How to Manipulate/Seduce a Sensor?

[Bedisa]

I'm a bit clueless when it comes to these folks. Really, how do you seduce a Sensor other than appearing slightly less capable and inferior, and implying that you need their practical help. What are some other weaknesses to play on? Thanks.

 

[Sinny91]

Haha, you nailed a few there. Dont forget to nod and smile.

 

[Pyropyro]

You do it sensually.

 

[Bedisa]

Haha, you nailed a few there. Dont forget to nod and smile.

My go-to move.

 

[Bedisa]

You do it sensually.

I'm glad you pointed that out. I do that as well, trying to associate the most pleasant of sensations with me and my image. Everything from his favorite places, colors, smells...

 

[The Gopher]

I'm a bit clueless when it comes to these folks. Really, how do you seduce a Sensor other than appearing slightly less capable and inferior, and implying that you need their practical help. What are some other weaknesses to play on? Thanks.

You're clueless on 70% of the population? I'm not sure if you should even start. Most manipulation/seduction will apply to a large percentage of the population so you don't really need sensor specific information just general social skills and questionable intent.

 

[Turnevies]

Have good looks, make much money, buy fashionable clothes, drive a nice car.

 

[Ex-User (13503)]

It depends on your goals after seduction (determines the sort of foundation you must establish), what type of sensor they are, and yourself (they may have certain expectations in terms of sex-based gender roles, or other things). So then, who has what respective genitalia, is your goal short or long term, and what's your best guess at their type?

And also, how soon are you likely to get bored? How rare is it for you to find what you're looking for, and how often have you actually found that your expectations have been met?

 

[QuickTwist]

How do you manipulate a sensor if they are smarter than you?

 

[Grayman]

Positive manipulation is the best. People want to be manipulated when it is positive. Compliments are a good example.

 

[TheScornedReflex]

Just treat them like people. Mbti is a novel system on the surface. The deeper you get, the more inconsistencies are revealed

 

[Grayman]

Just treat them like people. Mbti is a novel system on the surface. The deeper you get, the more inconsistencies are revealed

Have I ever told you how smart you are?

 

[Black Rose]

How to Manipulate/Seduce a Sensor?

bring cookies

 

[Kuu]

You do it sensually.

I thought I was the only one who thought this way!

I'm glad you pointed that out. I do that as well, trying to associate the most pleasant of sensations with me and my image. Everything from his favorite places, colors, smells...

That's not enough. That's bland, baseline stuff you use on anyone. That's the kind of "sensor" stuff that intuitives would notice. Sensors want some intense sensuality. Tango. Competitive sports. Concerts. Rowdy clubbing. Cooking. Massage. Touching and being touched by people (i.e you), and things (together), motion, sweat. They need to be swept up by the moment.

At least that's what I learned when I dated people with strong sensing. *shudders* Good luck keeping up their pace.

Of course if you could know the full type of the person that would be loads more useful... "sensors" is pretty broad. At least is it Se or Si?

 

[The Gopher]

How do you manipulate a sensor if they are smarter than you?

Other people's intelligence generally isn't relevant when it comes to manipulation as long as you personally have the baseline ability. The power is naturally massively swayed in favor of the manipulator by default unless you're dealing with paranoid people. If you're dealing with paranoid people then the power is undeniably with the manipulator.

Positive manipulation is the best. People want to be manipulated when it is positive. Compliments are a good example.

Positive influence. Win-Win manipulation.

 

[Black Rose]

if anyone needs practice,
something changed under my user name.
I feel more seducible already

 

[PmjPmj]

What type of sensor are you talking?

If Si, then talk about what's going on in the world of celebrities. Or tupperware. Or Anything else which is completely inane and would otherwise make you want to kill yourself. Si users are like this. They are the worst of the worst. Hate Si. Hate it in its stupid face. Then, dicks out for Harambe.

If Se, bring dugs and get ready to bang.

I fully endorse Se.

Si can get fucked.

 

[Jennywocky]

...If Si, then talk about what's going on in the world of celebrities. Or tupperware. Or Anything else which is completely inane and would otherwise make you want to kill yourself. Si users are like this. They are the worst of the worst. Hate Si. Hate it in its stupid face. Then, dicks out for Harambe.

...Si can get fucked.

But.... but you've made it sound like that's an impossibility!

 

[Sinny91]

What type of sensor are you talking?

