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HOW DO YOU 'PLAY' DEFENSE?

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below is a very short description of one way to categorize people based upon their preferred Defensive tactics, as opposed to MBTI typing. It is interesting to start noticing one's own use of these tactics, not to mention the use of particular tactics by particular Others




Defence mechanisms
In Freudian psychoanalytic theory, defence mechanisms or defense mechanisms (see -ce/-se) are psychological strategies brought into play by various entities to cope with reality and to maintain self-image. Healthy persons normally use different defences throughout life. An ego defence mechanism becomes pathological only when its persistent use leads to maladaptive behavior such that the physical and/or mental health of the individual is adversely affected. The purpose of the Ego Defence Mechanisms is to protect the mind/self/ego from anxiety, social sanctions or to provide a refuge from a situation with which one cannot currently cope.[1]
They are more accurately referred to as ego defence mechanisms, and can thus be categorized as occurring when the id impulses are in conflict with each other, when the id impulses conflict with super-ego values and beliefs, and when an external threat is posed to the ego.
The term "defence mechanism" is often thought to refer to a definitive singular term for personality traits which arise due to loss or traumatic experiences, but more accurately refers to several types of reactions which were identified during and after daughter Anna Freud's time.

Level 1 Defense Mechanisms
The mechanisms on this level, when predominating, almost always are severely pathological. These three defences, in conjunction, permit one to effectively rearrange external reality and eliminate the need to cope with reality. The pathological users of these mechanisms frequently appear crazy or insane to others. These are the "psychotic" defences, common in overt psychosis. However, they are found in dreams and throughout childhood as healthy mechanisms.
They include:
Denial: Refusal to accept external reality because it is too threatening; arguing against an anxiety-provoking stimulus by stating it doesn't exist; resolution of emotional conflict and reduction of anxiety by refusing to perceive or consciously acknowledge the more unpleasant aspects of external reality.

Distortion: A gross reshaping of external reality to meet internal needs.

Delusional Projection: Grossly frank delusions about external reality, usually of a persecutory nature.


Level 2 Defence Mechanisms
These mechanisms are often present in adults and more commonly present in adolescence. These mechanisms lessen distress and anxiety provoked by threatening people or by uncomfortable reality. People who excessively use such defences are seen as socially undesirable in that they are immature, difficult to deal with and seriously out of touch with reality. These are the so-called "immature" defences and overuse almost always lead to serious problems in a person's ability to cope effectively. These defences are often seen in severe depression and personality disorders. In adolescence, the occurrence of all of these defences is normal.
These include:
Fantasy: Tendency to retreat into fantasy in order to resolve inner and outer conflicts.

Projection: Projection is a primitive form of paranoia. Projection also reduces anxiety by allowing the expression of the undesirable impulses or desires without becoming consciously aware of them; attributing one's own unacknowledged unacceptable/unwanted thoughts and emotions to another; includes severe prejudice, severe jealousy, hypervigilance to external danger, and "injustice collecting". It is shifting one's unacceptable thoughts, feelings and impulses within oneself onto someone else, such that those same thoughts, feelings, beliefs and motivations are perceived as being possessed by the other.

Hypochondriasis: The transformation of negative feelings towards others into negative feelings toward self, pain, illness, and anxiety.

Passive aggression: Aggression towards others expressed indirectly or passively.

Acting out: Direct expression of an unconscious wish or impulse without conscious awareness of the emotion that drives that expressive behavior.

Idealization: Subconsciously choosing to perceive another individual as having more positive qualities than he or she may actually have.[2]


Level 3 Defence Mechanisms
These mechanisms are considered neurotic, but fairly common in adults. Such defences have short-term advantages in coping, but can often cause long-term problems in relationships, work and in enjoying life when used as one's primary style of coping with the world.
These include:
Displacement: Defence mechanism that shifts sexual or aggressive impulses to a more acceptable or less threatening target; redirecting emotion to a safer outlet; separation of emotion from its real object and redirection of the intense emotion toward someone or something that is less offensive or threatening in order to avoid dealing directly with what is frightening or threatening. For example, a mother may yell at her child because she is angry with her husband.

