Freindship with ISTJ women

[Instart]

I would like to know what experiences INTP's out there have had with ISTJ women. I was friends with one for 23 years. Just curious

 

[Siouxsie]

I had an ISTJ friend once. It ended up not so well. Although we had some common interests and views I feel like we couldn´t get to comunicate well, there were a couple of things I disliked about him too, like he was an inconformist but wouldn´t go great lenghts for his own principles and desires, non if possible. It wasn´t a healthy friendship either but mostly because we were in dark places of our lives at that time.

In the end, not the most enjoyable friendship IMO. I think INTPs get along the best with INTJs

 

[Instart]

I had an ISTJ friend once. It ended up not so well. Although we had some common interests and views I feel like we couldn´t get to comunicate well, there were a couple of things I disliked about him too, like he was an inconformist but wouldn´t go great lenghts for his own principles and desires, non if possible. It wasn´t a healthy friendship either but mostly because we were in dark places of our lives at that time.

In the end, not the most enjoyable friendship IMO. I think INTPs get along the best with INTJs

Thank u. I think they gave some good qualities, intelligence and kindness are two of them, but I think they can be very opinionated and stubborn about resolving conflict

 

[Siouxsie]

Yeah, they´re very smart, I don´t know about stubborn, I´m very stuborn myself so I couldn´t judge haha. What was your experience with them?

 

[scorpiomover]

Very smart. Very good with numbers. Very reliable.

1) Be punctual with them. They hate it when people are late.

2) Can have interesting discussions on any subject they know well.

3) If want to discuss things they aren't really into, best move onto a different subject and talk about that thing with someone else who is/would be into it.

4) Have very good eye for bits of dirt and things being out of place.