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How to be logical about love?
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Turniphead
Death is coming
As someone in the opposite situation(coming out of a long term relationship), I'm jealous.
My feeling brain says you should pursue, pursue!
Oh yah, logicsss? Umm...
Even if you do end up with nothing, you will still have the experiences you had throughout the relationship. They won't just disappear.
Nothing is permanent anyway.
Taking risks, is risky, but how else do you grow?
The moving or staying thing is tricky.
You are definitely still in the infatuation stage(not all relationships have this).
If you wanted to be "logical" about it, it would probably be best to wait the aprox. 6(?) months till you can think more clearly about the benefits/drawbacks of the situation. Boring.
What are his feelings about the relationship/you moving?
Besides the moving thing, I don't really see what the issues are. Unless you aren't explaining something about how he feels about things.
There have some probably not at all logical assessment.
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P.S. Why are you mentioning your Astrological signs if you are trying to keep things logical? Hmmm?
My feeling brain says you should pursue, pursue!
Oh yah, logicsss? Umm...
In my experiences with dealing with the pain of "loosing everything", it's worth it.
Even if you do end up with nothing, you will still have the experiences you had throughout the relationship. They won't just disappear.
Nothing is permanent anyway.
Taking risks, is risky, but how else do you grow?
The moving or staying thing is tricky.
You are definitely still in the infatuation stage(not all relationships have this).
If you wanted to be "logical" about it, it would probably be best to wait the aprox. 6(?) months till you can think more clearly about the benefits/drawbacks of the situation. Boring.
What are his feelings about the relationship/you moving?
Besides the moving thing, I don't really see what the issues are. Unless you aren't explaining something about how he feels about things.
The danger of this is what happens when you come "down to earth" and stabilize. Will the relationship still work. Will he like the "regular old you", and vice versa.
There have some probably not at all logical assessment.
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P.S. Why are you mentioning your Astrological signs if you are trying to keep things logical? Hmmm?
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Is there a limited window of time in which you can decide whether to move?
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Oh you are very young, and that is a lot of drug use. Did he introduce you to a lot of it?
Do you realize how vulnerable of a position you are in? If you were my son or daughter, I'd freak out and get you out of such a situation asap. I'm not anti-drug, but I know caution is necessary. It doesn't seem you've demonstrated one iota of caution and you're willing to give up a lot, because of drug/oxytocin highs.
I think you need a bit of sober distance and to avoid doing anything rash. You're so young. I know you're enjoying the whirlwind, but what you're feeling is not precisely what is happening. I'm not saying to automatically assume the worse case scenario, but this is how countless people end up in abusive/bad relationships they can't escape or with drug addictions. It's been a month, you don't know this person at all. Trust should be hard won.
I would have you confer irl with someone you've known a long time and can trust to have good judgement.
Please be careful.
Do you realize how vulnerable of a position you are in? If you were my son or daughter, I'd freak out and get you out of such a situation asap. I'm not anti-drug, but I know caution is necessary. It doesn't seem you've demonstrated one iota of caution and you're willing to give up a lot, because of drug/oxytocin highs.
I think you need a bit of sober distance and to avoid doing anything rash. You're so young. I know you're enjoying the whirlwind, but what you're feeling is not precisely what is happening. I'm not saying to automatically assume the worse case scenario, but this is how countless people end up in abusive/bad relationships they can't escape or with drug addictions. It's been a month, you don't know this person at all. Trust should be hard won.
I would have you confer irl with someone you've known a long time and can trust to have good judgement.
Please be careful.
Turniphead
Death is coming
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