Dissociation: Temporary drastic modification of one's personal identity or character to avoid emotional distress; separation or postponement of a feeling that normally would accompany a situation or thought.

Isolation: Separation of feelings from ideas and events, for example, describing a murder with graphic details with no emotional response.

Intellectualization: A form of isolation; concentrating on the intellectual components of a situation so as to distance oneself from the associated anxiety-provoking emotions; separation of emotion from ideas; thinking about wishes in formal, affectively bland terms and not acting on them; avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects (e.g. Isolation, Rationalization, Ritual, Undoing, Compensation, Magical thinking).

Reaction Formation: Converting unconscious wishes or impulses that are perceived to be dangerous into their opposites; behavior that is completely the opposite of what one really wants or feels; taking the opposite belief because the true belief causes anxiety. This defence can work effectively for coping in the short term, but will eventually break down.

Repression: Process of pulling thoughts into the unconscious and preventing painful or dangerous thoughts from entering consciousness; seemingly unexplainable naivety, memory lapse or lack of awareness of one's own situation and condition; the emotion is conscious, but the idea behind it is absent.

Regression: Temporary reversion of the ego to an earlier stage of development rather than handling unacceptable impulses in a more adult way.



Level 4 Defence Mechanisms
These are commonly found among emotionally healthy adults and are considered the most mature, even though many have their origins in the immature level. However, these have been adapted through the years so as to optimize success in life and relationships. The use of these defences enhances user pleasure and feelings of mastery. These defences help the users to integrate conflicting emotions and thoughts while still remaining effective. Persons who use these mechanisms are viewed as having virtues.
These include:
Altruism: Constructive service to others that brings pleasure and personal satisfaction

Anticipation: Realistic planning for future discomfort

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

Identification: The unconscious modeling of one's self upon another person's character and behavior

Introjection: Identifying with some idea or object so deeply that it becomes a part of that person

Sublimation: Transformation of negative emotions or instincts into positive actions, behavior, or emotion

Suppression: The conscious process of pushing thoughts into the preconscious; the conscious decision to delay paying attention to an emotion or need in order to cope with the present reality; able to later access uncomfortable or distressing emotions and accept them
 

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Isolation: Separation of feelings from ideas and events, for example, describing a murder with graphic details with no emotional response.

Intellectualization: A form of isolation; concentrating on the intellectual components of a situation so as to distance oneself from the associated anxiety-provoking emotions; separation of emotion from ideas; thinking about wishes in formal, affectively bland terms and not acting on them; avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects (e.g. Isolation, Rationalization, Ritual, Undoing, Compensation, Magical thinking).

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

Identification: The unconscious modeling of one's self upon another person's character and behavior


These strike me as most familiar to me although I suspect I defend in other ways that I don't have conscious awareness of.

 

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These strike me as most familiar to me although I suspect I defend in other ways that I don't have conscious awareness of.


I identify with the first three you mention. It took me a while, to realize how utterly valuable my sense of humor was (warped as it is), It perhaps, has saved my life on a number of occasions. I believe I crossed some kind of important milestone when i learned to laugh at myself, i used to take myself so seriously.
I also believe that may be a partial reason that so many find the 'fun' threads of this forum so attractive, we need to exercise that sense of humor...
 

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Fantasy: Tendency to retreat into fantasy in order to resolve inner and outer conflicts.

Hypochondriasis: The transformation of negative feelings towards others into negative feelings toward self, pain, illness, and anxiety.

Idealization: Subconsciously choosing to perceive another individual as having more positive qualities than he or she may actually have.[2]

Isolation: Separation of feelings from ideas and events, for example, describing a murder with graphic details with no emotional response.

Intellectualization: A form of isolation; concentrating on the intellectual components of a situation so as to distance oneself from the associated anxiety-provoking emotions; separation of emotion from ideas; thinking about wishes in formal, affectively bland terms and not acting on them; avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects (e.g. Isolation, Rationalization, Ritual, Undoing, Compensation, Magical thinking).