If Si, then talk about what's going on in the world of celebrities. Or tupperware. Or Anything else which is completely inane and would otherwise make you want to kill yourself. Si users are like this. They are the worst of the worst. Hate Si. Hate it in its stupid face. Then, dicks out for Harambe.

If Se, bring dugs and get ready to bang.

I fully endorse Se.

Si can get fucked.

Lol, my ESFJ friend just knows everything about everyone in the world of celebrity.. and she knows most the community events happening locally and nationally.

In that regard she's like a walking encyclopaedia.

But gosh, she can't bare to be alone , and her mouth never stops moving. (Kill me now.)

She tries her proverbial hand at political commentary, but she lacks the mental depth to grasp none basic concepts.

 

[QuickTwist]

Other people's intelligence generally isn't relevant when it comes to manipulation as long as you personally have the baseline ability. The power is naturally massively swayed in favor of the manipulator by default unless you're dealing with paranoid people. If you're dealing with paranoid people then the power is undeniably with the manipulator.

It only works until they figure out what you are doing.

 

[PmjPmj]

She tries her proverbial hand at political commentary, but she lacks the mental depth to grasp none basic concepts.

To be fair, the same could likely be said about myself or any other non-Ti dominant.

I like to skim the surface of things. I'm seldom if ever 'deeply' interested in a subject. I like to skim and let patterns form.

To a Ti dominant, I think 99% of the population are 'fucking idiots'.

 

[The Gopher]

It only works until they figure out what you are doing.

Yeah but they'll only figure out what you're doing if you are incredibly bad/want to manipulate someone to do something outrageous. I just want to press the point home that literally everyone gets manipulated daily and there's not much we can do about it and it's not related to intelligence. In fact stupid people are sometimes far harder to manipulate for various reasons but I won't go into that. I'm not talking about stranger danger manipulation.

 

[Bedisa]

I thought I was the only one who thought this way!



That's not enough. That's bland, baseline stuff you use on anyone. That's the kind of "sensor" stuff that intuitives would notice. Sensors want some intense sensuality. Tango. Competitive sports. Concerts. Rowdy clubbing. Cooking. Massage. Touching and being touched by people (i.e you), and things (together), motion, sweat. They need to be swept up by the moment.

At least that's what I learned when I dated people with strong sensing. *shudders* Good luck keeping up their pace.

Of course if you could know the full type of the person that would be loads more useful... "sensors" is pretty broad. At least is it Se or Si?

The man in question despises everything from dancing, to concerts, to clubs...he rarely gets excited about anything. He is an ISTJ(Si), to be precise, a classic one who likes his senses engaged in very subtle ways, and like PmjPmj mentioned, is a complete bore.

In fact, he seems nearly impossible to seduce, due to his almost anhedonic nature. I liken him to an old man in a young man's body. What does work so far is making him feel like he's in control, more competent and more intelligent, which seems to be working. It makes his protective instincts rise to the surface, with a slight tinge of sexuality in the mix.

But I need more to go off than just that.

 

[EyeSeeCold]

Just ask him. Unless you are trying to be spontaneous? Wear a dirndl for him and serve hot wings and his favorite beer.

 

[Yellow]

I'm a bit clueless when it comes to these folks. Really, how do you seduce a Sensor other than appearing slightly less capable and inferior, and implying that you need their practical help. What are some other weaknesses to play on? Thanks.

Well, if you're trying to seduce a sensor, find a way to engage all five senses. Obviously the most effective way to do this is to spritz on a little perfume, give them a compliment, get naked, touch their penis, and sit on their face.

If you think about it, it's the opposite of how you seduce an INxx. With them, you have to quit bathing, mutter a lot, cover every inch of skin with fabric, fear all forms of intimacy, and walk away, leaving them wanting more.

 

[TheScornedReflex]

Have I ever told you how smart you are?

Smarter than that guy, right?

*points at that guy*

 

[Archetype]

Lol, my ESFJ friend just knows everything about everyone in the world of celebrity.. and she knows most the community events happening locally and nationally.

In that regard she's like a walking encyclopaedia.

But gosh, she can't bare to be alone , and her mouth never stops moving. (Kill me now.)

She tries her proverbial hand at political commentary, but she lacks the mental depth to grasp none basic concepts.

We all have our strengths and weaknesses in different departments, so to speak. Oh well, at least your friend can say that she tried.

 

[Brontosaurie]

SJ: Be appropriate
SP: Be confident