about her. My only problem was that I was shy. I was a terrible conversationalist. I didn't have the guts to approach anyone I did not know, let alone I didn't care to.
In the midst of my mind going into overdrive, I shared my dilemma with my best friend. He seems to be an ISFJ. He said that he actually knew my crush's brother, and he agreed to help me with my shyness and help me approach her. Ofcourse, I told him that I did not want to meet her at school for fear of me crawling back into my introvert shell and appearing as too unemotional. I told him that I'd rather meet her out of school, when the best was brought out of me while I hung with my friend.
Eventually, I met my crush's brother. He appeared to be a nice guy. But I think my friend spilled the beans about my crush on his sister.
One day, my best friend asked me to help him plant magnolia trees in his back yard. I agreed. As I helped him dig the holes in his yard, I noticed my crush's brother drive up into the driveway. He and my best friend's brother began talking. They walked out in the yard and acted like they weren't doing anything. Eventually, they started intentionally trying to piss me off. I didn't think much of it at first, but they began making fun of me for liking his sister. I thought that my chances of ever talking to her were ruined. Not only was I angry at them, but I made a fool of myself trying to defend myself. When my emotions came out, they were very childish. That night when I was lying on my bed, I was possibly the maddest I had ever been in my life. I experienced a landslide of almost every emotion.
After the traumatic event, I still liked my crush, but I began trying to forget about her. I became angry at myself for even beginning to think too much in the first place. I forced myself to stop thinking when my intellectual curiosity was sparked. Instead of becoming a shut in because of the incident, I ironically became more extroverted. Overtime, I became more social. I became less philosophic and became more of a jokester who lived with optimism.
As of right now, every time I take a personality test it shows that I am an ENFP. Every description of ENFP fits me perfectly.
My question to you, the INTP forum, is:
Has any one of you experienced a dramatic personality change?
Some days I wish that I was still an INTP, but I enjoy the childish optimism that my new ENFP self holds. Even my friends noticed a change in my personality. They said I was definitely less quiet and more open.
I used to be an INTP. However, early this year everything changed. I'm now an ENFP. I'm curious to see if anyone else has ever gone through any kind of dramatic personality change.
I used to be reserved, philosophical, shy -- a die-hard INTP. In the middle of January, my mind began thinking about other things -- about a girl that went to my school. My mind went into overdrive. I didn't understand why I all of a sudden liked her. All I could think about was her. I don't know if it was because of hormones or because of my excess of thinking, but I was consumed by thoughts about her. My only problem was that I was shy. I was a terrible conversationalist. I didn't have the guts to approach anyone I did not know, let alone I didn't care to.
In the midst of my mind going into overdrive, I shared my dilemma with my best friend. He seems to be an ISFJ. He said that he actually knew my crush's brother, and he agreed to help me with my shyness and help me approach her. Ofcourse, I told him that I did not want to meet her at school for fear of me crawling back into my introvert shell and appearing as too unemotional. I told him that I'd rather meet her out of school, when the best was brought out of me while I hung with my friend.
Eventually, I met my crush's brother. He appeared to be a nice guy. But I think my friend spilled the beans about my crush on his sister.
One day, my best friend asked me to help him plant magnolia trees in his back yard. I agreed. As I helped him dig the holes in his yard, I noticed my crush's brother drive up into the driveway. He and my best friend's brother began talking. They walked out in the yard and acted like they weren't doing anything. Eventually, they started intentionally trying to piss me off. I didn't think much of it at first, but they began making fun of me for liking his sister. I thought that my chances of ever talking to her were ruined. Not only was I angry at them, but I made a fool of myself trying to defend myself. When my emotions came out, they were very childish. That night when I was lying on my bed, I was possibly the maddest I had ever been in my life. I experienced a landslide of almost every emotion.
After the traumatic event, I still liked my crush, but I began trying to forget about her. I became angry at myself for even beginning to think too much in the first place. I forced myself to stop thinking when my intellectual curiosity was sparked. Instead of becoming a shut in because of the incident, I ironically became more extroverted. Overtime, I became more social. I became less philosophic and became more of a jokester who lived with optimism.
As of right now, every time I take a personality test it shows that I am an ENFP. Every description of ENFP fits me perfectly.
My question to you, the INTP forum, is:
Has any one of you experienced a dramatic personality change?
Some days I wish that I was still an INTP, but I enjoy the childish optimism that my new ENFP self holds. Even my friends noticed a change in my personality. They said I was definitely less quiet and more open.