Repression: Process of pulling thoughts into the unconscious and preventing painful or dangerous thoughts from entering consciousness; seemingly unexplainable naivety, memory lapse or lack of awareness of one's own situation and condition; the emotion is conscious, but the idea behind it is absent.

Anticipation: Realistic planning for future discomfort

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

Suppression: The conscious process of pushing thoughts into the preconscious; the conscious decision to delay paying attention to an emotion or need in order to cope with the present reality; able to later access uncomfortable or distressing emotions and accept them

i'm guilty of all of these at some point or another (some more then others).

i would also add to the list "arrogance" or "narcissism". i know for me, i often put up a wall of overconfidence around myself in an attempt to hide the self doubt (and often times self loathing) underneath. it might fit under some of the other ones, because its often in the form of almost sarcastic hyperbole (think of the way Stephen Colbert speaks so highly of himself on the Colbert Report) or the cutting down of others, questioning their ability/competence (often through "humor") or pointing out flaws and inconsistencies in their behavior.

i'd also maybe add misanthropy to the list. its easier to just think that everyone else is flawed, stupid/ignorant, and corrupt on a grand scale. this could probably go hand in hand with narcissism, i suppose, but i think its for a different purpose. i can justify my own social anxiety by simply telling myself that everyone else sucks, where arrogance is more about hiding my own weakness.
 

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I am proud of myself, and proud of being proud of myself simply for the sake of being proud of myself and nothing else. My pride has no origin in objective reality other than the fact that its the healthier thing to do and I generally perform better when I feel confident in myself.

Call it stubbornness, obliviousness, or just plain stupidity, but no matter how distressing the situation, I find that it is important to remind myself that the natural state of the human mind is one of joy and contentedness. Negative emotions are unproductive. Fear is an illusion that is born in yet another illusion that your mind is not a tool that is under your complete control.

It may or may not be true, but I find it difficult to bring myself to care about that. What I do know is that this way of thinking is productive and is directly responsible for a lot of good in my life. It is a very powerful thing to realize that your mental state is something that is dependent solely on your choice and your choice alone, and that all you have to do is make that choice.

*Takes off rose tinted glasses*

This is until I am dealing with someone I actually care about.
 

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Do I use these Mechanisms?


Level 1

Denial

Distortion
Delusional Projection
I
hope I'm not using one of these!!


Level 2

Fantasy: Yes. (Just yesterday I was weeping my eyes dry, imagining how it would be if both my parents died, (I'm 16 and my parents are divorced.) even though I was having a totally different, very primitive problem.)

Projection: I guess I do a bit of "injustice collecting" but otherwise: No

Hypochondriasis: Possibly in small extent.

Passive aggression: Ummm... yeah.:o

Acting out: Not sure, I think yes.

Idealization: No


Level3

Displacement: Possibly, and surely to objects.

Dissociation: No

Isolation: No

Intellectualization: Yes

Reaction Formation: I think so, but if I'm doing it, I think I'm not very good at it.

Repression: Memory lapse sounds familiar, but I think this is something very hard to find out for yourself. I fear a yes is my answer.

Regression: There isn't much before my current stage of development. :D I think this I don't use.


Level 4

Altruism: In small extent, yes.

Anticipation: No

Humor: I think: Yes

Identification: I'm not sure if I really understand this one, I think I don't use it.

Introjection: Unsure Yes

Sublimation: I've tried, mostly unsuccessfully.

Suppression: No
 

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i'm guilty of all of these at some point or another (some more then others).

i would also add to the list "arrogance" or "narcissism". i know for me, i often put up a wall of overconfidence around myself in an attempt to hide the self doubt (and often times self loathing) underneath. it might fit under some of the other ones, because its often in the form of almost sarcastic hyperbole (think of the way Stephen Colbert speaks so highly of himself on the Colbert Report) or the cutting down of others, questioning their ability/competence (often through "humor") or pointing out flaws and inconsistencies in their behavior.

i'd also maybe add misanthropy to the list. its easier to just think that everyone else is flawed, stupid/ignorant, and corrupt on a grand scale. this could probably go hand in hand with narcissism, i suppose, but i think its for a different purpose. i can justify my own social anxiety by simply telling myself that everyone else sucks, where arrogance is more about hiding my own weakness.


