Strategies for balancing your type
Recognize that your Perception habits can drive Judgers crazy.
http://www.neurocareusa.com/Temperament/Hints to Balance Your Type.HTM
Literally in some cases.
The P versus J thing was intereesting but so was this (good site!)
Conflict
1. I's may internalize a disagreement to reflect on what took place often rerunning it inside their heads. While it's helpful to mull over what happened, how you or others acted, and how to deal with the conflict, beware not to allow this internal reflection to replace dealing with the problem in the real world. I's tend to make a myth for themselves that the internal dealing with an issue resolves it.
2. I's may avoid expressing themselves in a conflict situation. Resist this and tell your side of the story
3. When dealing with an E, you may need to "overact" a little to get your message across in language the E understands. Let your facial expressions and tone of voice reflect the importance of your point.
4. As an I, you probably think you've said more out loud than you really have, because you've been thinking about it all in your head. Remember others don't hear it if you haven't said it.
Careers
1. Consider choosing a career that takes advantages of your depth of concentration, tendency toward specialization, and preference for an atmosphere that is not highly interactive.