These might be good defenses
They are certainly better than Denial
Sarcasm is a form of Passive/ Aggressive
It is fairly easy to upgrade it to
a more mature "Dark" humor

Oe of the greatest problems
In the Construction of Self
is the comparison of Self to Others
there are better Mirrors
for Identification of Self...

Matter of fact,
simply gauging One's Self
on the development of
More mature defense mechanisms
can be a useful indication of personal growth...
 

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I am proud of myself, and proud of being proud of myself simply for the sake of being proud of myself and nothing else. My pride has no origin in objective reality other than the fact that its the healthier thing to do and I generally perform better when I feel confident in myself.

Call it stubbornness, obliviousness, or just plain stupidity, but no matter how distressing the situation, I find that it is important to remind myself that the natural state of the human mind is one of joy and contentedness. Negative emotions are unproductive. Fear is an illusion that is born in yet another illusion that your mind is not a tool that is under your complete control.

It may or may not be true, but I find it difficult to bring myself to care about that. What I do know is that this way of thinking is productive and is directly responsible for a lot of good in my life. It is a very powerful thing to realize that your mental state is something that is dependent solely on your choice and your choice alone, and that all you have to do is make that choice.



*Takes off rose tinted glasses*

This is until I am dealing with someone I actually care about.

Applause from the Invisible Audience!!!


However, Pride and Shame are the two sides of the Same Coin,
Involving (perhaps) a misattribution of the Loci of Power,
speaking from experience, it is hard to indulge in Pride of Light,
without suffering from its Shadow, Shame...
 

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I kick the asses of people who haven't gotten a chance to prove they aren't a threat. Best defense ever
 

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Fantasy: Yes. (Just yesterday I was weeping my eyes dry, imagining how it would be if both my parents died, (I'm 16 and my parents are divorced.) even though I was having a totally different, very primitive problem.)

As someone who still uses fantasy?imagination
to resolve conflicts (mostly inner, a few outer) I don't understand why it is classified as a Level 2 tactic. Perhaps because of the tendency of some to become totally lost in fantasy (?) and not therefore engage in adaptation in the 'real' world?
I'm going to investigate this particular issue...



Level3

Displacement: Possibly, and surely to objects.

Good, some use Others as targets not Inanimate Objects


Intellectualization: Yes

The basis for T over F?

Reaction Formation: I think so, but if I'm doing it, I think I'm not very good at it.

Repression: Memory lapse sounds familiar, but I think this is something very hard to find out for yourself. I fear a yes is my answer.

EEk! that could be a self-fulfilling prophesy..

Regression: There isn't much before my current stage of development. :D I think this I don't use.


Level 4

Altruism: In small extent, yes.

Anticipation: No

Humor: I think: Yes

Identification: I'm not sure if I really understand this one, I think I don't use it.

Who are you Now? and who do you want to be?

Introjection: Unsure Yes

Sublimation: I've tried, mostly unsuccessfully.

Suppression: No


It is difficult to discern how one is doing
just by examining the current state of one's armor
The best Defense is a good Offense,
So it may well be that those who utilize immature defenses
do so because they rarely feel 'Defensive"
and haven't needed more sophisticated defensive 'weapons'...
 

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As someone who still uses fantasy?imagination
to resolve conflicts (mostly inner, a few outer) I don't understand why it is classified as a Level 2 tactic. Perhaps because of the tendency of some to become totally lost in fantasy (?) and not therefore engage in adaptation in the 'real' world?
I'm going to investigate this particular issue...

well, I'm 16, so I think I have a justification to use that tactic. (for the moment at least)


Intellectualization: Yes

The basis for T over F?

I think so, combined with N I can be very introspective and I like to believe that I can figure out a source of my problem on my own.

Repression: Memory lapse sounds familiar, but I think this is something very hard to find out for yourself. I fear a yes is my answer.

EEk! that could be a self-fulfilling prophesy..

I'll watch out for memory-eating monsters ^^


Identification: I'm not sure if I really understand this one, I think I don't use it.

Who are you Now? and who do you want to be?

Hmm... I think I'm pretty much of an "normal" INTP with an unusual strong Fe and extreme P. I would like to be more of a leader and I'm developing that one at the moment. Also, I sometimes wish to be less P. But I can't see who I would be building upon.



Side note about your signature: Do you know the saying: Silent waters are deep? (Maybe only German) If you add the first sentence of your signature, that would mean that "silent waters" (people) would say what they think. For IxTxs that sure is true. :D
 

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Side note about your signature: Do you know the saying: Silent waters are deep? (Maybe only German) If you add the first sentence of your signature, that would mean that "silent waters" (people) would say what they think. For IxTxs that sure is true

No, I was unaware of that saying. Although German was my first language, I 've lost it for lack-of-use (US Army brat, Mannheim-Ulm, my parents thought I was mute but the maid, Inge had taught me to speak German and we had long conversations in German - when my parents were not around which was quite often)

What is strange about your query is that I'd just posted my favorite saying ( in large font) on another thread that saying is
SILENT VOICES SOUND THE SAME!
 

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Level 1 Defense Mechanisms

Denial: Sometimes I intentionally push horrible things out of my mind to keep from going insane. I can't dwell too long on certain kinds of thoughts. If I do, I become quite distraught, often to the point of being inconsolable.

Distortion: I reshape external reality to meet internal needs when I intentionally avoid things that cause panic attacks. I structure my lifestyle in such a way that things I associate with traumatic experiences and ideas are not in the forefront of my thoughts.

Delusional Projection: I don't think I do this, but I am insecure, if that counts. I am always expecting others to judge me negatively.

Level 2 Defence Mechanisms
Fantasy: I think this is my main defense. I have a utopian fantasy world where everything is ideal and everyone is loving. It helps me get to the root of what is wrong in the real world when I make comparisons between the two realities.

Projection: I don't think I do this, but I am insecure and fear negative judgment.

Hypochondriasis: I do this. When I am upset with someone else, I experience quite a lot of pain. Perhaps this is because I am usually only upset with someone who has been cruel or insensitive, and the pain remains, sometimes permanently.

Passive aggression: I don't do this.

Acting out: I don't do this.

Idealization: I do this all the time, but I'm an NF. What do you expect? I try not to let it get too extreme, because it can border on idolatry if an idealist is not careful.


Level 3 Defence Mechanisms

Displacement: I do this, and have since I was about four. When I have an extreme fear of something, or am disturbed to the point of getting a sick feeling over the idea of a certain form of attrocity, I sometimes sexualize it to escape the unbearable anxiety associated with it.

Dissociation: I don't do this.

Isolation: I am incapable of this.

Intellectualization: I am incapable of this.

Reaction Formation: I don't do this.

Repression: I do this constantly. I have to, or I would go insane.

Regression: I don't do this.



Level 4 Defence Mechanisms

Altruism: I do this.

Anticipation: I do this.

Humor: I am terrible at this.

Identification: Does wanting to become more Christlike count?

Introjection: Of course I do this because I am an INFP. I consider my values to be the core of the self.

Sublimation: I do this whenever possible, but imperfectly.


Suppression: I haven't gotten to the point where I can intentionally focus on and accept traumatic thoughts and memories, so I guess I don't do this.
 

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Denial: Sometimes I intentionally push horrible things out of my mind to keep from going insane. I can't dwell too long on certain kinds of thoughts. If I do, I become quite distraught, often to the point of being inconsolable.

Distortion: I reshape external reality to meet internal needs when I intentionally avoid things that cause panic attacks. I structure my lifestyle in such a way that things I associate with traumatic experiences and ideas are not in the forefront of my thoughts.


What you say sounds more like Level 4 Defense Mechanisms to me. I suspect that it doesn't really count as a Level 1 Mechanism if you are aware of what you are doing and actually "know the truth".
 

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below is a very short description of one way to categorize people based upon their preferred Defensive tactics, as opposed to MBTI typing. It is interesting to start noticing one's own use of these tactics, not to mention the use of particular tactics by particular Others

These are used by everybody so that the ego can think that it is still in control. You most likely will not be able to tell when you are using the described defense mechanisms, only rarely upon reflection or after therapy would you be able to identify times you have been using these.
You cannot categorize people using defense mechanisms
 

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These are used by everybody so that the ego can think that it is still in control. You most likely will not be able to tell when you are using the described defense mechanisms, only rarely upon reflection or after therapy would you be able to identify times you have been using these.
You cannot categorize people using defense mechanisms
I disagree, it is fairly easy to reflect on one's behavior and actions, particularly when one is left with a 'what's wrong with this outcome' 'feeling'....
However, although people can be categorized as immature, childish, juvenile or mature on a scale of Defense Mechanisms Employed. Such categorization is rather arbitrary and of no practical value except for purposes of discussions and psycho-education sessions...
 

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I don't really see how the defense mechnisms relate to maturity at all, since I consider some of the level two and three defenses less mature than some of the level one defenses. Acting out or being passive aggressive seems much less mature than just pushing the problem out of mind or avoiding reminders of it, because it is wrong to let your problems cause you to behave in spiritually problematic ways toward others.
 

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I don't really see how the defense mechnisms relate to maturity at all, since I consider some of the level two and three defenses less mature than some of the level one defenses. Acting out or being passive aggressive seems much less mature than just pushing the problem out of mind or avoiding reminders of it, because it is wrong to let your problems cause you to behave in spiritually problematic ways toward others.

I personally agree this 'evolution' of defensive mechanisms seems quite arbitrary.
I mean if we we talking about weapons of self-defense of a physical sort...
Sometimes a 'primitive' weapon such as a sharp blade may actually be more useful than a 'sophisticated' weapon such as a Machine Gun...
 

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Ill go with a 1 to 5 scale:

Level 1 Defense Mechanisms

Denial: 1
Distortion: 1
Delusional Projection: 1

Level 2 Defence Mechanisms

Fantasy: 3,5
Projection: 1
Hypochondriasis: 1
Passive aggression: 2
Acting out: 1
Idealization: 3

Level 3 Defence Mechanisms

Displacement: 1,5
Dissociation: 2
Isolation: 4
Intellectualization: 3
Reaction Formation: 1
Repression: 3
Regression: 1

Level 4 Defence Mechanisms

Altruism: 3
Anticipation: 1
Humor: 3,5
Identification: 1,5
Introjection: 1
Sublimation: 1
Suppression: 2,5
 

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Ill go with a 1 to 5 scale:

Level 1 Defense Mechanisms

Denial: 1
Distortion: 1
Delusional Projection: 1

Level 2 Defence Mechanisms

Fantasy: 3,5
Projection: 1
Hypochondriasis: 1
Passive aggression: 2
Acting out: 1
Idealization: 3

Level 3 Defence Mechanisms

Displacement: 1,5
Dissociation: 2
Isolation: 4
Intellectualization: 3
Reaction Formation: 1
Repression: 3
Regression: 1

Level 4 Defence Mechanisms

Altruism: 3
Anticipation: 1
Humor: 3,5
Identification: 1,5
Introjection: 1
Sublimation: 1
Suppression: 2,5

Hey I think that is a very good classification.
I think that there are different versions of 'defensive' software
 

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I use all of these to a degree.

Level 1

Delusional Projection: Grossly frank delusions about external reality, usually of a persecutory nature. - I sometimes make negative generalizations about things.

Level 2

Hypochondriasis: The transformation of negative feelings towards others into negative feelings toward self, pain, illness, and anxiety.

Passive aggression: Aggression towards others expressed indirectly or passively

Level 3

Displacement: Defence mechanism that shifts sexual or aggressive impulses to a more acceptable or less threatening target; redirecting emotion to a safer outlet; separation of emotion from its real object and redirection of the intense emotion toward someone or something that is less offensive or threatening in order to avoid dealing directly with what is frightening or threatening. For example, a mother may yell at her child because she is angry with her husband.

Dissociation: Temporary drastic modification of one's personal identity or character to avoid emotional distress; separation or postponement of a feeling that normally would accompany a situation or thought.

Isolation: Separation of feelings from ideas and events, for example, describing a murder with graphic details with no emotional response.

Intellectualization: A form of isolation; concentrating on the intellectual components of a situation so as to distance oneself from the associated anxiety-provoking emotions; separation of emotion from ideas; thinking about wishes in formal, affectively bland terms and not acting on them; avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects (e.g. Isolation, Rationalization, Ritual, Undoing, Compensation, Magical thinking).

Level 4

Altruism: Constructive service to others that brings pleasure and personal satisfaction

Anticipation: Realistic planning for future discomfort

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

Introjection: Identifying with some idea or object so deeply that it becomes a part of that person

Sublimation: Transformation of negative emotions or instincts into positive actions, behavior, or emotion
 

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i'm guilty of all of these at some point or another (some more then others).

i would also add to the list "arrogance" or "narcissism". i know for me, i often put up a wall of overconfidence around myself in an attempt to hide the self doubt (and often times self loathing) underneath. it might fit under some of the other ones, because its often in the form of almost sarcastic hyperbole (think of the way Stephen Colbert speaks so highly of himself on the Colbert Report) or the cutting down of others, questioning their ability/competence (often through "humor") or pointing out flaws and inconsistencies in their behavior.

i'd also maybe add misanthropy to the list. its easier to just think that everyone else is flawed, stupid/ignorant, and corrupt on a grand scale. this could probably go hand in hand with narcissism, i suppose, but i think its for a different purpose. i can justify my own social anxiety by simply telling myself that everyone else sucks, where arrogance is more about hiding my own weakness.

(Sorry if someone's already said this...) Would this be considered projection (Level 2)? If you're acting like you're perfect and everyone else is horrible (hey, we all do it sometimes), and really you feel insecure, it seems like you are really projecting your self-doubts onto other people so that you don't have to deal with them in yourself.
 

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(Sorry if someone's already said this...) Would this be considered projection (Level 2)? If you're acting like you're perfect and everyone else is horrible (hey, we all do it sometimes), and really you feel insecure, it seems like you are really projecting your self-doubts onto other people so that you don't have to deal with them in yourself.

It is difficult to say. Chances are things are as they appear on the surface.
projection is useful when it reduces anxiety, i suppose that two people could think exactly the same thoughts but only one would actually be 'projecting'.
I think the way to start identifying when one is using projection is when people seem to irritate you for no reason. I have discovered, in my case, it is because they seeminly are exhibiting one of my own traits, which i do not acknowledge having. (Kinda like Jung Amimus/Anima thing).

There is also the problem of ascribing one's own motives to another person's actions (I also do this a lot)
 

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Hypochondriasis: The transformation of negative feelings towards others into negative feelings toward self, pain, illness, and anxiety.

i do this, though not with negative feeling for others, but just when something bad happens to me in general or i am unhappy. though i do it for a much shorter period of time then i did when i was younger.

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

Identification: The unconscious modeling of one's self upon another person's character and behavior

Introjection: Identifying with some idea or object so deeply that it becomes a part of that person

Sublimation: Transformation of negative emotions or instincts into positive actions, behavior, or emotion

Suppression: The conscious process of pushing thoughts into the preconscious; the conscious decision to delay paying attention to an emotion or need in order to cope with the present reality; able to later access uncomfortable or distressing emotions and accept them

i do all of these.

it is funny, looking at this i can really see how i have matured in the last four years or so.
 

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If I could find a clear definition of reality this would make a lot more sense to me.
 

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Above From the INTPian class of '09, what are some responses from the class of '13?
 

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I've never considered it a defense mechanism but anyway, these ones:

Sublimation: Transformation of negative emotions or instincts into positive actions, behavior, or emotion

Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.

That's about it. Can't remember the last time I had anything to be defensive about though.
 

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I can think of examples of me displaying all of the following defensive mechanisms, though they may not be part of my current repertoire.

Fantasy

Projection

Hypochondriasis

Passive aggression

Idealization

Displacement

Dissociation

Isolation

Intellectualization

Altruism

Anticipation

Humor

Identification

Introjection

Sublimation

Suppression
 
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